How do you not allow someone to affect you
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when the someone is the person that you care abt the most?
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It is not they who hurt you, it is you who choose to hurt yourself.
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Originally posted by Q.C.Pak:
It is not they who hurt you, it is you who choose to hurt yourself.
does not apply to all situations
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divert your attention away from what affects u... for example...
- change your focus in life
- make more frens
- diversify your activities
...etc
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Originally posted by kilfer:
divert your attention away from what affects u... for example...
- change your focus in life
- make more frens
- diversify your activities
...etc
sometimes diversions dun work. it just have to stay buried.
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
does not apply to all situations
You feel emotions... you project emotions.Apply what?
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Originally posted by Q.C.Pak:
You feel emotions... you project emotions.Apply what?
some ppl do not choose to get hurt but they are hurt by someone's choice. some people keep it buried in their hearts and not show others their tears, their hurts. they feel stupid and silly just by talking about it. some people vent it on others and keep doing it. the person the people vent it on, did they choose to get hurt themselves when they did not expect it at all the words that will hurt so much. they did not choose to get hurt but then when words are said, at that split second, the words act as double edged sword that pierce through the person's heart.
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
some ppl do not choose to get hurt but they are hurt by someone's choice. some people keep it buried in their hearts and not show others their tears, their hurts. they feel stupid and silly just by talking about it. some people vent it on others and keep doing it. the person the people vent it on, did they choose to get hurt themselves when they did not expect it at all the words that will hurt so much. they did not choose to get hurt but then when words are said, at that split second, the words act as double edged sword that pierce through the person's heart.
some ppl do not choose to get hurt but they are hurt by someone's choice.----> you mean humans emotions can be toyed around by another?
some people vent it on others and keep doing it. the person the people vent it on
----> this is because they cant handle their emotions well
they did not choose to get hurt but then when words are said, at that split second, the words act as double edged sword that pierce through the person's heart.
----> who doesnt get hurt in life? its not what happen, but what matter is how are you gonna solve it? if you don't, you are just staying there and not growing in life.
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QC Pak is right.
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Originally posted by Q.C.Pak:
some ppl do not choose to get hurt but they are hurt by someone's choice.----> you mean humans emotions can be toyed around by another?
some people vent it on others and keep doing it. the person the people vent it on
----> this is because they cant handle their emotions well
they did not choose to get hurt but then when words are said, at that split second, the words act as double edged sword that pierce through the person's heart.
----> who doesnt get hurt in life? its not what happen, but what matter is how are you gonna solve it? if you don't, you are just staying there and not growing in life.
some things cannot be solve at all because they are beyond your control but one can only hope that the person can put down the hurt that was inflicted and the suffering and misery that comes with it. human emotions depends on the things that happen ard them.
for example for wife and husband, husband has an affair outside. wife found out and she lose her husband to another woman. to add on to that, the husband's family blame the wife for her husband's affair. she did not ask to be hurt. she did not choose to get hurt. the biggest choice that she have made is to put her life into her husband's hands.
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I do not wish to explain further. That will be all.
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QC!!
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
some things cannot be solve at all because they are beyond your control but one can only hope that the person can put down the hurt that was inflicted and the suffering and misery that comes with it. human emotions depends on the things that happen ard them.
for example for wife and husband, husband has an affair outside. wife found out and she lose her husband to another woman. to add on to that, the husband's family blame the wife for her husband's affair. she did not ask to be hurt. she did not choose to get hurt. the biggest choice that she have made is to put her life into her husband's hands.
but when the wife found out,
she can choose to not be hurt or not.
it all still depend on the person.
life is all about choices.
there's no such thing as no choice
it's a matter of the other choices are desireable or not.
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
QC!!
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Originally posted by Q.C.Pak:
Ya?PCC!
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
PCC!
Huat You!!
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
but when the wife found out,
she can choose to not be hurt or not.
it all still depend on the person.
life is all about choices.
there's no such thing as no choice
it's a matter of the other choices are desireable or not.
do u think that she can choose not to get hurt ? if she's not hurt, if she think that it's ok, that what does it show the relationship with her husband then?
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there is a choice for everything. human emotions just show sometimes without any timing and without any choice that is made. it's amazing that human have emotions, for them to express sadness, happiness and joy.
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People you care about naturally possess the ammo to affect you...
more important is find out what was done and why you feel affected, and in what ways.