Need help on friends :(
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My best friend, broke up with her bf just three days ago kept on crying when we talk on phone. I tried to comfort her but I didn't go into relationship before so I think my way of comforting didn't rly make any difference. What to do? I feel so sad seeing her like this.
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Bring her out to shop , eat and movie !! Or join some courses to get to know more people with her . Breakups alway hurts , it natural and take time to heal
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There is nothing that 20 tubs of ice cream won't solve.
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It'll pass. Spend time with her, go out or something. I think go swimming is good. If go out shopping also later she'll still think about her ex. If go swimming she'll need to swim around making her think less.
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give her some time to cry over it. just need to be there for her (:
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An idle mind is the devil's workshop.
Keep her busy and distracted.
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Originally posted by charlize:
There is nothing that 20 tubs of ice cream won't solve.
Ya, it really won't solve problem eating 20 tubs of ice cream. She will put on weight.
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As what people said,
Good vibe comes along with good foods.
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Greetings from The Modern Gentleman,
Dont worry so much about her. You're a good friend. Just do what you always do when you hang out together.
Provide a listening ear, show some sincere empathy and a shoulder to cry on. Over time, she'll move on like we always do. Sometimes, we just need someone to be there for us. Thats all.
P.s. Hugs for more than 8 seconds releases seratonin, which is our body's "feel good" hormone. Give her a nice warm hug!
Sincerely,
The Modern Gentleman. -
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There's always a limit on what you can do because it takes two hands to clap. Going through a breakup is painful so its not like one or two days of cheering her up will make her fine again. These kinda things take time So don't worry, it'll pass. I know it hurts RO see your best friend like that so All you need to do is to make sure that you're readily available to be her pillar of support!! In the meantime if it's your holidays, organize some fun outings that you and her can go to or get a group of close friends to hve fun together! Get her mind on something else!
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lol..for awhile nia the feelings...
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Let her cry and be there for her.
That is all
if she wants to complain about her ex just let her,
Is part of the healing process.
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Just let her cry her lungs out. I guess right now she just need someone who will be there for her to talk to, so just be there for her whenever you can. Hopefully she will be fine soon, took me 3 months to get over my ex of almost 5 years.
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Just keep her occupied..
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yeah, if you are a true friend, spend some time with her; go out.
It will help her a lot.
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Keep her occupied with other stuff! :)
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This is only something she herself can cope with. There's nothing anyone can do to help her forget or feel better.The best you can do is surprise her with comfort food (alwyas helps) or be there to listen to her problems. And its only temporarily, but just be there whenever she wants to cry :')
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Is too late for reply?
Anyway tell your friend to be herself and at all time building on good characteristics of herself as a person. Person of similar good nature person will value her character and easily click the chemistry.
Surely she has more class than hangging around with unsincere guy. It is silly to cry for losing bad fruit.
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heard her sing on you
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Just let your friend pull her hair out, ar no, cry herself out! 1) Firstly, remind your friend on the condition of her relationship, the relationship may has its faults and just as the other comments as suggested, take two hands to clap 2) Next, stay by your friend's side and accompany her to do her daily tasks ie grocery shopping, lounging at a common friend's place 3) A little suggestion, choose a day out and enjoy fun of motor activity (swim, yoga, trek) or mental activity (monopoly, scrabble, monodeal) dat said, no use crying over spoilt milk, your friend will strive and your friendship thrive!
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How To Make Or Break Your Relationship : http://themindunleashed.org/2015/04/how-to-make-or-break-your-relationship.html
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Go on an overseas trip together.
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Just be supportive of her and don't remind her of the relationship.