Help? Relationship problems
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I am dating an older guy. He has been real sweet to me and all before we gotten together. He used to text me day and night, always being there for me, teasing and giving me pet names and sharing his past with me. But after we gotten together, he stop putting in efforts. I am always the one who is getting him breakfast, buying him gifts whenever I see something cute. He never plans for our dates, I am usually the one who give ideas on what I want to do (catch a movie, walk along the beach etc etc).
Things started to get more weird. Nothing makes sense. He told me no one at his workplace can ever find out about us because his dad would break us up as I used to work with him. I let things slide.
As months passed, he started to cancel on me whenever we have plans to head out. He told me he has last minute meetings, OT and that he has to run errands for his family. We hardly meet since he was always busy with work and also because he has to go overseas for events and exhibitions. All I wanted was to spend some time with him. I admit I was unreasonable at times, I got cold and upset whenever he cancelled on me because I just wanted to spend some time with him. In a month, sometimes I only get to spend a week with him. I always let things slide instead of voicing out my opinions (how can you not know that you will have meetings the day before when you are the manager? how can you not know that you have errands to run the day before?)
I didnt dare to make plans with my friends or for myself because I never know when he has the time for me and I just wanted to spend as much time as I can with him. Even though i love to dance, and voiced out about wanting to join dance again (latin), he told me that he doesnt like that any other guy except him to touch me. So I gave up the idea on dance.
He commented a couple of times that he doesnt like the way I dress. And I went to change my entire wardrobe.
We fought frequently because I felt that he wasnt putting in much efforts in our relationship and also that he hardly spend any time with me. So I actually went to sign up for the gym to distract myself because I didnt want to fight with him.
Am I over reacting? Because I am in so much pain.
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I believe that this is your first relationship that you're able to take such BS.
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Originally posted by seaurchinnnn:
I am dating an older guy. He has been real sweet to me and all before we gotten together. He used to text me day and night, always being there for me, teasing and giving me pet names and sharing his past with me. But after we gotten together, he stop putting in efforts. I am always the one who is getting him breakfast, buying him gifts whenever I see something cute. He never plans for our dates, I am usually the one who give ideas on what I want to do (catch a movie, walk along the beach etc etc).
Things started to get more weird. Nothing makes sense. He told me no one at his workplace can ever find out about us because his dad would break us up as I used to work with him. I let things slide.
As months passed, he started to cancel on me whenever we have plans to head out. He told me he has last minute meetings, OT and that he has to run errands for his family. We hardly meet since he was always busy with work and also because he has to go overseas for events and exhibitions. All I wanted was to spend some time with him. I admit I was unreasonable at times, I got cold and upset whenever he cancelled on me because I just wanted to spend some time with him. In a month, sometimes I only get to spend a week with him. I always let things slide instead of voicing out my opinions (how can you not know that you will have meetings the day before when you are the manager? how can you not know that you have errands to run the day before?)
I didnt dare to make plans with my friends or for myself because I never know when he has the time for me and I just wanted to spend as much time as I can with him. Even though i love to dance, and voiced out about wanting to join dance again (latin), he told me that he doesnt like that any other guy except him to touch me. So I gave up the idea on dance.
He commented a couple of times that he doesnt like the way I dress. And I went to change my entire wardrobe.
We fought frequently because I felt that he wasnt putting in much efforts in our relationship and also that he hardly spend any time with me. So I actually went to sign up for the gym to distract myself because I didnt want to fight with him.
Am I over reacting? Because I am in so much pain.
Welcome to difference between romance and real life.
- He never plans for our dates, I am usually the one who give ideas on what I want to do (catch a movie, walk along the beach etc etc). --> Take some responsibilities instead of leeching the guy always.
- He told me no one at his workplace can ever find out about us because his dad would break us up as I used to work with him. --> Another gf at side
- I admit I was unreasonable at times, I got cold and upset whenever he cancelled on me because I just wanted to spend some time with him. --> Don't be selfish,the guy has to work instead of pampering you always.
