Girlfriend ask me to choose between her and my female friend
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Dear all, Have this problem I am facing now.. I have a girlfriend which I have known for 10 years.. We got together in 2004 and broke up in 2011.. and recently got back together. In 2013, I became best friends with one of the girls I knew. My girlfriend does not trust that it is just a platonic friendship and insists that there is something going on. Nothing I said ever gets into her. So she threw me this option, me or her? Is there a need for such reactions? Why can't they co-exist? I ever tried to introduce my friend to my gf, but she didn't want to. This friend of mine is just a friend and nothing else. I see her as my buddy who can share things and somebody to talk to when feeling down. Maybe I am afraid of being judged by my gf when if I tell her some stuff. I don't know, but I really love her. Need some advice on what I should do? Thanks
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There can be only one lioness in the jungle.
Guess you have to choose......
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How many girls you need to share your emo with?
Your girlfriend not enough ?
Stop trying to justify your greedy mind.
If that friend is better at being your shoulder to cry on, then you are with the wrong girl!
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wanna bet or not
if u break up with ur gf, u will be with this girl
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Hi fire, That won't happen. We don't have feelings for each other.. Plus she has a bf. We're only bff that's all.
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maybe your best friend shd be your gf
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England Dan and John Ford Coley
It's Sad to Belong to Someone Else
Met you on a springtime day
You were mindin' you life
And I was mindin mine, too
Lady when you looked my way
I had a strange sensation
And, darlin' that's when I knew...
Chorus:
(That/Oh) it's sad to belong to someone else
When the right one comes along,
Yes, it's sad to belong to someone else
When the right one comes along.
Oh, I wake up in the night
And I reached beside me
Hopin' you will be thereBut instead I find someone
Who believe in me when I said
"I'd always care."
Repeat Chorus
Bridge:
So I lived my life in a dreamworld
For the rest of my days
Just you and me walkin' hand in hand
In a wishful memory
Oh, I guess that's all
That it would ever be.
Wish I had a time machine
I could make myself go back
Until the day I was born,
And I would live my life again
and rearrange it so that I'll be
Yours from now on. -
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this kind of gf dont wan also nvm.
marry liao will be damn jialat.
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This kind of bf throw away better.
Marry liao will go out make many many gf to share the dick with.
very jia lat one.
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@jojobeach I don't know about you, but I know my bff when I was single.. so things are different. I won't go and become bff with another girl when I am attached. I am clear about it.
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Do you have feeling for the other friend?
Of course you do. I agree, you'll break up with your girl and go with your female friend.
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Girlfriend, and best friend who is a girl can never co-exist together.
The sitcom "How I met your mother." illustrates it pretty well.
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Nope, no feeling.. treat her like a little sister.Originally posted by Sinclair27:
Do you have feeling for the other friend?
Of course you do. I agree, you'll break up with your girl and go with your female friend.
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Perhaps you are right...Originally posted by ditzy:
Girlfriend, and best friend who is a girl can never co-exist together.
The sitcom "How I met your mother." illustrates it pretty well.
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Originally posted by p228:
Nope, no feeling.. treat her like a little sister.
Since you got no feelings for her, then whats so difficult for you to let your friend go?
Now you have a girlfriend, then focus your attention and effort on the one that matters most lah.
Your girlfriend is more important than your friend.
Your immaturity will ruin your relationship when you can't get your priorities right.
the answer is very clear and simple.
You should have never put your girlfriend on the defensive. As a boyfriend you have failed her.
perhaps your girlfriend needs to go and find a real man who knows exactly what he wants.
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Either you cut off from your female friend or keep a distance from her.
If to maintain peace with your gf is important then please make a choice to protect your relationship with your gf.
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choose yourself
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From a girl point of view, i wouldn't want my boyfriend to have a close relationship with another girl, especially sharing his emotions and stuffs.
I felt that these kind of things is only best to share them with your girlfriend, she is supposed to be your bestest friend. And afterall your girlfriend is the only one who will truly be with you through up and downs.
Just think from another angle, what if she is the one who has a close best male friend and share everything with him, even the quarrels between both of you. Won't you be as unhappy about it too?
However, i guess it's still up to you to think through it and decide who is more important in your life.
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the issue now is the bestest fren is the girl fren not the gf
so girl fren shd be his gf -
Thanks! makes sense also.Originally posted by minxzhu:
From a girl point of view, i wouldn't want my boyfriend to have a close relationship with another girl, especially sharing his emotions and stuffs.
I felt that these kind of things is only best to share them with your girlfriend, she is supposed to be your bestest friend. And afterall your girlfriend is the only one who will truly be with you through up and downs.
Just think from another angle, what if she is the one who has a close best male friend and share everything with him, even the quarrels between both of you. Won't you be as unhappy about it too?
However, i guess it's still up to you to think through it and decide who is more important in your life.
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It's hard to choose between two ppl close to you and I don't think it's right for your gf to make you choose but on the other hand if you really did love her you would give up your friendship. So ask yourself 'do you really love your gf so much that you would give up every friendship with a girl you have?' bc I don't think this will be the last friendship you'll have to break for her