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good friend no need to be alot (quality than quantity) i not cursing you or what i apologizise 1st what if you & your bf break up with noone to talk to ,you should not spend all your time just with your bf spend time with your friends & family member like gamble will you put all your money in 1 game if you lost you lost everything
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Originally posted by guardsmen74:
good friend no need to be alot (quality than quantity) i not cursing you or what i apologizise 1st what if you & your bf break up with noone to talk to ,you should not spend all your time just with your bf spend time with your friends & family member like gamble will you put all your money in 1 game if you lost you lost everything
I'll +1 this.
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You still need your friends even though you have a bf.
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Originally posted by Jess5874:
This year, i started at a new school. I made friends. But i am not close with them. More like people you meet in school and that's it. I was devastated. Why can't i make friends anymore?
You did actually..... just that friendships are built over time..... you cannot fast track it.
You need to give your new friends a chance.
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Jess, you have entered a different phase of life, so as many others..
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Originally posted by Summer hill:
hmmm insightful. You know she could be right....maybe you are just tired and need to refresh.
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Everyone will go through this phrase someday.
So the problem for you is (i presume):
1) no longer popular? or;
2) you miss your old life where you have many different people around you? or;
3) cant seem to find friends?
If your problem is (3), shouldn't be much of a problem unless ur bf is anti-social.
Find people with common interest. Meet some of your friends with your bf, you 2 no need to be alone 101% of the time. Rather of closing your life with only you and your bf, why not include more people into your life of you and ur bf?
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Maybe you can try to like make friends within your school or work area, like try to join them for lunch or smth. Don't always hang out wif your boyf and just him. Can hang out but not that often .
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Sometimes the people you are making friends with don't have the mindset like you. They would just be friends in school that's all. Don't think so much about it. Since you have a boyfriend, pour out your troubles and together come up with a solution. Be spontaneous and ask your friends out. If they don't want then you know you aint the real problem. And since you got a boyfriend, of course guys wouldn't come and give you gifts or confess their feelings. And oh, refrain from having suicidal thoughts. That's a crime under sec 309 cap 224
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The real problem is.. you don't CHERISH what you have.
You hanker after what you do not have.
Hence you will always be unhappy,unsatisfied , never contented.
Even popular and famous people feel lonely. They know to enjoy peace in solitude.
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Suicidal thoughts ?
What makes you so sure you're going to be very popular in the after life ? Are you sure you'll never feel lonely there?
You already CMI in this life. Are you sure you'll be successful there?
Seems you won't miss your friends, family and love ones. You r willing to abandon them in this life without second thoughts. What a selfish girl, no wonder you are not that popular anymore. Adults can identify a self absorbed brat when they see one and know to stay away.
So you see.. you didn't change..its just the people around you are growing up.
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Originally posted by Jess5874:
Hi guys
I feel alone in this world now. Sometimes having suicidal thoughts, because nobody would miss me either. Right?
There's no friend that i click to now. i feel alone. lonely. sad.
I started losing friends after i got together with my current boyfriend. Our honeymoon period lasted over a year. We missed each other, and always spend time everyday. My friends and i drifted apart. We quarreled that i was spending a lot time with him and not them. But i was happy with him. He was all i needed.
This year, i started at a new school. I made friends. But i am not close with them. More like people you meet in school and that's it. I was devastated. Why can't i make friends anymore?
I used to be popular. I knew almost everybody in school, from juniors to seniors. I could walk through school and talk to anybody. 3-4 guys used to confess to me every week. Valentine's, my Birthday, New Years, Xmas, i always got a boxful of gifts. But everything changed after i got together with him. He's guilty about this but i don't blame him. Is the problem with me or others? Am i bad at socialising after being with only 1 person for over a year? Or are my "friends" just acquaintances? I miss my old life. Going out everyday, with different people. I wasn't as happy as i feel with my boyfriend, but i didn't felt as lonely.
Please help hais
You need to learn to adapt and survive.