男人不知道女人的那点事

• reservistsianz

  19 Apr 09, 21:03

  tell la ! Paper cannot wrap fire one... Maybe it will prompt the other party to tell his dark history as well :P

  if it is meant to end better to end it earlier than later

• JerryYan

  19 Apr 09, 21:04

  Originally posted by charlize:

  Speaking of communication, should both parties be totally 100% truthful in EVERYTHING?

   

  What if one of them has some deep dark past secret that would destroy the perfect relationship if revealed?

   

  How?

  just pretend u r ignorant even if u know

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 21:05

  Originally posted by reservistsianz:

  tell la ! Paper cannot wrap fire one... Maybe it will prompt the other party to tell his dark history as well :P

  if it is meant to end better to end it earlier than later

  i mean you dun tell your other half what do you with your exs right?

• youyayu

  19 Apr 09, 21:06

  Originally posted by charlize:

  Speaking of communication, should both parties be totally 100% truthful in EVERYTHING?

   

  What if one of them has some deep dark past secret that would destroy the perfect relationship if revealed?

   

  How?

  there is no perfect relationship if there is secrets

  five communication levels

  1. clinche conversation - talk cock

  2. kpkb about other ppl

  3. own opinion

  4. emotional and feelings

  5. total, truthful open communication

   

  how many guys really reach level 4?

  not many.

  girls they will and easily reach level 4.

  for level 5 it require Both to be truthful. if there is any secert good or bad.. it should be solve. what past is the past.

• reservistsianz

  19 Apr 09, 21:07

  i mean cut the details la ! But if u got intimate relationship with someone better to say it la...

  cutting details is the trick to lie politically correctly :p

• youyayu

  19 Apr 09, 21:09

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  the values they have affect their decision to do things and also the way they handle the situations 

  we are all programmed by an emotion value from the day we are born.

  but this value should not be brought in to an relationship.

  a relationship should be pure.

  and mutual understanding and communication is needed

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 21:09

  Originally posted by reservistsianz:

  i mean cut the details la ! But if u got intimate relationship with someone better to say it la...

  cutting details is the trick to lie politically correctly :p