- how can you not know that you will have meetings the day before when you are the manager? how can you not know that you have errands to run the day before? --> Never been in a work before??
- Even though i love to dance, and voiced out about wanting to join dance again (latin), he told me that he doesnt like that any other guy except him to touch me. --> You want other gals to touch this guy?
- He commented a couple of times that he doesnt like the way I dress. And I went to change my entire wardrobe. -->Did he ask you to change the wardrobe?Or you took it as an excuse for shopping?
My take he has another gf,most probably at work and you are naive in relationships. -
I recomend you to break up.
Trust me, if a guy treasures you, he WILL MAKE TIME TO SEE YOU. Like Bio-Hawk said above, you are navie in relationships. [I guess he is your first]. Well, if my BF treats me like this, I will give him a middle finger and tell him to f--k off.
I had a relationship before when I was 13. Actually, I feel that it is good that teenagers date each other because they get to learn about relationships. And of course, relationships doesn't equate to love-making and when I finally got over him, I know what kind of guys to that I should run as fast as I could even though that person can claim to "love" me. There are lots of guys in this world, I think your BF is a player.
Be careful, this older and mature guy can manilupate you into having sex with him.
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Originally posted by Summer hill:
I recomend you to break up.
Trust me, if a guy treasures you, he WILL MAKE TIME TO SEE YOU. Like Bio-Hawk said above, you are navie in relationships. [I guess he is your first]. Well, if my BF treats me like this, I will give him a middle finger and tell him to f--k off.
I had a relationship before when I was 13. Actually, I feel that it is good that teenagers date each other because they get to learn about relationships. And of course, relationships doesn't equate to love-making and when I finally got over him, I know what kind of guys to that I should run as fast as I could even though that person can claim to "love" me. There are lots of guys in this world, I think your BF is a player.
Be careful, this older and mature guy can manilupate you into having sex with him.
Be careful, this older and mature guy can manilupate you into having sex with him --> I bet already happened,lack of guys interest and her clinginess
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Girl, he is a "user".
He is using you.
The secrecy request is a super big red flag. You are just a secret fling.
He is nothing else but your sugar daddy. And you know it.
Either you play along and get what you want while he is still willing to give you, or you get out of there before you get hurt and humiliated.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Girl, he is a "user".
He is using you.
The secrecy request is a super big red flag. You are just a secret fling.
He is nothing else but your sugar daddy. And you know it.
Either you play along and get what you want while he is still willing to give you, or you get out of there before you get hurt and humiliated.
Yeah and I just found out he is flirting with other girls. Telling them that he is single and unwanted. -
Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
Welcome to difference between romance and real life.
- He never plans for our dates, I am usually the one who give ideas on what I want to do (catch a movie, walk along the beach etc etc). --> Take some responsibilities instead of leeching the guy always.
- He told me no one at his workplace can ever find out about us because his dad would break us up as I used to work with him. --> Another gf at side
- I admit I was unreasonable at times, I got cold and upset whenever he cancelled on me because I just wanted to spend some time with him. --> Don't be selfish,the guy has to work instead of pampering you always.
- how can you not know that you will have meetings the day before when you are the manager? how can you not know that you have errands to run the day before? --> Never been in a work before??
- Even though i love to dance, and voiced out about wanting to join dance again (latin), he told me that he doesnt like that any other guy except him to touch me. --> You want other gals to touch this guy?
- He commented a couple of times that he doesnt like the way I dress. And I went to change my entire wardrobe. -->Did he ask you to change the wardrobe?Or you took it as an excuse for shopping?
My take he has another gf,most probably at work and you are naive in relationships.Hello. You sound like a guy who wishes the girl to take lead in the rs. And I understand where you are coming from since you are a guy. (Guy tend to take the side of the guy right?)
1. I have been the one who always put in the effort in the rs that I feel like this is a one sided rs. Why? I was the one who confessed to him and he said he was afraid that he will lose me (if I didnt like him) if he confessed to me. He used to send me pictures of cute animals and such, tell me about his past and send me photos of himself when he was younger, now he just stopped. PS And, I will do up handmade gifts that take me weeks to do because he wants to celebrate every monthsary. He just dont.
