Taken for granted? :(

• Genie99b

  16 Jan 14, 17:00

  Yeah i think uve got it figured out. As for even trying...thats rly yer choice. Just be mindful that making frens ovr the internet has more barriers as opposed to someone u meet in rl. Good luck.
• Ockz

  19 Jan 14, 00:56

  Hey bro.

  Did you.

  Ever. 

  Tried.

  Asking her to try dating?

  I don't think she understands that you are doing all these to court her. And as much I wish she's telepathtic and understands your real intentions, she will forever treat everything you do for her as what a super best friend does.

  Confess to her, and be prepared for whatever happens next. Rejection or accepting your feelings, at least you will know whats going on in the future. Good luck buddy

• melodymaker

  22 Jan 14, 10:48

  Thanks Ockz! Yes i did, But i didn't really call it a date to her but more of "Do you want to hang out?" She would sometime skip the topic. So i know that she wasn't interested But I do remember when she wished me on my birthday she wanted to ask me out for drinks, she just spoke about it but it never happened and I don't want to remind her, that would make me desperate haha, but i know that she does try to think of going out so let nature take it's course! her job is getting hectic and she's hella busy these days, work until late night knockout at home, poor thing.

  Originally posted by Ockz:

  Hey bro.

  Did you.

  Ever. 

  Tried.

  Asking her to try dating?

  I don't think she understands that you are doing all these to court her. And as much I wish she's telepathtic and understands your real intentions, she will forever treat everything you do for her as what a super best friend does.

  Confess to her, and be prepared for whatever happens next. Rejection or accepting your feelings, at least you will know whats going on in the future. Good luck buddy