Holding a girl' hand
-
haha no no me jay walk expertOriginally posted by Bontakun:Alwaes hold hands wif da gal if crossing road, unless she can take care of herself lah. (even so, she will pretend she not so good & give U chance to help her...
)
....oops! -
Den next time yr chio gal frens wanna cross da road, do tell mee... Muah ha ha haOriginally posted by tha_schizophrenic:haha no no me jay walk expert
....oops! -
wei, i always follow yr post closely.....only thing u dunno nia....i'm a great fan of yoursOriginally posted by M©+square:Well, then you can give her a very assured look and say. 'Come on, gimmie your hand, i promise i'll let go after we cross the road. And one day, i'll want you to hold my hand.'
If she rejects, then it's ok! But at least you've shown interest and confidence. Keep Trying.
Dey, didn't read my post right?
-
-
my best advice is. keep yr nails well manicured. keep yr hands clean n moisturised... nobody like to hold dirty sandpaper....
n those who suffer frm sweay palms... gd luck... -
wow this is a good 1.......tq o wise oneOriginally posted by Bontakun:Yar....
*while holding hands, "U seems to dunno how to cross da road, here. Lemme teach U how..." i have receive enlightenment -
actualli hor, my gf held my hand 1st...
she pretend pretend say my hand veri big, long fingers etc, then she put her hand against mine to 'compare'....
mebbe u try the reverse?
-
Originally posted by M©+square:
Dear Deadpoet,
I'm not sure what's your position with your date.
It all seemed vague. I presume the relationship is in infancy period.
But since you wanna know some tips. This is mine(be prepared. It's kinda long).
It's a skill, don't expect to succeed on day one hor. Got to practice.
She's attracted to you. So the first level of introduction, cleared.
[b]Second level is something i call Emotional(Mind) Defence, in this level.
What you got to do is use alot of eye contact, mantain strong conversation subjects and keep her interested about topics both of you shared.
Humor plays a very important role here.
Girls just can't help but to be impressed with guys who could make them laugh(note: i didn't say Funny or clowny or goofy, big NONO.)
Until you find her relaxed and talking without any effort from you. Her Defense system has rested.
Totally comfortable conversation mode.
But you're still a distance from her.
A step away or a coffee table away from her.
Third is Physical Defence.
Get close to her. Be extremely subtle about this. Subtle = natural. You don't want to seem edgy and all nervous creeping near her.
Girls can easily read guys out in this.
Hey come on, it's not as if they've never gotten into dates before. They've seen bloopers and laugh it off too!
Back to getting close.
Lean close to her and brush her elbow or arm(with your arm of cos!!! don't brush them with your fingers.....-_-'')/ stay close to her.
When you're talking to her, lean closer towards her ears.
And check her reaction.
This type of touching is also known as a "kinesthetic approach"
Touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful hormone called oxytocin. Oxytocin also causes her to feel a bonding with you and to feel good around you.
Be a good observer now.
If she's frowning or shocked or nervous, then you know. But never take it as a rejection. She may not feel right the first time, doesn't mean that she doesn't want to contact you.
Now, doing this will give her a signal that you're being very comfortable with her. Liked her presence with you.
It further shows confidence that you possess in yourself. Confidence attracts.
So if she likes it and starts getting touchy with you. (You know? All the small punches, slap on your arm or *chest - Bonus!* Or givin all those cute smiley like expressions.) Her physical defense is down.
Start touching her hands...gently and SUBTLELY. Be a good observer.
Comfortable mode = take your chance.
Uncomfortable mode = one step back, two step front, understand?
Important point
Don't ASK HER!!!! 'Can hold your hand or not?' Jus Whack!
Keywords:
Humorous
Confident
Observant
SUBTLE
Gentle
Eye and Bodily Contact
Cheerios
[/b]
Impressive Any tips on how to hold other parts of her body? -
You really wanna know? Wait FireIce scold me.Originally posted by Devil1976: Impressive Any tips on how to hold other parts of her body?
There is. Actually, this post was a mild down one already. -
Originally posted by Devil1976: Impressive Any tips on how to hold other parts of her body?
For example the waist?
Actually the waist is a very sexy and romantic place to hold. -
REALLY??Originally posted by M©+square:You really wanna know? Wait FireIce scold me.
There is. Actually, this post was a mild down one already. 
-
QUESTION: How to hold her butt when she's sitting downOriginally posted by DeadPoet:
For example the waist?
Actually the waist is a very sexy and romantic place to hold. 
-
omigosh! i almost did this...Originally posted by Nothingie:actualli hor, my gf held my hand 1st...
she pretend pretend say my hand veri big, long fingers etc, then she put her hand against mine to 'compare'....
mebbe u try the reverse? itz true wod. guys hands very big very nice.... hehehe...
besides, i learnt palmistry.... hehehehe -
he first played wid my hands...(palmistry) he let go after i commented that his hands were too warm..
then when we were crossin the road he juz grab lor..(jaywalking..n i'm walkin really slowly.. :p) a few min after we crossed the road, then he let go
when we were in the shoopping centre, we'd grab my hand again, until not much ppl then he let go..
everytime he let go...i was so disappointed...
my ex power.. "i dun dare to watch horror movie, can i hold ur hands?" then he'd pull my hands over to his side when a scary part came out...double scare...-_-|| nearly screamed....and break my record of never once screamin in a horror movie... -
Originally posted by shinta:
Why didn't you hold onto his?
[b]he first played wid my hands...(palmistry) he let go after i commented that his hands were too warm..
then when we were crossin the road he juz grab lor..(jaywalking..n i'm walkin really slowly.. :p) a few min after we crossed the road, then he let go
when we were in the shoopping centre, we'd grab my hand again, until not much ppl then he let go..
everytime he let go...i was so disappointed...
b]
-
-
wad happened?Originally posted by boariggy: -
No hand to hold , hehe.Originally posted by M©+square:wad happened? -
whatever you do, don't try the HanHao method and sniff the back of her hand
muahahahahaha
funniest post ever!! go read!! -
LOLOriginally posted by the Bear:whatever you do, don't try the HanHao method and sniff the back of her hand
muahahahahaha
funniest post ever!! go read!! -
Yeahyeah....hey maybe it'll work!!! You never know!Originally posted by the Bear:whatever you do, don't try the HanHao method and sniff the back of her hand
muahahahahaha
funniest post ever!! go read!!
Bear! Try it one day and tell us! -
Hmm...holding hands ain't all that difficult.Originally posted by boariggy:No hand to hold , hehe.
Holding one hands for life is difficult man.
-
nah... if she's my friend's date, i'm just shaking her hand
if she's my date and mine, i'm not letting go!
(edited for bad spelling )Originally posted by M©+square:Yeahyeah....hey maybe it'll work!!! You never know!
Bear! Try it one day and tell us! -
No gf , nevermind.Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...holding hands ain't all that difficult.
Holding one hands for life is difficult man. -
Don't do that lah.Originally posted by the Bear:nah... if she's my friend's date, i'm just shaking her hand
if she's mine date and mine, i'm not letting go!
She needs her personal space...........
to the washroom.