How to move on from being molested?

keirax3

20 Jan 14, 22:07

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20 Jan 14, 22:33

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Summer hill

20 Jan 14, 22:41

You are 16 and you drank wine? Thanks for sharing, if I was you I would have given the guy a roundhorse kick to the face and punch his teeth out before screaming molest.

keirax3

20 Jan 14, 22:49

Yeah I drank wine before with my mum but it was sweet. This red wine is bitter as hell, I refused but he persuaded T_T I never knew red wine can make people drunk.... How foolish I am.

Phaemcz412

21 Jan 14, 00:17

Karma is a lover’s bitch, love is affectionate and morality is as passionate,

Let the bitch Karma bring the passion and serve passionately the consequences to the ill hearted,

Very saddening for your gravely uncalled working experience, and my great blessings for your compassionate, loving, kind and joyful soul bringing attention on unnaturally called act

Laksa Seehum

21 Jan 14, 16:00

Ok girl, you're 16 and let me tell you from an uncle opinion why you're being molested.

First, you got yourself drunk in a situation whereby there are no close friends around. You should always ensure there are close friends/relatives around to help you if you choose to drink.

2nd, do not try to be overly nice/friendly to older man. Some uncle like me might look decent on the outside, but inside we whole day thing of sex. Usually humsup uncle would find victims that are nice to them to molest. If you're young and very friendly to me, I might mistaken you are interested in me.

3rd, during the molesting period you must make attempt to resist, you you kept quiet througout, the molester might thing you like it. Shout for help, or just resist in any way you can.

4th, after the incident, you did not make a police. If you just do that, the police will straight away investigate. There will be min caning and jail if that molestor got convicted.

Then again go and make a police report now and leave it to the police. If that guy got caught, you will help save another girl from being molested. Just pray hard for justice to be serve.

keirax3

21 Jan 14, 17:15

Originally posted by Laksa Seehum:

Ok girl, you're 16 and let me tell you from an uncle opinion why you're being molested.

First, you got yourself drunk in a situation whereby there are no close friends around. You should always ensure there are close friends/relatives around to help you if you choose to drink.

2nd, do not try to be overly nice/friendly to older man. Some uncle like me might look decent on the outside, but inside we whole day thing of sex. Usually humsup uncle would find victims that are nice to them to molest. If you're young and very friendly to me, I might mistaken you are interested in me.

3rd, during the molesting period you must make attempt to resist, you you kept quiet througout, the molester might thing you like it. Shout for help, or just resist in any way you can.

4th, after the incident, you did not make a police. If you just do that, the police will straight away investigate. There will be min caning and jail if that molestor got convicted.

Then again go and make a police report now and leave it to the police. If that guy got caught, you will help save another girl from being molested. Just pray hard for justice to be serve.

Uncle, thank u for the advice but I do not like how you judge things.

1st, The culprit is not an uncle, I believe he is in his mid 20s. Btw, I did not choose to drink, he pressured me and persuaded me. It was also partly my fault for not running away from him.

2nd. Yes, I have to admit I was friendly and nice because I thought he was a nice person since he help me a lot when I am serving the guests. He took my kindness for granted.

3rd. I was tired-drunk and I did tried to resist in a drunken mode.

4th. After the incident, I DID make a police report.

jojobeach

22 Jan 14, 02:35

Fooled you once, shame on him.

Fooled you twice, shame on you.

We all have our fair share of unwanted encounters, and so we learn from bad experiences.

We learn to identify and avoid danger. And we learn to protect others from suffering the same fate.

Be glad your encounter was not a violent one, but never allow yourself to be vulnerable again.

While physical wound will heal within a short time.. emotional anguish lingers forever.

Do not be fearful of men, for fear only paralyze.

Just be wary of those who seek to use you to satisfy their physical appetite.

samsungs3

23 Jan 14, 01:27

Too sad to heard. U will have trauma, nightmare.

Unsure whether will u have hard time with boyfriend in the future.

When u work out there never be friendly to unknown person well.

He help u a lot he do his job no need repay kindness. Because you don't know him well.

Learn to protect yourself well. Learn some self-defense skill I think it can help you. Be firm.