2. I am always the one who plan dates. Day 1 till now. ALWAYS. I am the who suggest what movies to watch, what to do, where to go.
3. Goodness me, I am selfish? You probably have never been in a rs. Let's turn the tables. If you have a girlfriend who is hardly in Singapore, and even when she is in Singapore, she works till 10pm or later, how would you feel? Out of 30 days in a month, you see her for let's say 5-7 days inclusive of weekends.
4. Have you been at work? Because I am a working adult, I know how things go. Logically, if you think about it, do you have last minute meetings and not be informed about it till when you are about to leave the office? Uh huh. Would you not be informed that your staff would be flying down to Singapore hours or a day in advance before he/she actually touched down in Singapore?
5. I am the one who wanted to take up dance. Have you not seen a dance before? I would recommend you to something called 'Youtube'. Google 'waltz'. It's the 21st century, not 19th. And what exactly is your definition of touch? A guy/girl touching the other party's private parts huh?
6. Would you change your wardrobe if your girlfriend CONSTANTLY say that your shirt is too tight for you and it shows your tummy etc? YES RIGHT? My boyfriend will CONSTANTLY remind me that my skirt or dress is too short. FYI I am standing at 170cm. The clothes in Singapore are made mostly for peitie girls or have you not noticed?
7. I dont even have my own personal life anymore. I cant even meet my friends as he dont like that I hang out with my guy friends since he claims that I will give them the wrong idea if I hang out with them one-on-one. He hates my girl friends because they never had a good impression of him. He hates that I sign up for the gym because I am already so skinny. So tell me what am I supposed to do? CLINGY? I am more of CRAZY now.
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Originally posted by Summer hill:
I recomend you to break up.
Trust me, if a guy treasures you, he WILL MAKE TIME TO SEE YOU. Like Bio-Hawk said above, you are navie in relationships. [I guess he is your first]. Well, if my BF treats me like this, I will give him a middle finger and tell him to f--k off.
I had a relationship before when I was 13. Actually, I feel that it is good that teenagers date each other because they get to learn about relationships. And of course, relationships doesn't equate to love-making and when I finally got over him, I know what kind of guys to that I should run as fast as I could even though that person can claim to "love" me. There are lots of guys in this world, I think your BF is a player.
Be careful, this older and mature guy can manilupate you into having sex with him.
I guess I just love him too much to be able to take all his BS. I really try not to fight with him so often and understand that work is important. He does have a choice, since he is the boss. And no this isnt my first rs. Neither am I a teenager.I admit that I am blinded by love and I am stupid to love a guy like him. Like you said, if he truly does loves me, he would have make time. I deserve to be a priority instead of an option. Besides I believe, if someone truly love you, he would see you despite how tired he is because it's worth it but in my case, he cant be bothered to do so even though we live 10 minutes from each other as he drives.
He already manipulated me into having sex with him. He has been giving me tons of stress about going overseas with him even though we are together for a mere 4 months.
He wants me all to himself. That a comment like 'I love him as a friend' is touchy for him. I cant meet my guy friends as he commented that 'you will give the wrong idea to your friend if you meet him one-on-one'. I am going crazy. I cant meet my friends (he doesnt like my girl friends) and I cant go for my passion (dance).
He even accused me of having an affair once because I went out with a group of friends to USS and was particularly close to a guy (childhood friend) who is attached. And I did tell him I was going out with a group of friends.
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Originally posted by seaurchinnnn:
Hello. You sound like a guy who wishes the girl to take lead in the rs. And I understand where you are coming from since you are a guy. (Guy tend to take the side of the guy right?)
1. I have been the one who always put in the effort in the rs that I feel like this is a one sided rs. Why? I was the one who confessed to him and he said he was afraid that he will lose me (if I didnt like him) if he confessed to me. He used to send me pictures of cute animals and such, tell me about his past and send me photos of himself when he was younger, now he just stopped. PS And, I will do up handmade gifts that take me weeks to do because he wants to celebrate every monthsary. He just dont.
