男人不知道女人的那点事

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:44

  Originally posted by Tbee:

  If i eat potato, Chinese will fail?

  no la 

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:46

  Originally posted by reservistsianz:

  Ya la not all men r like tat but u should realise why there r so many break up in this world... women expect men to be more loving or become better as time goes by but men keep sliding down instead. Men expect women to maintain the same for eternity but women suddenly become naggy and more easily irritated and keep starting the first punch.

  if both did nothing, a break up is imminent... for a healthy relationship both parties must work

  i agree that it takes two hands to clap and also two parties' decision to be commited to the relationship and also communication plays a part as well. 

• charlize

  19 Apr 09, 20:46

  Originally posted by reservistsianz:

  Ya la not all men r like tat but u should realise why there r so many break up in this world... women expect men to be more loving or become better as time goes by but men keep sliding down instead. Men expect women to maintain the same for eternity but women suddenly become naggy and more easily irritated and keep starting the first punch.

  if both did nothing, a break up is imminent... for a healthy relationship both parties must work

  In general, men expect women to be the same as they were before marriage.

   

  Women expect men to change after marriage.

• Tbee

  19 Apr 09, 20:49

  then you said i eat potato,
  i don't get it.

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:49

  Originally posted by charlize:

  In general, men expect women to be the same as they were before marriage.

   

  Women expect men to change after marriage.

  i think that women should not have this idea to change men before or after marriage, because in a relationship, people influence each other without knowing it. honestly speaking, what you see is what you get, people dun change that much. 

• kengkia

  19 Apr 09, 20:50

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  got another one below

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  spare a thought for the non-chinese forummers rachel...

  She falls in love with your performance not necessarily is good to you, she is good to you when not necessarily is wants with you to go to bed, do not misunderstand. She bustles about not necessarily is enriches, perhaps is only because lonely, therefore, if you fall in love with her, do not fear that disturbs her. She quarrels with you when not necessarily has the matter really, but is wants to act like a spoiled brat has not looked to the way, wrong thought that like this you will note her. Quarrels not to give her the time to be calm, in fact she does not need to be calm, she needs you to speak with her coaxes her. She wants to cry when do not ask the reason first, but at any time under any condition, first gives her a shoulder to let her have the dependence. She did not know how should manage when liked saying bids good-bye, was mostly is retreating in order to advance, although does not have oneself to back down frequently. She all day when talks incessantly with you, is because she is also liking you being willing to share with you, the woman does not love the way, is silences. She has become “the yellow-faced old woman” the reason often is because of depressed, but this kind depressed certain and your love related, therefore, can also change. She vainly hoped for when some not realistic are romantic, do not break her crudely, if the company vainly hoped for also withers the woman is more fearful. When majority she is dynamic, your always static state, do not be together when you need to interact, even if is lock horns. The women are Shui Zuo, therefore prefers is hot she also to leave is being cold she, otherwise a zero degree she will have formed the ice, was freezing you finally. Sometimes she needs to listen to some rumors, for instance wanted you saying that any you said anything, in you did not blush in the situation spoke of her to blush. She is worried most does not like a person treating, at this time she will not dislike that you will be bothersome, you will jump over with her are tangled up she more to feel better at heart. When she is jealous may not be amusing, the most effective means let her not have the vinegar to be possible to eat, or is drown to death in the vinegar cylinder, but you. Woman's tear not is a pearl, but you certainly each time regard them the pearl, like this she will only then become Lian Ku is very parsimonious. She spoke the words you to be possible suitably to neglect, but in she needs your time please to accompany side her, this may let her aftertaste frequently for a lifetime. The women are perceptual, therefore Chang Hui is some you to think the retarded matter, also because of this, she only then needs your reminder with to protect. After is not all women have been the mother, can grow up and become strong, therefore, the correct raise child's heavy responsibility is on frequently yours shoulder. She scolds your time is because loves you, she hits your time is also because loves you, on this spot and man's performance completely is just opposite. The gentle woman will also have the temperament, the strong woman will also have the frailty, the independent woman will also have the tenacity, you chose her please to undertake her.

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:50

  Originally posted by Tbee:

  then you said i eat potato,
  i don't get it.

  ang mo pie like that lo. 

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:51

  Originally posted by kengkia:

  spare a thought for the non-chinese forummers rachel...

