What would you do if you saw your wife...(Part 2)
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Your wife said she went to look for her sister-in-law at a club for drinks after work. The club closes at 2 am.
After the club closes, they are not back home yet after a while...and you called your wife. She says she is having supper with her sister-in-law at a place you knew. You tell her to come home and forgo supper, as it was already 3 plus am, and the next day is a working day. She says she is waiting for her sister-in-law at the supper place. You wonder...how come she nv drove her sister-in-law when she is alone.
You go down to the supper place to see what is going on.
When you arrive, you find her having supper with two male subjects whom you do not know. The sister-in-law is also at the table.
You approach the table.
What would you do next? -
Again... the lies is terrible... why bother to "lie"....?
It could be prefectly innocent... just that she doesn't want u to get upset or jealous and henceforth tell u a white lie. -
I feel so insecure
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Introduce myself as the hubby and ask the wife to introduce me to the two unknown males and introduce them to me!
Like,
Hi! I'm her hubby, Sum Seng! (turn to wife) So these are your colleagues...?
*introduce here and there*
Ha, so can I join you guys for supper?
Must fa1 wei1. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrowl.
When you get home THEN find out more about those two guys but don't sound like you're interrogating de wifey. -
Hi Guys & Gals
Actually, my (Part 2) happened directly on the same night after (Part 1) thread. AfterI found out on (part 1), I didn't do anything and console myself it cannot be anything more. I pretend I didn't know what happen.
I called again as I thought she would be home soon. But she told me she is going to meet my sister-in-law. Again she did not say she was with her male colleagues. that's where (Part 2) comes in...
It is 3 things in a night; clubbing with male colleagues, then continue clubbing with male colleagues at Mount Faber and then supper with male colleagues, thats drove me crazy.
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approach the sis in law for more info?
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bang my head on the table.
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Seeing your reaction, I believe your wife have a reason to give you some white lies.
The guys that you are seeing may be your wife's colleague or customers.
Imagine if she tell you the truth, you would rush down and pull her home immediately.
If u are in her shoes, would you tell your wife the truth and expect some shouting over the phone ?
So, maybe she just want some time to have fun and too pai say to tell you the truth.
As for holding hands, I am not sure whether our usual definition of it as a sign of relationship still applies, it may mean nothing to your wife and her friends.
If it is a true incident of straying, you have checked with yourself whether you have neglected her or refused to go pubbing with her.
Sometimes, it is easy to point the finger at the other party without doing some self-examination. -
I wanted to do that really...but she flying a lot for her job. I pai say to ask for her time as her time with her family very valuable...Originally posted by OasisBlue:approach the sis in law for more info? -
I think you are right...Originally posted by Medicated Oil:Seeing your reaction, I believe your wife have a reason to give you some white lies.
The guys that you are seeing may be your wife's colleague or customers.
Imagine if she tell you the truth, you would rush down and pull her home immediately.
If u are in her shoes, would you tell your wife the truth and expect some shouting over the phone ?
So, maybe she just want some time to have fun and too pai say to tell you the truth.
As for holding hands, I am not sure whether our usual definition of it as a sign of relationship still applies, it may mean nothing to your wife and her friends.
If it is a true incident of straying, you have checked with yourself whether you have neglected her or refused to go pubbing with her.
Sometimes, it is easy to point the finger at the other party without doing some self-examination.
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juz jump or divorce her...u dun trust her n she dun trust u...no point rite?btw how many years r both of u married?
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think u 2 got communication problems...
u 2 never talk issit?