2. I am always the one who plan dates. Day 1 till now. ALWAYS. I am the who suggest what movies to watch, what to do, where to go.
3. Goodness me, I am selfish? You probably have never been in a rs. Let's turn the tables. If you have a girlfriend who is hardly in Singapore, and even when she is in Singapore, she works till 10pm or later, how would you feel? Out of 30 days in a month, you see her for let's say 5-7 days inclusive of weekends.
4. Have you been at work? Because I am a working adult, I know how things go. Logically, if you think about it, do you have last minute meetings and not be informed about it till when you are about to leave the office? Uh huh. Would you not be informed that your staff would be flying down to Singapore hours or a day in advance before he/she actually touched down in Singapore?
5. I am the one who wanted to take up dance. Have you not seen a dance before? I would recommend you to something called 'Youtube'. Google 'waltz'. It's the 21st century, not 19th. And what exactly is your definition of touch? A guy/girl touching the other party's private parts huh?
6. Would you change your wardrobe if your girlfriend CONSTANTLY say that your shirt is too tight for you and it shows your tummy etc? YES RIGHT? My boyfriend will CONSTANTLY remind me that my skirt or dress is too short. FYI I am standing at 170cm. The clothes in Singapore are made mostly for peitie girls or have you not noticed?
7. I dont even have my own personal life anymore. I cant even meet my friends as he dont like that I hang out with my guy friends since he claims that I will give them the wrong idea if I hang out with them one-on-one. He hates my girl friends because they never had a good impression of him. He hates that I sign up for the gym because I am already so skinny. So tell me what am I supposed to do? CLINGY? I am more of CRAZY now.
You are wasting your time with bio hawk. He is a kid.
And our forum troll.
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Stop being so despo already. That man already got what he wants from you.
He already makan, now he easily wipe his mouth because no one knows.
Learn your lesson. Next time don't be so stupid.
If he is not acknowledging your special existence to his friends and family, that only means he is not keen on a serious relationship with you. So at tue mean time keep your legs closed.
There are good guys and players.. you need to learn how to pick the right one.
For goodness sake, dont be so gullible. Fooled you once shame on him, fooled you twice shame on you.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Stop being so despo already. That man already got what he wants from you.
He already makan, now he easily wipe his mouth because no one knows.
Learn your lesson. Next time don't be so stupid.
If he is not acknowledging your special existence to his friends and family, that only means he is not keen on a serious relationship with you. So at tue mean time keep your legs closed.
There are good guys and players.. you need to learn how to pick the right one.
For goodness sake, dont be so gullible. Fooled you once shame on him, fooled you twice shame on you.
Thanks for your advice. I just found out he's cheating on me. Or rather he's cheating on his girlfriend of 3 years and I am the affair. So honestly, I dont know what is worst.
Actually he introduced his friends and his brother to me. All of whom didnt tell me that he has another girlfriend out there. But I expected that since his friends and family will take his side and keep mum.
I guess it's about time I guard my heart and stop trusting people so easily. To not take in any more BS.
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So do his girlfriend a favor. Send her all the evidence of his cheating. Texts, photos..and where you had sex with him.
She wasted 3 years on this crook.
He will insist you seduced him.. but dont worry. If she gets angry at you,. let her know she can keep that piece of trash.
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Originally posted by seaurchinnnn:
Thanks for your advice. I just found out he's cheating on me. Or rather he's cheating on his girlfriend of 3 years and I am the affair. So honestly, I dont know what is worst.
Actually he introduced his friends and his brother to me. All of whom didnt tell me that he has another girlfriend out there. But I expected that since his friends and family will take his side and keep mum.
I guess it's about time I guard my heart and stop trusting people so easily. To not take in any more BS.
Good thinking, otherwise you might ended up like this girl below :
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Go and get a STD blood test. just in case you may have caught something from his frivolous dick.
