Your friend CMI lah.
He needs to learn accountability and how to be a gentleman first.
Tuas very far meh. He work or live in pulau ubin is it?
It's not he is damaged by his ex.. he is already lame to begin with.
No need keep blaming the vaginas. .he needs to look at his own flaws.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:Crazy la you. You giving want craptatone advice here.
Be a gentleman? My friend haven’t even hit first base. How you know he is lame, you know him personally? Did i say he was blaming vaginas?
Go back and take care of your mentally deranged son first la before you start talking nonsense. No wonder your son is crazy because the mother also crazy. One day your son could become the Sandy Hook killer, running around with a bushmaster looking for the nearest kindergarden for vaginas girls to shot at.
shhhhh. don't be so mean.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:I got this friend, he non-stop bug me advice about this girl. I ask you guys, what you think?
OK my friend had a bad backlash from his ex girlfriend because he was a workaholic. At times he forget to bring his phone, when his ex watsapp him, on something, it took him two days to reply, or when his ex make an appointment, he could not make it due to work responsibilities, his ex would take revenge on him by doing the same at him. Until the day came for the break up so it made him get very anxiety problem…like the way he bug me for advice.
So here is the story:
1) This friend due to work stress, he switch job to this MNC factory. There he met this sweet girl, 6 years younger than him. She’s 26, he is 34. He works late then one day she sametime him (office version of yahoo messenger). They would talk all sorts of things till late night…this continued for weeks.
My friend got interested and ask his colleagues if she is single. One co worker confirm she is single and encourage him to go after her.
Then one day, she receive two bunch of flowers…my friend got nervous, he wondered if it was a secret admirer. He ask one colleague if its from her boyfriend. His colleague (same one who assured him), just shrug and say it could be because she just graduated ? Or a secret admirer?
He ask me, i also shrug but i told him to be cautious, because girls just don’t simply receive bouquet of flowers at the office, unless its from her boyfriend. So he gave up.
2) 6 months later he quit the job because of job stress and can’t get along with boss. He thought all ties were cut…but then this same girl watsapp him to ask him how is he? Then later, she ask him, where he is working…my friend thinking not wanting to give out info so freely (sly of him) ask her to come out and have a drink with him (he call it yam cha session la to make it not look like a date) so he can tell her. But she ask him to come by the factory to say hi to everybody. But he say he now start new job at new place, too far from Tuas la. He waited..but no reply.
3) So today, he forgot to bring his phone (left it at home)...he call me justnow, bug me again. Ask me if let say she watsapp him to make an appointment, he took one who day to reply, would she take revenge at him? (Next time he wastapp her, she will purposely take 2 or 3 days or never reply to him: like what his ex did)
First question:
I told him if she did means, she is not mature to be his gf. But what you guys think?Second question: Do you think a girl that receive two bunch of flowers at office, means she got boyfriend already?
THird question: What is she trying to do? Is she gaining attention? Or she is dead serious about him? Or he is imagining?
1) I think it is most likely secret admirer. A boyfriend would definately give the flowers to the girl personally. If someone took too long to reply to me, I will get pissed off too. A day is understandable but two days??! Do you check your phone at least at breakfast,lunch, dinner and on your commute home??
2) Secret admirer. Tell your friend to quickly chased her now, cannot wait.
3) She hates him.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:Crazy la you. You giving want craptatone advice here.
Be a gentleman? My friend haven’t even hit first base. How you know he is lame, you know him personally? Did i say he was blaming vaginas?
Go back and take care of your mentally deranged son first la before you start talking nonsense. No wonder your son is crazy because the mother also crazy. One day your son could become the Sandy Hook killer, running around with a bushmaster looking for the nearest kindergarden for vaginas girls to shot at.
Of course he cannot hit first base.. because he is lame lah.
Lembeh guy like him can only be bench warmer.
No chance leh. Some more got Idiot friend like you give advise... haiz.. finish liao.. go be monk better lah.
Originally posted by Summer hill:1) I think it is most likely secret admirer. A boyfriend would definately give the flowers to the girl personally. If someone took too long to reply to me, I will get pissed off too. A day is understandable but two days??! Do you check your lunch at least at breakfast,lunch, dinner and your commute home??
2) Secret admirer. Tell your friend to quickly chased her now, cannot wait.
3) She hates him.
Summer.. please don't teach people like them how to chase girls.. I will never wish these type of guys on my worst female /gay enemy.
Some guys are fated to remain single and bitter their whole life, and for good reason.
