I am a happily married with a great wife and children. My mind only revolves around family and work.
Some months ago a girl named Ms "A" was posted to my dept to assist my team and myself in our tender work. She is 5 to 6 years younger and amazingly socialable. We became closed friend and good working buddies/colleagues especially after several rounds of working thru many nights for tenders.
Recent 2 months ago she began to wear smartly with a bit of sexiness into the office and somehow lean close to me whenever we spoke. I always had a stiff shoulder after working for hours and recently she comes over and give me a good shoulder massage and sometimes with olive oil which she does not do back then.
She even buy me birthday, christmas and new year gifts and bake cookies/tarts for me to try and da-pao for me if we are suppose to stay back late to finish some tenders. Few days ago when i was sending her home from work at ard 12am+. , she pecked me on my lips to say goodbye and goodnight. I am stunned of course.
She just texted me if we can go out for a good dinner and movie before CNY.
I am really tempted now. I have to resist it for all goodness sake. Anyone with a good way to flee from this. She knows i am married with kids.
Go out, but wish her "You're probably the Best Friend I Ever Had Forever" when it's time to return home.
Remember your wedding vows
I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded (husband/ wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.
be a man do the right thing you should reject her politely and emphasis your love toward your wife to her, take whatever things she made for you and share with your colleages don't send her false hope there are alot of cases you will hurt not just your wife but your children as well they will grow up hating you
Your're a very lucky man, enjoy yourself and dun get caught.
Are you willing to risk your marriage and family for this girl?
Your wife will know because she's been sleeping next to you for many years. You can't hide for very long.
The girl has nothing to lose, you have everything to lose. She will only come across as the innocent party while you will become the tiko peh of the company.
Simply learn to say no.
No woman is willing to remain a mistress for very long, soon she will want to claim her place in place of your wife...that means even if you try to hide from your wife.. the girl will make sure your wife finds out.
Its easy to hire an amateur photographer to tail her on some outing and take pictures of her kissing and hugging you...then send the photos to your wife. It's that simple. And it's very common for mistresses nowadays. Then she will claim its the wife hired a P.I.
If you don't want to get caught.. dont do it.