If you test positive, you need to inform his girlfriend too.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Go and get a STD blood test. just in case you may have caught something from his frivolous dick.
If you test positive, you need to inform his girlfriend too.
Already had a blood test. Proved negative for now. Probably have to go for checks every 6 months -_- -
Originally posted by jojobeach:
So do his girlfriend a favor. Send her all the evidence of his cheating. Texts, photos..and where you had sex with him.
She wasted 3 years on this crook.
He will insist you seduced him.. but dont worry. If she gets angry at you,. let her know she can keep that piece of trash. --> Be the bitch you want to be. Since you are so naive, don't listen to idiots/feminists who speaks of revenge and getting back while they have nothing to loose.Tell him you are not interested,change the number and never ever speak to him. All the things above can be used to sue you for defamation. None of these forum trolls would help you out if this came to be. It's for sure a bitter experience, learn from it and move on.Amen.
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Originally posted by seaurchinnnn:Hello. You sound like a guy who wishes the girl to take lead in the rs. And I understand where you are coming from since you are a guy. (Guy tend to take the side of the guy right?) --> Not the wussies. I told you he's cheating on you while none others could figure this out from this limited info.Infamous arm chair general and feminist jojobeach could only think of flirting.
1. I have been the one who always put in the effort in the rs that I feel like this is a one sided rs. Why? I was the one who confessed to him and he said he was afraid that he will lose me (if I didnt like him) if he confessed to me. He used to send me pictures of cute animals and such, tell me about his past and send me photos of himself when he was younger, now he just stopped. PS And, I will do up handmade gifts that take me weeks to do because he wants to celebrate every monthsary. He just dont.--> U are really naive and has no clue how such things work. Imagine a cute rich guy coming to you and saying everything you said to the guy,would you let it pass?Especially when it cost you nothing?Don't act so saintly, you would not too. That's what happened here.
2. I am always the one who plan dates. Day 1 till now. ALWAYS. I am the who suggest what movies to watch, what to do, where to go. --> That didn't give you a clue that he didn't want you?
3. Goodness me, I am selfish? You probably have never been in a rs. Let's turn the tables. If you have a girlfriend who is hardly in Singapore, and even when she is in Singapore, she works till 10pm or later, how would you feel? Out of 30 days in a month, you see her for let's say 5-7 days inclusive of weekends. --> I don't count days like you do.
4. Have you been at work? Because I am a working adult, I know how things go. Logically, if you think about it, do you have last minute meetings and not be informed about it till when you are about to leave the office? Uh huh. Would you not be informed that your staff would be flying down to Singapore hours or a day in advance before he/she actually touched down in Singapore? --> Silly you, thats the excuse to meet with others in this case, though such things can happen.
5. I am the one who wanted to take up dance. Have you not seen a dance before? I would recommend you to something called 'Youtube'. Google 'waltz'. It's the 21st century, not 19th. And what exactly is your definition of touch? A guy/girl touching the other party's private parts huh?--> The question was would you mind other girls touhing him?Seems you do.
6. Would you change your wardrobe if your girlfriend CONSTANTLY say that your shirt is too tight for you and it shows your tummy etc? YES RIGHT? My boyfriend will CONSTANTLY remind me that my skirt or dress is too short. FYI I am standing at 170cm. The clothes in Singapore are made mostly for peitie girls or have you not noticed? --> Wow nice excuse to self justify.
7. I dont even have my own personal life anymore. I cant even meet my friends as he dont like that I hang out with my guy friends since he claims that I will give them the wrong idea if I hang out with them one-on-one. He hates my girl friends because they never had a good impression of him. He hates that I sign up for the gym because I am already so skinny. So tell me what am I supposed to do? CLINGY? I am more of CRAZY now. --> Leave the guy seems to be most easiest option.
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:Originally posted by jojobeach:
So do his girlfriend a favor. Send her all the evidence of his cheating. Texts, photos..and where you had sex with him.
She wasted 3 years on this crook.
