Who Comes Into Your Mind First?
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There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn't know which one he loved more.
Someone taught him, "Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly: When you are happy, which gal would you want to share your happiness with?" The one you think of is someone you love.
Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly: When you are sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?" The one you think of is also someone you love.
If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that's the most perfect. But if you don't think of the same gal, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.
In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover. If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you.
If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you. But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only thinks of you when she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this lover is too unstable, she doesn't treat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life with.
Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her happiness. But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in her heart.
If you are sad, who comes to your mind first? -
Would appreciate if u can add some paragraphs in your text...hard to read leh...
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edit liao...Originally posted by sgboy2004:Would appreciate if u can add some paragraphs in your text...hard to read leh...
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thanks...so much better nowOriginally posted by weidev:edit liao... -
no one. dun wan others to share my sadness. perhaps share my problems lah. but not the emotion.Originally posted by weidev:There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn't know which one he loved more.
Someone taught him, "Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly: When you are happy, which gal would you want to share your happiness with?" The one you think of is someone you love.
Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly: When you are sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?" The one you think of is also someone you love.
If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that's the most perfect. But if you don't think of the same gal, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.
In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover. If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you.
If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you. But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only thinks of you when she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this lover is too unstable, she doesn't treat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life with.
Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her happiness. But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in her heart.
If you are sad, who comes to your mind first? -
I think of a good friend who we both now we can only be good friends... nothing more...
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....hmm... tough question
.. hmm.. /e me looks ard.. hehe 
.. who else.. you la dear 
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whoa... tough one...
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but it would be nice if someone tells u tt u r the first person he/she thinks of when he/she is sad, rite?
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haha... wat if U r the one tat makes her sad... tat's y she tot of u... lolz...Originally posted by wuming78:but it would be nice if someone tells u tt u r the first person he/she thinks of when he/she is sad, rite? -
i'll keep it to myself...
it's my problem...
dun see the reason why i should share it without others...
i started it... i should solve it... -
jia lat.. i think of a guy...
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jia lat... is this good news or bad news...Originally posted by marlboro:jia lat.. i think of a guy... -
hm... den he/she prob cursing and swearing at me.Originally posted by weidev:haha... wat if U r the one tat makes her sad... tat's y she tot of u... lolz...