  She falls in love with your performance not necessarily is good to you, she is good to you when not necessarily is wants with you to go to bed, do not misunderstand. She bustles about not necessarily is enriches, perhaps is only because lonely, therefore, if you fall in love with her, do not fear that disturbs her. She quarrels with you when not necessarily has the matter really, but is wants to act like a spoiled brat has not looked to the way, wrong thought that like this you will note her. Quarrels not to give her the time to be calm, in fact she does not need to be calm, she needs you to speak with her coaxes her. She wants to cry when do not ask the reason first, but at any time under any condition, first gives her a shoulder to let her have the dependence. She did not know how should manage when liked saying bids good-bye, was mostly is retreating in order to advance, although does not have oneself to back down frequently. She all day when talks incessantly with you, is because she is also liking you being willing to share with you, the woman does not love the way, is silences. She has become “the yellow-faced old woman” the reason often is because of depressed, but this kind depressed certain and your love related, therefore, can also change. She vainly hoped for when some not realistic are romantic, do not break her crudely, if the company vainly hoped for also withers the woman is more fearful. When majority she is dynamic, your always static state, do not be together when you need to interact, even if is lock horns. The women are Shui Zuo, therefore prefers is hot she also to leave is being cold she, otherwise a zero degree she will have formed the ice, was freezing you finally. Sometimes she needs to listen to some rumors, for instance wanted you saying that any you said anything, in you did not blush in the situation spoke of her to blush. She is worried most does not like a person treating, at this time she will not dislike that you will be bothersome, you will jump over with her are tangled up she more to feel better at heart. When she is jealous may not be amusing, the most effective means let her not have the vinegar to be possible to eat, or is drown to death in the vinegar cylinder, but you. Woman's tear not is a pearl, but you certainly each time regard them the pearl, like this she will only then become Lian Ku is very parsimonious. She spoke the words you to be possible suitably to neglect, but in she needs your time please to accompany side her, this may let her aftertaste frequently for a lifetime. The women are perceptual, therefore Chang Hui is some you to think the retarded matter, also because of this, she only then needs your reminder with to protect. After is not all women have been the mother, can grow up and become strong, therefore, the correct raise child's heavy responsibility is on frequently yours shoulder. She scolds your time is because loves you, she hits your time is also because loves you, on this spot and man's performance completely is just opposite. The gentle woman will also have the temperament, the strong woman will also have the frailty, the independent woman will also have the tenacity, you chose her please to undertake her.

  so long. dun knoe how to translate mah. you be my translator for every chinese post i post ok?

• youyayu

  19 Apr 09, 20:52

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  i agree it's both sides. 

  some women do not try to understand men. it's the same with men as well not trying to understand women. 

  i just think that not all humans are perfect , and some do make mistakes. but if both sides are honest and communicate regularly and tell each other the truth about each other, i think watever problems they have, they can face it together 

  and how many of them now its not doing that.

  breaking up. divorcing.

  recently i know a girl that nv tried to understand his bf. on the other side the bf also nv really understand the girl

  communication is the key to a happy relationship

  some people are adult adolescence.

  they are still not in a state to go into a relationship but they still do any way.

   

  1. Financially irresponsible.

  when i say this. the true meaning is not rich husband/wife

  if your husband is earning 10k a month

  yes wife might no need to work, but at least control your spending and not buying riduculous stuff

   

  for husband that has wife that can earn. so what

  as a man god purpose is to make man lead. and even when wife is providing more on the table. he should try and put even more bread on the table.

   

• kengkia

  19 Apr 09, 20:53

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  so long. dun knoe how to translate mah. you be my translator for every chinese post i post ok?

  ask babelfish...

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:54

  Originally posted by youyayu:

  and how many of them now its not doing that.

  breaking up. divorcing.

  recently i know a girl that nv tried to understand his bf. on the other side the bf also nv really understand the girl

  communication is the key to a happy relationship

  some people are adult adolescence.

  they are still not in a state to go into a relationship but they still do any way.

   

  1. Financially irresponsible.

  when i say this. the true meaning is not rich husband/wife

  if your husband is earning 10k a month

  yes wife might no need to work, but at least control your spending and not buying riduculous stuff

   

  for husband that has wife that can earn. so what

  as a man god purpose is to make man lead. and even when wife is providing more on the table. he should try and put even more bread on the table.

   

  some people's values are not what it is in the past. that is why there a lot of breakup, a lot of divorces. 

• charlize

  19 Apr 09, 20:54

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  i think that women should not have this idea to change men before or after marriage, because in a relationship, people influence each other without knowing it. honestly speaking, what you see is what you get, people dun change that much. 

  That's the problem with some women lor.

   

  They think that they can change the guy after marriage. (Using the "If you love me ... blah blah blah crap...   )

   

  The problem with men on the other hand is, they fell in love with the woman who was all pretty and nice and kind and caring and gentle and demure.

   

  But after marriage, when the make up is off, all hell breaks loose.

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:55

  Originally posted by kengkia:

  ask babelfish...

  i want you only leh 

• reservistsianz

  19 Apr 09, 20:56

  last reply on tis topic (I try not to write more -___-)

  For girls, don't throw tantrum and expect men to accept the punishment as though it is part and parcel of life.

  For guys, don't take it too hard... they r trying to attract attention so give them some

  please don't kill me for these remarks  

• charlize

  19 Apr 09, 20:56

  Originally posted by kengkia:

  spare a thought for the non-chinese forummers rachel...