He will insist you seduced him.. but dont worry. If she gets angry at you,. let her know she can keep that piece of trash. --> Be the bitch you want to be. Since you are so naive, don't listen to idiots/feminists who speaks of revenge and getting back while they have nothing to loose.Tell him you are not interested,change the number and never ever speak to him. All the things above can be used to sue you for defamation. None of these forum trolls would help you out if this came to be. It's for sure a bitter experience, learn from it and move on.Amen.
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Originally posted by seaurchinnnn:Hello. You sound like a guy who wishes the girl to take lead in the rs. And I understand where you are coming from since you are a guy. (Guy tend to take the side of the guy right?) --> Not the wussies. I told you he's cheating on you while none others could figure this out from this limited info.Infamous arm chair general and feminist jojobeach could only think of flirting.
1. I have been the one who always put in the effort in the rs that I feel like this is a one sided rs. Why? I was the one who confessed to him and he said he was afraid that he will lose me (if I didnt like him) if he confessed to me. He used to send me pictures of cute animals and such, tell me about his past and send me photos of himself when he was younger, now he just stopped. PS And, I will do up handmade gifts that take me weeks to do because he wants to celebrate every monthsary. He just dont.--> U are really naive and has no clue how such things work. Imagine a cute rich guy coming to you and saying everything you said to the guy,would you let it pass?Especially when it cost you nothing?Don't act so saintly, you would not too. That's what happened here.
2. I am always the one who plan dates. Day 1 till now. ALWAYS. I am the who suggest what movies to watch, what to do, where to go. --> That didn't give you a clue that he didn't want you?
3. Goodness me, I am selfish? You probably have never been in a rs. Let's turn the tables. If you have a girlfriend who is hardly in Singapore, and even when she is in Singapore, she works till 10pm or later, how would you feel? Out of 30 days in a month, you see her for let's say 5-7 days inclusive of weekends. --> I don't count days like you do.
4. Have you been at work? Because I am a working adult, I know how things go. Logically, if you think about it, do you have last minute meetings and not be informed about it till when you are about to leave the office? Uh huh. Would you not be informed that your staff would be flying down to Singapore hours or a day in advance before he/she actually touched down in Singapore? --> Silly you, thats the excuse to meet with others in this case, though such things can happen.
5. I am the one who wanted to take up dance. Have you not seen a dance before? I would recommend you to something called 'Youtube'. Google 'waltz'. It's the 21st century, not 19th. And what exactly is your definition of touch? A guy/girl touching the other party's private parts huh?--> The question was would you mind other girls touhing him?Seems you do.
6. Would you change your wardrobe if your girlfriend CONSTANTLY say that your shirt is too tight for you and it shows your tummy etc? YES RIGHT? My boyfriend will CONSTANTLY remind me that my skirt or dress is too short. FYI I am standing at 170cm. The clothes in Singapore are made mostly for peitie girls or have you not noticed? --> Wow nice excuse to self justify.
7. I dont even have my own personal life anymore. I cant even meet my friends as he dont like that I hang out with my guy friends since he claims that I will give them the wrong idea if I hang out with them one-on-one. He hates my girl friends because they never had a good impression of him. He hates that I sign up for the gym because I am already so skinny. So tell me what am I supposed to do? CLINGY? I am more of CRAZY now. --> Leave the guy seems to be most easiest option.
Come come. Round of applause for you. Do you need a standing ovation?
I admit I am naive, stupid and blind. Are you happy now? I paid the price already, have I not?
He dumped me. There's no need to leave him.
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Originally posted by seaurchinnnn:
Come come. Round of applause for you. Do you need a standing ovation?
I admit I am naive, stupid and blind. Are you happy now? I paid the price already, have I not?
He dumped me. There's no need to leave him.
You would have if you learned from it and moved on. Then there's a round of applause.
Practical advice: go to gym,get in shape,do some social work and keep yourself engaged. Good advices are always bitter,but better.
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
You would have if you learned from it and moved on. Then there's a round of applause.
Practical advice: go to gym,get in shape,do some social work and keep yourself engaged. Good advices are always bitter,but better.