Whoever becomes that guy girlfriend will also need to accept this psycho ts into her social circle.
For that sweet girl sake, its best his friend fail in his pursuit.
ur fren or urself ah?
Originally posted by jojobeach:Of course he cannot hit first base.. because he is lame lah.
Lembeh guy like him can only be bench warmer.
No chance leh. Some more got Idiot friend like you give advise... haiz.. finish liao.. go be monk better lah.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Summer.. please don't teach people like them how to chase girls.. I will never wish these type of guys on my worst female /gay enemy.
Some guys are fated to remain single and bitter their whole life, and for good reason.
Originally posted by Summer hill:
shhhhh. don't be so mean.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Yes like your son. Its karma. He will become forever alone loser. Its either that or he bend over and become Bubba's boyfriend....in a jail cell. I never ask for your advice but since you are here, you should concentrate on your lonely son before he start growing bigger backside and all the gay bubbas in USA start to get attention on him. Your son has two paths due to the retard style of his momma. Either he is going to end up dealing drugs, go to jail, become Bubba's girlfriend, bend over everyday. Or he could become sandusky old man's girlfriend, everyday teach him how to play football and after that go to shower, piap piap. Second path for your son when he reach 18, he is going to go mad with asperger syndrome, Buy a bushmaster one day and shoot you in bed. Your hubby by then would have divorced you, can't stand a beech wife like you. After that he will look for the nearest kindy, and start firing at them. Later he go to 14th floor, and jump.
what an asshole to say such cruel words to a parent.
Originally posted by Summer hill:
what an asshole to say such cruel words to a parent.
Lol.. see what I mean ?
Originally posted by shirt_less:the exchanges are getting out of hand with all the abuses hurled at each other with no relevance to the original topic….
sometimes I feel it senseless why 2 individuals not known to each other can be so hostile to each other online…just because we are hiding behind the computers?
why can’t we be just civil to each other whether online or offline?
@shirt_less : Civil has been extinct even since works like 三毛 and Naruto the pang sai are created to shit this world.
@speakoutfor : If the friends of your have some time to waste on girls, why didn't he do something benefit like helping those who suffered from Typhoon Haiyan in Philippines? And like you said, since your friend has quited his job, he should be more focus on trying to get a new job as his first priority (considered government related job if private sector is too stressful?), by the time he is in senior position and has higher pay etc when he worked in his new company/organization you think by that time he scared he had no girlfriend?
Originally posted by shirt_less:the exchanges are getting out of hand with all the abuses hurled at each other with no relevance to the original topic….
sometimes I feel it senseless why 2 individuals not known to each other can be so hostile to each other online…just because we are hiding behind the computers?
why can’t we be just civil to each other whether online or offline?
Originally posted by M the name:@shirt_less : Civil has been extinct even since works like 三毛 and Naruto the pang sai are created to shit this world.
@speakoutfor : If the friends of your have some time to waste on girls, why didn't he do something benefit like helping those who suffered from Typhoon Haiyan in Philippines? And like you said, since your friend has quited his job, he should be more focus on trying to get a new job as his first priority (considered government related job if private sector is too stressful?), by the time he is in senior position and has higher pay etc when he worked in his new company/organization you think by that time he scared he had no girlfriend?
Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Correction, Jojo biitchh, has been the idiot that has been ravaging these forums, providing shiity advice day by day, to poor disillusion youths. I have been around to see and know who this Jojo the yo momma with retard son, is. I didn't start it, its the Jojo idiot who started it. I tell you this kind of garbage people like Jojo just talk talk all the way thinking she is so smart, like she can contribute a lot to the GDP of singapore, when she is a refugee who ran away to the USA, seeking asylum with her hamsap husband,, claiming that they were political refugees persecuted by PAP. Jojo is a coward and traitor to the singapore cause. SHe knows her son is a wierdo and would die on the first day of national service..due to his weak body and retarded face (look like the sandy hook killer). THat is why she fled to USA to seek Obamacare, so she can exploit the system and get as much free anti-depressants as she can, to feed her obsessed child.
Uh huh.. right... and you are a Malaysian Indian living in Johor.. lol !
The commute from JB to our world class IMH Singapore must be quite tedious I'm sure.
Yes please continue with your crazy rants. Is your friend the same like you too ?
when you see one girl you like, work out your own plans. dont ask others for opinion. you just got screwed when you ask frend for opinion. friends friends tae initiaive. you already lost the elemnt of surprise. general yamamoto should call off the third wave fro m pearl harbot attack