I find myself happier now...
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I meet my wife less due to my permanent night shift.
I started to do what I wanted to do becoz I got all the time in the day.
I took up Class 2A and scuba diving lessons.
I went on a short holiday with my gd fd for a snorkeling trip, which I enjoyed so much, even though it is oni 3 days 2 nights.
Going again in a few months time.
I am planning for a major trip to Nepal in November to trek past Mount Everest Base camp, with the confirm local guide, programme and cost. I even saved up to about $4K to make sure I am prepared.
I am excited about my new experience. My dreams of 10 years is coming true.
My wife have nothing to say, but envy as I am so excited about my new found life. She can't join me..bcoz she is afraid of fishes in the water, cats and bathing without heater. Furthermore she enrol for a 1 yr course in Ngee Ann poly. Cannot take any long leave.
I find myself happier when I make plans for myself....and give her oni necessary attention and let her be independant.
My fds say I am living my life like a Bachelor again...Hmmm...
What do I watch out for to make sure I didn't neglect her? -
Looks like no one same plight as me.
Hmmm...a boring day...
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spend some time talkin to her everyday
sms her if talkin is not possible.. me n nel will talk for at least 5 min everyday
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Sounds good. Thanks!Originally posted by shinta:spend some time talkin to her everyday
sms her if talkin is not possible.. me n nel will talk for at least 5 min everyday
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thats good
but also spend time talking to her -
even u got new freedom, but still spend time with her, talk to her, go to the mall with her and hv sufficient time in bed too... good luck...Originally posted by Troy437:I meet my wife less due to my permanent night shift.
I started to do what I wanted to do becoz I got all the time in the day.
I took up Class 2A and scuba diving lessons.
I went on a short holiday with my gd fd for a snorkeling trip, which I enjoyed so much, even though it is oni 3 days 2 nights.
Going again in a few months time.
I am planning for a major trip to Nepal in November to trek past Mount Everest Base camp, with the confirm local guide, programme and cost. I even saved up to about $4K to make sure I am prepared.
I am excited about my new experience. My dreams of 10 years is coming true.
My wife have nothing to say, but envy as I am so excited about my new found life. She can't join me..bcoz she is afraid of fishes in the water, cats and bathing without heater. Furthermore she enrol for a 1 yr course in Ngee Ann poly. Cannot take any long leave.
I find myself happier when I make plans for myself....and give her oni necessary attention and let her be independant.
My fds say I am living my life like a Bachelor again...Hmmm...
What do I watch out for to make sure I didn't neglect her? -
Originally posted by Troy437:
Firstly, congrats for finding a 'new life'.
What do I watch out for to make sure I didn't neglect her?
Regarding your wife, yes i believe you should perform your duties as a husband by giving her ample attention she needs and bringing her out for dinner.
Spend quality time with her. -
oh ya... make time to be with her physically.. maybe do sth together?Originally posted by shinta:spend some time talkin to her everyday
sms her if talkin is not possible.. me n nel will talk for at least 5 min everyday
if u can't think of what to do... volunteer to do grocery shopping together with her -
Oh yes...I do noticed that she just wans me to spend time physically with her...doing anything, even just sit next to her reading while she watches TV.Originally posted by shinta:oh ya... make time to be with her physically.. maybe do sth together?
if u can't think of what to do... volunteer to do grocery shopping together with her
Ok I think I will spend quality time with her this long weekend... -
Hao Lau Gong!!!Originally posted by Troy437:Oh yes...I do noticed that she just wans me to spend time physically with her...doing anything, even just sit next to her reading while she watches TV.
Ok I think I will spend quality time with her this long weekend...
Steady! -
usually.... nel and i would be playing games.... he play ps2.. i play maple... den after 1 hour or so, we'd take a break... and give each other a big hugOriginally posted by Troy437:Oh yes...I do noticed that she just wans me to spend time physically with her...doing anything, even just sit next to her reading while she watches TV.
Ok I think I will spend quality time with her this long weekend...
or drag him out for ice kacang (this happens many times in 1 day i'm addicted to ice kacang 
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Yeah I feel a little guilty now...I think I have not been talking to her in a nice manner for a while liao...Originally posted by M©+square:Hao Lau Gong!!!
Steady! 
...Who doesn't want to be treated nicely. -
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I should really learn from you guys how to maintain a healthy relationshipOriginally posted by shinta:usually.... nel and i would be playing games.... he play ps2.. i play maple... den after 1 hour or so, we'd take a break... and give each other a big hug
or drag him out for ice kacang (this happens many times in 1 day i'm addicted to ice kacang ) -
remember to bonk regularly .....
no, seriously ....
sex is one of the key ingredient of a happy union eh ..... satisfy the wifey at least, else she may think you're straying .... -
we're still in the honeymoon periodOriginally posted by Troy437:I should really learn from you guys how to maintain a healthy relationship 
hopefully.. things will remain like this in the next few years.... cos.. who noes? maybe in 5 years we'd stop talkin to each other..
i dun wan that to happen -
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yea.. this is very important.. esp since u guys dun really have much contact..Originally posted by Fatum:remember to bonk regularly .....
no, seriously ....
sex is one of the key ingredient of a happy union eh ..... satisfy the wifey at least, else she may think you're straying ....
women... think of the weirdest stuff... when they feel insecure -
Hmm...you agree that you've such good relationship cos you guys bonk regularly?Originally posted by shinta:yea.. this is very important.. esp since u guys dun really have much contact..
women... think of the weirdest stuff... when they feel insecure
No worries, we are matured people here. -
I fully agree with that.Originally posted by Fatum:remember to bonk regularly .....
no, seriously ....
sex is one of the key ingredient of a happy union eh ..... satisfy the wifey at least, else she may think you're straying ....
Thats is a small prob...
We dun have sex regularly.
She dun like precaution, and she reminded me that she cannot get pregnant as she is not prepared.
I do satisfy her each and everytime, bearing in mind that I do not want to let her think I am straying.
And I have been a bastard B4...I had rejected her before when she initiated sex! But I had too many things to do the next day and I do not want to feel tired in anyway..
But she knows me...I nv stray. I have seen too many downfalls of my fds when married guys stray. One woman is enough to make my hands full! -
Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...you agree that you've such good relationship cos you guys bonk regularly?
No worries, we are matured people here. 
thats what i think... cos i've got some frenz who'd call me in the middle of teh night sayin i think he dun love me anymore.... its been xx days since we last bonked.. and we dun see each other that often anymore bla bla bla...
even if u bonk regularly... no communication = no happy/healthy/good relationship.
if u communicate alot, both u n ur partner trust each other... i think bonking or not shouldn be a very big problem...
we're in a good relationship cos we communicate, we trust each other. -
Originally posted by SGpork: ??? why you crying??
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Yeah I have read and learn on documentary....Originally posted by shinta:yea.. this is very important.. esp since u guys dun really have much contact..
women... think of the weirdest stuff... when they feel insecure
Women just love hugs, kisses and bonking from their hubby -
for me... just hugs will doOriginally posted by Troy437:Yeah I have read and learn on documentary....
Women just love hugs, kisses and bonking from their hubby
but not all the time lar.. arbo cannot do stuff oso..
better to have him within reachable distance...
sometimes play for a while... reach over to touch his arms for a while den go back to gaming
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hey troy.. i'm glad you're happier these days
but nepal, be careful yah? watch the news.. riots everywhere.