Uh huh. Supposed I say thanks?
Pray tell, have you ever gotten your heart broken?
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Originally posted by seaurchinnnn:
Uh huh. Supposed I say thanks?
Pray tell, have you ever gotten your heart broken?
Thanks have been duly noted. Good gal, may you have a prosperous life ahead.
Pray tell, it's not important to know this in a public forum
. However with my new found understanding of Buddhism, lets just say everything happens for a good reason and some how there is an equal cause coming from both parties;conciously or sub-conciously ;this life or past etc etc. -
Biohawk, Its not defamation if its facts U stupid troll.
his girlfriend needs to know this man is sleeping around and may get her infected with nasties.
Ignorance is bliss but can also get you killed.
You are trying to cover up for that jerk. I'm sure buddha will be very pleased.
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Originally posted by seaurchinnnn:
Uh huh. Supposed I say thanks?
Pray tell, have you ever gotten your heart broken?
This kid has no experience with women. he cant get one.
No one wants this misogynistic bloke.. and for good reasons.
He'll talk big here.. that's all.
Thats why all his advice to other men are. Dump the bitch and go bang a few more. Lol!!
if only life is that simple. But to a simpleton like him.. thats how the world spin.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Biohawk, Its not defamation if its facts U stupid troll.
his girlfriend needs to know this man is sleeping around and may get her infected with nasties.
Ignorance is bliss but can also get you killed.
You are trying to cover up for that jerk. I'm sure buddha will be very pleased.
This kid has no experience with women. he cant get one.
No one wants this misogynistic bloke.. and for good reasons.
He'll talk big here.. that's all.
Thats why all his advice to other men are. Dump the bitch and go bang a few more. Lol!!
if only life is that simple. But to a simpleton like him.. thats how the world spin.
Stupid yoyo, if you don't know how the legal system can be used, please stop misleading the naive OP so you can have a lauch. You are covering for your own hatefulness of men and world in general, ask Buddha if he's pleased.
Plus you judgement of others is a very good picture of who you are. If you had difficulties in finding a guy to hang on, don't jump into conclusions of the same for others. Your stupidity can only be matched by your own arrogance which you sell to the naive people who ask for advice.
*Understanding the futility of arguing with feminist idiots who has no purpose in life* May Buddha bless you with common sense.
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
Stupid yoyo, if you don't know how the legal system can be used, please stop misleading the naive OP so you can have a lauch. You are covering for your own hatefulness of men and world in general, ask Buddha if he's pleased.
Plus you judgement of others is a very good picture of who you are. If you had difficulties in finding a guy to hang on, don't jump into conclusions of the same for others. Your stupidity can only be matched by your own arrogance which you sell to the naive people who ask for advice.
*Understanding the futility of arguing with feminist idiots who has no purpose in life* May Buddha bless you with common sense.
Oooohhh.. we have a big shot lawyer here in this forum! I'M SO SCARED...not.
Well little boy, I pay lawyers to deal with my shit. You think I have no idea what works or not ?
That guy has a lot to lose.. given his fear of exposing his stupidity to the rest of the world. Want to play with fire.. he'll get burnt. He dares to sue.. all his dirty secrets comes out his filthy gut.
Have I seen a man's career destroyed by his sexual affairs. Yes. Many.
This man has a reputation to protect. He screws with his younger subordinate, while cheating on his girlfriend , thats a big no no in work and personal ethics..And he is scared people will find out. Three strikes and his character is dirtier than a soiled diaper.
Don't shit where you eat.
And for your information only, I am happily married and a mom. So I bet your mom probably did some really nasty crap to you while you are growing up , for you to treat women as some objects to be used.
Did your mom tell you all women are evil except herself ? No one can love you more than mommy? Yah, its a conspiracy. some mothers do that.
Ohh wait.. are you from that culture where your mommy picks your wife and decides who you have babies with ? If you disobey, you get disowned and cut off from the family inheritance ?? If yes.. yah.. I see why you thinks and behave like a dick head.