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Originally posted by Callan:
How to Jio girls?!? I think it is more how to be popular with woman, It is simple, just learn how to treat woman right, respect a woman and you would earn their respect back as a man. How to treat a woman right? I can't say there are any exact methods, but I gather a few guidelines that should be pretty decent.
1) Say the right things at the right time
This I reckon is a skill of basic Public Relations, a skill which many know exsist but do not know how to excercise. It simply means to be sensitive enough to read body languages, hidden meanings in words and actions. After your gather such info, analyze, use logic to decide whether it would be good to say something you want to say now, and or what to say.
2) Do not save on compliments
Why would you want to save on them? Compliments does good only when they are heard, not unsaid. It also helps to make a woman know what you like about her, and what are her strength, in this way, you give her confidence and spiritual support.
3) Be Gracious and Forgiving
Do not remember faults of others but rather your own, you can see a person in better light this way. Thus she would be more easily aceeptable to you would she not? Be gracious, nobody likes a petty man, and of course woman included.
4) Be romantic, but keep things simple
To be romantic does not mean that you got to spent hundreds of dollars on every date or such, but to be romantic can simply means the words you say, the things you do, the place you are in, e.t.c. You can have a star gazing night by the beach and not spent much but still be romantic. But of course you have to spent to spice things up once in a while but do not over do it, else the woman would feel like she is being bought.
5) Do not make her feel obligated
Do not go around doing things and then tell her that you are doing it for her and such. It makes her feel obligated to entertain you. And you do not want that, for once the obligation is over, so is her "feelings" for you. Just do things sincerely, for no purpose as to impress or make her obey. There is no point in such, it would become a trade then.
6) Little things do count
It is not so much the big things that count that much to woman, or I would rather say that it is not only the big things that counts. Simple things like opening the door, pulling out her chair over dinner, sending her home, constanly assuring them how nice they look just means as much to them as would when you buy a diamond ring. So do not forget these little things for they mean a lot too.
7) Touchy no no
You dun go around touching woman just because you think they want you to. Most of the time they dun. So keep your hands off, even if you need to touch them, do not let them feel threaten like you are going to eat them up. I have seen this gal who is pretty turn off by my friend when he attempts to hold her hand while they are crossing the road. Yes it is suppose to give her security, but think of it this way, would she feel uncomfortable? Actually from my expereince, what you just need to do, is to place your plam just behind her but not touching, and give her a little push if you need to hurry her across the road. Imagine the hilarity of a woman being drag across the road by a man holding on to her hand. Which looks better? My scenario I suppose, and it is polite too, you do not invade her physical space unnecessarily.
8) Understand their needs
The last and final part is to understand them, understand their needs. Listen when they need you to, talk when you are required. It is no easy task, for each and every human being is different, so this you got to work on it, you got to expereince it yourself to know.i think they are just trying to be funny that's all
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i can sense that this thread is going somewhere..
well done daisuke!
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Originally posted by Callan:
No part of that sounds like flirting to me....
dats cause i skip the flirtious parts