just thinking
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
is it wrong for the girl to take the intiative sumtimes?
No, it's not.
it's even more appreciate
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Originally posted by gunner77:
not wrong.look at that time the gal who wan to give me christmas present
she also take the intiative
but the girl take the intiative, the guy have the right to take her for granted?
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
but the girl take the intiative, the guy have the right to take her for granted?
i donno about this.
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i can foresee people going up bt timah hill... and this will be their discussion topic....
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Originally posted by sinicker:
i can foresee people going up bt timah hill... and this will be their discussion topic....
why is that so?
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
why is that so?
because u all are going out soon and the discussion has not reached a conclusion?
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Originally posted by sinicker:
because u all are going out soon and the discussion has not reached a conclusion?
the questions can never come to an end.
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1) lost interest
2) very likely no. everytime get rejected. who still interested?
3) nope. guy could be looking for sex
4) can but very difficult its not just the physical process u know
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
but the girl take the intiative, the guy have the right to take her for granted?
very subjective. in the 1st place a cat will even take people for granted. just wait there for food, what more humans. the girl should not expect anything. -
Originally posted by rlsh07:
but the girl take the intiative, the guy have the right to take her for granted?
ya, some guys might take the gals for granted, cos he will think he is very impt to the gal
nothing wrong with gals taking initiative, but make sure it is not a rash decision, like those kind 1 mth 2 mth crush, if not later regret
for myself i'm quick to make frens, but when it comes to r/s, i'm very slow becos it takes a long time for me to observe and trust a guy (who call you guys to have such a bad reputation!). i'm afraid of being with guys who are only after my looks / figure but not genuninely love me as a person.
I'm a cautious person, so will usually take quite some time to observe the guy
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Originally posted by candiz:
ya, some guys might take the gals for granted, cos he will think he is very impt to the gal
nothing wrong with gals taking initiative, but make sure it is not a rash decision, like those kind 1 mth 2 mth crush, if not later regret
for myself i'm quick to make frens, but when it comes to r/s, i'm very slow becos it takes a long time for me to observe and trust a guy (who call you guys to have such a bad reputation!). i'm afraid of being with guys who are only after my looks / figure but not genuninely love me as a person.
I'm a cautious person, so will usually take quite some time to observe the guy
hey candiz how old are you? i need your help i think.
u can reply me via PM. -
not too young, but not too old either, go guess
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candiz, pls check PM!
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Originally posted by sinicker:
candiz, pls check PM!
pls don't rush me
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Originally posted by sinicker:
hey candiz how old are you? i need your help i think.
u
can reply me via PM.Let's hope you are interested.
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
1) why a guy do not call a girl anymore?
2) if a guy ask a girl out, but then there is always like the girl got sumthing or the guy got sumthing, they just could not meet like that, would the guy want to continue to ask the girl out?
3) does it mean anything if the guy always try to msn the girl when the girl was online, call the girl if the girl do not respond to the msn or do not receive the msn message?
4) can a little duckling ever become a swan?
1) Think no reason to call.2) Making the guy feels the ger is avoiding him, and "normal" guy will terminate whatever action he does to prevent irritation to the ger..
3) Guy most probably wants to tok to the ger, becoz hes interested and wants to noe more about her... well, if he just want to tok, he can tok to ani1 online, not just you, becoz prehaps u r more important to him kinda..
4) no opinion..
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Originally posted by candiz:
ya, some guys might take the gals for granted, cos he will think he is very impt to the gal
nothing wrong with gals taking initiative, but make sure it is not a rash decision, like those kind 1 mth 2 mth crush, if not later regret
for myself i'm quick to make frens, but when it comes to r/s, i'm very slow becos it takes a long time for me to observe and trust a guy (who call you guys to have such a bad reputation!). i'm afraid of being with guys who are only after my looks / figure but not genuninely love me as a person.
I'm a cautious person, so will usually take quite some time to observe the guy
Yeah true agree that taking time to observe the guy before going into a r/s is a good move,
but from time to time will you send some so called "signal" to the guy that you have been observing?
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
Yeah true agree that taking time to observe the guy before going into a r/s is a good move,
but from time to time will you send some so called "signal" to the guy that you have been observing?
actually i will, good guys are hard to find!! if i don't make move he'll be snatched up by other gals!
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
what is your definition of ugly?
Koh 87. ^_^
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
1) why a guy do not call a girl anymore?
2) if a guy ask a girl out, but then there is always like the girl got sumthing or the guy got sumthing, they just could not meet like that, would the guy want to continue to ask the girl out?
3) does it mean anything if the guy always try to msn the girl when the girl was online, call the girl if the girl do not respond to the msn or do not receive the msn message?
4) can a little duckling ever become a swan?
1) Both parties play hard to get , i suppose.
2) Yes, if they have genuine interest in each other
3) That's a bit too possessive imo. Gotta give the gal some personal space.
4) Yes. Why not ?
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Originally posted by Yomigaeru tsubasa:
Koh 87. ^_^
u seen her before?
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
Yeah true agree that taking time to observe the guy before going into a r/s is a good move,
but from time to time will you send some so called "signal" to the guy that you have been observing?
yah observing very impt.
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speaking of being observed....
whenever i am in the office, i can't help but feel i am being observed by someone..as to who, i do not know..i hope it's not some bad thing coming my way
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Originally posted by Jianye:
speaking of being observed....
whenever i am in the office, i can't help but feel i am being observed by someone..as to who, i do not know..i hope it's not some bad thing coming my way
meaning ur being observed by someone? so u are the target of someone then ?
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The questions u ask all really depends on wad is the relationship between the guy and the girl.
If the guy is the one whom likes the girl, would have a set of different ans compared to if the girl likes the guy.
But if they both loved each other, the set of ans, would be totally different too.
So it depends on the context.