Too Gentle and Obedient ... Is this a bad thing?
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
Well, she has many friends (of course all female classmates), so I can't say she is unhappy at times... So, I actually do not really offer her help often... She doesn't get conned a lot at all, I just only realised that she can be easily conned, by someone else (like me)...
Then you not very nice leh
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Originally posted by Genie99b:
Then you not very nice leh
LOL...
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
LOL...
haha joking bru :o)
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:lol:
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LOL...
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LOL...
Helping out with my Drama CCA tomorrow, with an Aesthetics showcase (actually a play) for the Sec 1 orientation... SV coming to help in the play (though just a cameo in the background 
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
LOL...
Helping out
with my Drama CCA tomorrow, with an Aesthetics showcase (actually a
play) for the Sec 1 orientation... SV coming to help in the play
(though just a cameo in the background ).I suppose you'll be going to sapport?
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Originally posted by Genie99b:
I suppose you'll be going to sapport?
Nah, being a MRT train 'next station' announcer and a random businessman...
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
Nah, being a MRT train 'next station' announcer and a random businessman...
ooooo got opportunity o.....both calafre..can hvr priv conversation lol -
Originally posted by Genie99b:
ooooo got opportunity o.....both calafre..can hvr priv conversation lolHa ha, the play was fine. SV was wearing formal shoes (woman's stylish ones, though not high heels) and was dressed up as a young woman (like women who go shopping a lot
), with her hair hung down... (BTW, she looks very pretty without her hair tied up in a ponytail) Just came home after cchool and changed out from my 'office' suit. Sweated like mad in school... -
Originally posted by 23ispolo:
Ha ha, the play was fine. SV was wearing formal shoes (woman's stylish ones, though not high heels) and was dressed up as a young woman (like women who go shopping a lot
), with
her hair hung down... (BTW, she looks very pretty without her hair
tied up in a ponytail) Just came home after cchool and changed out
from my 'office' suit. Sweated like mad in
school... Oh purrrleease... she's gonna look fab whatever she wears with your rose tinted glasses on
Any progress?
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Originally posted by Genie99b:
Oh purrrleease... she's gonna look fab whatever she wears with your rose tinted glasses on
Any progress?
LOL...
So far, haven't talked much with her, just sms her... -
Originally posted by 23ispolo:
LOL...
So far, haven't talked much with her,
just sms her... ...play it cool. Cool meaning not literally be cool.....but try not to rush things. That is usually the best way to turn a girl off. The word annoying comes to mind.Concentrate on being a good friend ..... then see how it goes from there.
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Originally posted by Genie99b: ...play it
cool. Cool meaning not literally be cool.....but try not to rush
things. That is usually the best way to turn a girl off. The word
annoying comes to mind.
Concentrate on being a good friend ..... then see how it goes from there.
LOL...
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
LOL...
that looks like a laugh that I'm way off mark
How long have you been sms-ing each other? *you don't have to answer this*
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ih1945e4q7I
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Originally posted by Mr Milo:
Another nice song (that I really like
): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpmILPAcRQo&gl=SG&hl=en-GB -
i don't know about you, but i am feeling 22'
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Originally posted by Summer hill:
i don't know about you, but i am feeling 22'
???
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Welcome to the real world....every man for himself.
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Originally posted by Genie99b:
How long have you been sms-ing each other? *you don't have to answer this*
Since November last year...
Usually, I would start the conversation... Oh, I love the 'rose-tinted glasses on' part in your other post! Nice phrasing there, I can say... But, LOL... -
Originally posted by Genie99b:
As far as feeling sad when she gets conned easily....
It is encouraging to see that you have the virtue of "fairness" and also the willingness to sacrifice your time and effort to help your fren.
We cannot stop the issues happening as u said...bcos ultimately only one person can stop it......and that is yer fren herself.
You can assist by offering her support....that she is not alone ......but she will ultimately be the one that can save herself.
When she says ....enough is enough....be it reporting it to the relevant authority.....or telling the person that it is ......hurts although it may seem funny to them or whatever.
Nah, she's not really conned by others at all, tbh...
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Originally posted by ChocoMint:
yea probably. That feeling is not nice for sure and I definitely don't wish to see other people experiencing it if there's a choice. Even though I did not experience bullying other people in my life but I still feel it's not a good thing to do even when I'm not bullied since I don't see why the need to bully others just to make yourself looks stronger or something. All these satisfaction are just temporary in my opinion. At the end of the day, these temporary images will still fade away but the poor victim will suffer longer than the bully. Truth.
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
Since November last year...
Usually, I would start the
conversation... Oh, I love the 'rose-tinted glasses on' part in
your other post! Nice phrasing there, I can say... But,
LOL...jia you
got that phrase from some book .... i don't think its a mills & boon .... i think
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Originally posted by 23ispolo:
Nah, she's not really conned by others at all, tbh...
just by you
evil man