  She falls in love with your performance not necessarily is good to you, she is good to you when not necessarily is wants with you to go to bed, do not misunderstand. She bustles about not necessarily is enriches, perhaps is only because lonely, therefore, if you fall in love with her, do not fear that disturbs her. She quarrels with you when not necessarily has the matter really, but is wants to act like a spoiled brat has not looked to the way, wrong thought that like this you will note her. Quarrels not to give her the time to be calm, in fact she does not need to be calm, she needs you to speak with her coaxes her. She wants to cry when do not ask the reason first, but at any time under any condition, first gives her a shoulder to let her have the dependence. She did not know how should manage when liked saying bids good-bye, was mostly is retreating in order to advance, although does not have oneself to back down frequently. She all day when talks incessantly with you, is because she is also liking you being willing to share with you, the woman does not love the way, is silences. She has become “the yellow-faced old woman” the reason often is because of depressed, but this kind depressed certain and your love related, therefore, can also change. She vainly hoped for when some not realistic are romantic, do not break her crudely, if the company vainly hoped for also withers the woman is more fearful. When majority she is dynamic, your always static state, do not be together when you need to interact, even if is lock horns. The women are Shui Zuo, therefore prefers is hot she also to leave is being cold she, otherwise a zero degree she will have formed the ice, was freezing you finally. Sometimes she needs to listen to some rumors, for instance wanted you saying that any you said anything, in you did not blush in the situation spoke of her to blush. She is worried most does not like a person treating, at this time she will not dislike that you will be bothersome, you will jump over with her are tangled up she more to feel better at heart. When she is jealous may not be amusing, the most effective means let her not have the vinegar to be possible to eat, or is drown to death in the vinegar cylinder, but you. Woman's tear not is a pearl, but you certainly each time regard them the pearl, like this she will only then become Lian Ku is very parsimonious. She spoke the words you to be possible suitably to neglect, but in she needs your time please to accompany side her, this may let her aftertaste frequently for a lifetime. The women are perceptual, therefore Chang Hui is some you to think the retarded matter, also because of this, she only then needs your reminder with to protect. After is not all women have been the mother, can grow up and become strong, therefore, the correct raise child's heavy responsibility is on frequently yours shoulder. She scolds your time is because loves you, she hits your time is also because loves you, on this spot and man's performance completely is just opposite. The gentle woman will also have the temperament, the strong woman will also have the frailty, the independent woman will also have the tenacity, you chose her please to undertake her.

   

  Fuck, the english translation is as easy to understand as the chinese characters.

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:57

  Originally posted by charlize:

  That's the problem with some women lor.

   

  They think that they can change the guy after marriage. (Using the "If you love me ... blah blah blah crap...   )

   

  The problem with men on the other hand is, they fell in love with the woman who was all pretty and nice and kind and caring and gentle and demure.

   

  But after marriage, when the make up is off, all hell breaks loose.

  there is always all kinds of problems ard. that is why i think that both parties have to accept whoever their spouse is, the real side of them i guess. 

• kengkia

  19 Apr 09, 20:57

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  i want you only leh 

  tao yan..

• youyayu

  19 Apr 09, 20:58

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  some people's values are not what it is in the past. that is why there a lot of breakup, a lot of divorces. 

  its because they are not grown up yet

  2 fully mature couple will have a good communication.

  break up occur because of failure in communication. not anything else.

  not because of values. its the state of mind as a human being.

  thats it. if you are willing to communicate. anything is changeable

   

  still it take both parties to do so.

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 20:58

  Originally posted by reservistsianz:

  last reply on tis topic (I try not to write more -___-)

  For girls, don't throw tantrum and expect men to accept the punishment as though it is part and parcel of life.

  For guys, don't take it too hard... they r trying to attract attention so give them some

  please don't kill me for these remarks  

  i will not kill you. i will only sayang you. 

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 21:00

  Originally posted by youyayu:

  its because they are not grown up yet

  2 fully mature couple will have a good communication.

  break up occur because of failure in communication. not anything else.

  not because of values. its the state of mind as a human being.

  thats it. if you are willing to communicate. anything is changeable

   

  still it take both parties to do so.

  the values they have affect their decision to do things and also the way they handle the situations 

• charlize

  19 Apr 09, 21:00

  Speaking of communication, should both parties be totally 100% truthful in EVERYTHING?

   

  What if one of them has some deep dark past secret that would destroy the perfect relationship if revealed?

   

  How?

• reservistsianz

  19 Apr 09, 21:00

  is that translated by google or something

• HiAy3Captain

  19 Apr 09, 21:01

  

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 21:02

  Originally posted by charlize:

  Speaking of communication, should both parties be totally 100% truthful in EVERYTHING?

   

  What if one of them has some deep dark past secret that would destroy the perfect relationship if revealed?

   

  How?

  discernment comes in place 

• rlsh07

  19 Apr 09, 21:02

  Originally posted by reservistsianz:

  is that translated by google or something

  i have no idea but it sounded a bit like broken english