I got a bf but because i'm fat.
My bf didnt get to turn on by me. In fact, looking at my rolls of fat on my body. He got traumatised and never get erection.
Instead, my bf went to porn and pcc to release his -_-
I get very upset because i thought my bf stop and quit porn and pcc for me. And he had been lying to me he won't pcc and porn anymore because he have me.
But end up, he didn't.
What should i do? I'm terribly upset and depressed. I feel he broke the promises and trust. On the other hands, is it my fault for causing him like this?
Maybe i should go on diet/liposuction and hopefully my body dont turn him off? Or should i just break up with him? Sigh i already sign HDB with him and made payment already.
Why do things become like this? Do i deserve all these?
I'm just sad. Please don't shoot me.
how come he your bf in the 1st place?
Sigh, we used to school n study. everythings was fine. we talk about future. everythings was seem like real to me.
Till one day he saw my body. Things changed.
Now im worried he will screw other girls. Betray and cheat.
Is there no way to savalge this r/s ? Why do men still pcc and watch porn despite having a gf?
I'm kind of feeling being betrayed and cheated. PS. This my second r/s.
He admit he horny he scared lonely he despo so he went to porn
are men all like this?
Love cannot be forced.
If there's a breakup, let it be. No need to fusd over it.
Fuss*
juz break up
y cant he watch porn or pcc......
even with a gf, u dun expect urself to free everytime he want to do?
Move on he's not the only man in this world
Better to know his pattern now than later when it's too late
Save yourself
yeah move on if he behave like this b4 marrying you, think what will happened after that no point carrying on don't hurt yourself farther later on find someone who like you what you are
Originally posted by EmoDog:I got a bf but because i'm fat.
My bf didnt get to turn on by me. In fact, looking at my rolls of fat on my body. He got traumatised and never get erection.
Instead, my bf went to porn and pcc to release his -_-
I get very upset because i thought my bf stop and quit porn and pcc for me. And he had been lying to me he won't pcc and porn anymore because he have me.
But end up, he didn't.
What should i do? I'm terribly upset and depressed. I feel he broke the promises and trust. On the other hands, is it my fault for causing him like this?
Maybe i should go on diet/liposuction and hopefully my body dont turn him off? Or should i just break up with him? Sigh i already sign HDB with him and made payment already.
Why do things become like this? Do i deserve all these?
I'm just sad. Please don't shoot me.
Your bf just told u straight about the fat on your body? For one, this whole relationship needs both sides to work together for success.
For the guy, like one of the above posters said, you dont expect yourself to be free/available every time he feels like doing also. I rather he watch porn and relieve himself than to go wreak havoc with other girls outside.
On the other hand, for your well being and both sides' happiness, I recommend that you lose the excess weight and fat on you. Just don't go for liposuction/slimming pills/treatments, they won't keep your fat off for the long term. I can make things easy for you, but there are no shortcuts for long and lasting weight loss. Let me know by PM for help in this area.
Never slim down for the sake of another person.
Slim down because you want to live a healthier life.
Slim down for your own self esteem.
If you slim down he may not quit the porn anyway, so live a healthy life for yourself.
Anger and resentment from the deceit and lies. Nobody cares if he continue with porn and was upfront.
When a person is dishonest, no relationship will last for long.
Please just move on.
If you are unhappy being chubby do something about it ... eat less & move more. Take things slowly as you are in a vicious circle.
You may have low self esteem & your friend really isn't helping you. Confide in someone. If you are embarressed, speak to the Samaritans. They will not judge you x
Make today, day one of the new you. Your friend may redicule you. Ignore him. He may promise you the world. His words are irrelevant. No human being should be undermined. He does what he does because you let him. He is who he is. Wave goodbye x
Congrats~~~
U have a very good bf...
I'm quite sure he loves u very very very much and stay with u despite all that u mention...
There must be a reason why he got together with u in the first place... Remember that reason... At least he wasn't lusting over your body~
love can't be forced. Be strong