Guys. Do a self check with this list and find out if you're falling in this category.
We may find that there'll be a handful of them in AA.
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Seek approval from women
Cater or pander to women
Are predictable and boring
Call women every day or worse, many times a day (clingy, needy)
Try to buy their time and attention with meals, gifts, etc.
Are nervous, insecure or overly nice around women
Act like women's friends instead of their lovers
Are available at the drop of a hat
Tolerate without protest rude behavior, cancelled dates, etc.
Go out of their way to please women in the hope of getting laid
Let women control the relationship
Are afraid that if they do "something wrong," she'll leave
Grovel, beg, or are desperate for sex
Obsess about and over-analyze everything women say and do
Feel shameful or guilty about their natural sexuality
Let women manipulate them or treat them like "walking wallets"
Are lousy lovers