How can someone fall in love
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with someone he/she never even met? what are the odds? i cannot imagine this
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1:100
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hmm..
i oso want to know.
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i oso want to knoe lo. got any cases of this a not?
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lust at 1st sight
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
lust at 1st sight
meaning it's not love wat, it's lust mah
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
i oso want to knoe lo. got any cases of this a not?
R u in this same situation?
Or hv u recently known someone and hv been communicating with her over fone / msn / forum, and afraid u may develope an affection, that u raise this thread?
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Originally posted by Dvon:
R u in this same situation?
Or hv u recently known someone and hv been communicating with her over fone / msn / forum, and afraid u may develope an affection, that u raise this thread?
no la i knoe this online fren , been talking with him for a few months maybe longer than that then he erm.. say he like mi without seeing mi in person, but he got see my photos all this. then he yesterday told all his frens that i'm his dream ger and that he have confidence i will like him too.
then it's like weird lo, i cannot imagine wat is he thinking lo.
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then now also dun knoe whether to meet him a not because dun want to give him the wrong idea
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got 好感 is possible
but lub?
pffffft
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he is a fren that is gd but he liking mi totally blows my mind off lo.
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Erm. Maybe he is delusional.
Or maybe he's lying!
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
no la i knoe this online fren , been talking with him for a few months maybe longer than that then he erm.. say he like mi without seeing mi in person, but he got see my photos all this. then he yesterday told all his frens that i'm his dream ger and that he have confidence i will like him too.
then it's like weird lo, i cannot imagine wat is he thinking lo.
i am also in this same situation.
Got this guy i met online, he has seen my foto in msn, n hv been sms-ing and calling me for the past one mth everyday. I find him kind of sweet fm all these gestures..
like he will msg me every morn and wish that i hv a great day at work.. if i'm out clubbing, dun drink too much, or when raining, remember to carry brolly, etc..
and me too, hv never met him. I wish he wld ask me out..
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Originally posted by MooKu:
Erm. Maybe he is delusional.
Or maybe he's lying!
i actually scolded him for talking nonsense but he still insists that this is his true feelings. i was like... dun knoe wat to say.
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Originally posted by Dvon:
i am also in this same situation.
Got this guy i met online, he has seen my foto in msn, n hv been sms-ing and calling me for the past one mth everyday. I find him kind of sweet fm all these gestures..
like he will msg me every morn and wish that i hv a great day at work.. if i'm out clubbing, dun drink too much, or when raining, remember to carry brolly, etc..
and me too, hv never met him. I wish he wld ask me out..
i have never wished that he ask mi out. maybe u are chiobu i du knoe la. but mi very fat leh, so quite unlikely leh. i dun even dare to think abt all these things lo. i only treat him like a fren, no romantic feelings involved.
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how? its like asking why 1+1 = 2
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
i actually scolded him for talking nonsense but he still insists that this is his true feelings. i was like... dun knoe wat to say.
I'm different online and offline. There may be similarities, but the online me is ultimately not all you've seen of me.
I say, take it with a PINT of salt. If he wants to go a step further, then do it face-to-face and not online.
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Originally posted by [J]erry:
how? its like asking why 1+1 = 2
1 + 1 = 2 is logical but this is not logical leh
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but do you truly have feelings for him?or is it just because you're flattered by the words he has said?
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Originally posted by MooKu:
I'm different online and offline. There may be similarities, but the online me is ultimately not all you've seen of me.
I say, take it with a PINT of salt. If he wants to go a step further, then do it face-to-face and not online.
he want to meet mi but dun knoe whether should meet him a not because dun want to give him the wrong idea. i want to treat it as hang out but he treat it as a date leh. sigh.. dun knoe la.
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Originally posted by eeden.:
but do you truly have feelings for him?or is it just because you're flattered by the words he has said?
i dun haf any feelings for him but i dun want to block him or anything because he's a fren that is gd to have. im not flattered by the words he say. i'm very angry by wat he say lo.
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you got tell him you're not comfortable with what he has said not?dont need block him la,,just let him know youre not interested.
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
i have never wished that he ask mi out. maybe u are chiobu i du knoe la. but mi very fat leh, so quite unlikely leh. i dun even dare to think abt all these things lo. i only treat him like a fren, no romantic feelings involved.
Why not just meet up first n see how things go fm there? No harm being frens rite? If he tells you his feeling towards u, and if you dun want to give him the wrong idea, u cld politely tell him that u dun hv any affection towards him lo.. but must be tactful not to hurt his feelings..Sometimes u'll nvr know de, maybe after meeting up, the time is rite n there is chemistry, n end up you both do feel comfortable wif one another, and things progresses fm there.. ?? If you nvr try, u'll nvr know lo.
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
he want to meet mi but dun knoe whether should meet him a not because dun want to give him the wrong idea. i want to treat it as hang out but he treat it as a date leh. sigh.. dun knoe la.
Be firm, darling, be firm!
Tell him he can treat it as a date for all he likes, but to you it will just be a hang-out!
Do you already have something for him? If not, why you so bothered. =x
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Originally posted by eeden.:
you got tell him you're not comfortable with what he has said not?dont need block him la,,just let him know youre not interested.
i already told him so many times lo but he dun get it in his head. i tot he finally get it le but in the end no he still dun get it