What should I do?
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Hello, I'm a Sec 2 student this year. This is my first time creating a thread in Auny Agony, so I hope that I would not be out of point...
Since last year, I've have a certain female classmate. I call her SV, as I do not usually call her by her full name. OK, back to my point. The truth is, I've had a crush on her since Semester 2 of last year. Somehow, I started to get attracted to her. That was when I had made a friend, KS. He asked me who I liked in class and I realised I liked SV. We found out her birthday as her NRIC was placed outside her bag. That was two days after her birthday! That Friday (16 August), I gave her my first letter, about her birthday...
Since then, I continued writing letters and notes to her, telling her my life and other stuff. However, things changed after the December holidays... She became a student counseller this year and has ignored me most of the time, although she still replies my smses about schoolwork. Am I too infatuated with SV or is she ignoring me because of some of my actions? Thank you for reading!
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student counseller is a busy job and u have to know that
u may think that she's ignoring you but at the same time, she may think you're ignoring her. u get what i mean?
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she is not romantically interested in you.
yours is a one sided affair.
out of courtesy she replying school related message. do not mistake that as reciprocating your affection.
move on.
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It's very clear that she is not that into you. But, by all means carry on asking her about schoolwork since she did replied. Who knows, one fine day she may develop an interest in you. Right now she got new responsibilty in school, try not to bother her too much.
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OK, from everyone's posts, I think it is best if I let things be and should not do anything silly (like pursuading) at all... I shall talk with my firend KS and tell him that sometimes his ideas can be silly... Thank you for your opinions so far! I'll try to let go and try not to show that I still like her (I'll admit I did lie to my classmate about that)...
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
OK, from everyone's posts, I think it is best if I let things be and should not do anything silly (like pursuading) at all... I shall talk with my firend KS and tell him that sometimes his ideas can be silly... Thank you for your opinions so far! I'll try to let go and try not to show that I still like her (I'll admit I did lie to my classmate about that)...
Anyway, Valentine's Day is coming soon. Maybe you can go ask her out?
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Originally posted by Summer hill:
Anyway, Valentine's Day is coming soon. Maybe you can go ask her out?
Wasn't exactly thinking of that, but maybe a 'love' letter might do...
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maybe this video will help you
http://youtube.com/watch?v=vMSixENoid4
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are the student council members usually the elite or popular students there?
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Originally posted by Edbert:
are the student council members usually the elite or popular students there?
Nah, just normal students who are willing...
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study dont have hanky panky thoughts
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
Nah, just normal students who are willing...
i have to say that i've had the same experience before, almost the same story as yours
i solved it by moving on..
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Originally posted by Edbert:
i have to say that i've had the same experience before, almost the same story as yours
i solved it by moving on..
Okay, so I guess I should just ignore her and don't do anything?
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Originally posted by SMB195G:
student counseller is a busy job and u have to know that
u may think that she's ignoring you but at the same time, she may think you're ignoring her. u get what i mean?
Oh well, she always has her friends that care for her, so I sometimes think that 'my quest' for SV (a girl) and me (a boy) being friends was a stupid idea! Am I too emo? I guess it will would be hard to date with her, so I'll just give her a Valentine's Day 'love letter'...
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
Oh well, she always has her friends that care for her, so I sometimes think that 'my quest' for SV (a girl) and me (a boy) being friends was a stupid idea! Am I too emo? I guess it will would be hard to date with her, so I'll just give her a Valentine's Day 'love letter'...
being friend with her is okay. if can, try to be her boy bestfriend so u have the chance.
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Originally posted by SMB195G:
being friend with her is okay. if can, try to be her boy bestfriend so u have the chance.
No la... She talks with another male classmate (he starts the talking, and he's not her lover BTW), so I can't say that it will work... KS has the same ideas as you, in one way or another...
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This illustrates my mood: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpmILPAcRQo
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Happy Valentine's Day!
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Hello there, I've been warned by my teacher for posting this thread... I shall post here less frequently here now...
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Been a long while since I posted here... I do not really have a crush on SV anymore, so I'm not feeling heavy inside, although I still do give glances at times... I asked her whether her friends she hang out with used their phones a lot and had a discussion of a certain school duty which would be better if we had rotating slots...
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raise salary so what? i go i also will tell the world bad things about you the stupig manager. and i also know lots of people who talk back about you aoutside - lots of them you think i dont know the contatcs. they all told me how silly you were really. i know everytihing already bout you child
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Originally posted by Craptalkone:
raise salary so what? i go i also will tell the world bad things about you the stupig manager. and i also know lots of people who talk back about you aoutside - lots of them you think i dont know the contatcs. they all told me how silly you were really. i know everytihing already bout you child
Where did I mention about raising salary?!
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Case closed.
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