I feel you bro but at least the girl reply to your message, could it be she has a bf already?
Oh my goodness Lol u sounds like what I been going through recently too! So uncannyly similar especially when you mentioned her behavior after she broke up with her ex -we are just speculating many possibilities about our crush lol!! Seriously, any girl in this forum reading this could you provide some insight if you fit the description what's going through your mind or perhaps advice for us guys .. Haha
Originally posted by p228:I don’t think so.. she usually hangs out with her poly and uni friends. She has been single since 6 years back? It’s either she is not willing to open up herself up cos she don’t feel comfortable with me, or this is her character. There are people who show themselves to be very outgoing or talk alot with anybody, but they are actually introverts, like putting up a false front to mask their insecurity.
Or maybe she feel that i like her so she distance away from me? I don’t know. Too many possibilities. Or could be i am a boring shit. Haha. I have no problems cracking lame jokes and have fun with other female friends but not her. I am losing ideas how to get the conversation going. Feels like a one way conversation most of the time, despite me trying to make sure that our coversations does not result in closed ended answers.
Easiest solution here is do something together eg: running,gym,museum etc where you don't have to sweat for convo to flow.
Some girls don't like to talk about their past. If u ask too much she will think you are judging her. Ask her about the future , because all girls are dreamers.
If you the one who can make her dreams come true, they will be very interested.
Ask her what she like to do and where she like to go, and be her companion.
If she is not into you, graciously bow out and say thank you.
Some girls don't like to talk about their past. If u ask too much she will think you are judging her. Ask her about the future , because all girls are dreamers. => agree
If you the one who can make her dreams come true, they will be very interested. => agree
Ask her what she like to do and where she like to go, and be her companion. => agree
If she is not into you, graciously bow out and say thank you.=> disagree, say thank you ? unless you want to be think as a moron ?
if not into you => at least must show her black face, tell that you have been used by her, she should tell you earlier if not interested and not let you waste time and money on her when it could be spend on someone with reciprocal feelings.
Originally posted by tan1688888:if not into you => at least must show her black face, tell that you have been used by her, she should tell you earlier if not interested and not let you waste time and money on her when it could be spend on someone with reciprocal feelings.
You never state your true intention.
No girl will say no to kindness and generosity.
If you want an answer, ask her. Provided you are accepting of her reply.
The fact is most guys are afraid to ask, but get mad when the affection was not recipocrated. Who's fault is that ?
" want to be my steady?" , "um no", " oh ok, thank you for being honest".
Guys got no balls, but expect girls to have balls.
Originally posted by tan1688888:Some girls don't like to talk about their past. If u ask too much she will think you are judging her. Ask her about the future , because all girls are dreamers. => agree
If you the one who can make her dreams come true, they will be very interested. => agree
Ask her what she like to do and where she like to go, and be her companion. => agree
If she is not into you, graciously bow out and say thank you.=> disagree, say thank you ? unless you want to be think as a moron ?
Because it's very seldom girls meet a guy who is gracious when rejected. Guys called us names, bad mouth us when we reject them.
If you can stand above the rest of the scums out there, she may look at you differently and admire your gentlemanly way.
Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:Easiest solution here is do something together eg: running,gym,museum etc where you don't have to sweat for convo to flow.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Some girls don't like to talk about their past. If u ask too much she will think you are judging her. Ask her about the future , because all girls are dreamers.
If you the one who can make her dreams come true, they will be very interested.
Ask her what she like to do and where she like to go, and be her companion.
If she is not into you, graciously bow out and say thank you.
Originally posted by tan1688888:if not into you => at least must show her black face, tell that you have been used by her, she should tell you earlier if not interested and not let you waste time and money on her when it could be spend on someone with reciprocal feelings.
Originally posted by jojobeach:You never state your true intention.
No girl will say no to kindness and generosity.
If you want an answer, ask her. Provided you are accepting of her reply.
The fact is most guys are afraid to ask, but get mad when the affection was not recipocrated. Who's fault is that ?
" want to be my steady?" , "um no", " oh ok, thank you for being honest".
Guys got no balls, but expect girls to have balls.
Originally posted by panadolmax:Oh my goodness Lol u sounds like what I been going through recently too! So uncannyly similar especially when you mentioned her behavior after she broke up with her ex -we are just speculating many possibilities about our crush lol!! Seriously, any girl in this forum reading this could you provide some insight if you fit the description what's going through your mind or perhaps advice for us guys .. Haha
Originally posted by Genie99b:you could try living in the moment. if its meant to be it will happen. would help you to ease up…if yer too tense it shows.
Originally posted by Genie99b:hi p228,
it is true that destiny is in your hands. but at the end of the day you can only control yourself.
allow me to elaborate. for that special moment to happen it requires u to like the person, that person to like you and also the correct timing. sometimes even if feeling are both ways timing is wrong…it happens.this is where “meant to be� comes into play….when those 3 conditions are met is when “destiny is in your hands� comes in.
if you try too hard you are not yourself and it will show. confidence is a sexy thing