Should i wait or just move on. Relationship Problem.
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means she think (or rather, found out) u got 外�?
so u relli got �� or not leh?
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so dramatic.
firice i lu u dont leave me...i swear i will not stealfood again
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What is most hurtful in a betrayal is the DECEIT. The lying and hiding, and more lying and hiding to hide the lies.
Stop behaving like a thief and no one will think you are one.
Be open and honest about who you socialise with.
If you have nothing to hide, there's no need to act sneaky. Sneaking around is not socialising.
When you love someone, you should never do anything that you will be sorry about later.
Trust must be earned back. Sometimes it'll take years to build but only takes 5 seconds to destroy it.
Stop with your lame excuses. Hiding behind lame excuses only shows how lame you are.
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i think u should stick 2 her...its hard to find some1 tat is able to communicate in a similar grammatical styles.
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Yes we understand you enjoyed the attention from that girl. But being sneaky and deceitful is hurting your girlfriend, someone you care about.
It is possible to be socially active without being hurtful to your girlfriend.
A guy who hurts his love one is not attractive anyway.
If you desire respect and admiration from females, all you need to do is show them what a good boyfriend you are. They will all wish their boyfriend are just like you.
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To wait or to move on? Well, if you change your ways.. you can still try to salvage the relationship . If you want to continue your folly, wouldn't matter who you end up with.. the relationship will not work anyway.
If you don't see the value in this relationship it's best to let go.
If you wany her back, waiting ain't gonna make that happen. You'll need to set aside your pride and ego..admit your mistakes and seek her forgiveness.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Yes we understand you enjoyed the attention from that girl. But being sneaky and deceitful is hurting your girlfriend, someone you care about.
It is possible to be socially active without being hurtful to your girlfriend.
A guy who hurts his love one is not attractive anyway.
If you desire respect and admiration from females, all you need to do is show them what a good boyfriend you are. They will all wish their boyfriend are just like you.
do like what you wrote - its all fake, no deiffernt from been sneaky sneaking around - show only i also nan-da-show. but iwont do it.
go frist date i bring them go hawker centre/ the ehat and crowd. if she stays then i bring her go porche restallant
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Originally posted by Craptalkone:
do like what you wrote - its all fake, no deiffernt from been sneaky sneaking around - show only i also nan-da-show. but iwont do it.
go frist date i bring them go hawker centre/ the ehat and crowd. if she stays then i bring her go porche restallant
She can afford to go posh restaurant herself. She no need to wait for you to bring her.
Your method will work only if she is very very poor. If she those financially disadvantaged background, of course she don't mind hawker food.. better than digging garbage.
Every girl just want to feel special, since you are too cheap to make her feel special of course she not going to come back to you or stick around.
do not bring your new girl to the same hawker center you brought your ex girlfriend. Remember, she want to know she is special in your heart, not just another girl you stinged on.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
She can afford to go posh restaurant herself. She no need to wait for you to bring her.
Your method will work only if she is very very poor. If she those financially disadvantaged background, of course she don't mind hawker food.. better than digging garbage.
Every girl just want to feel special, since you are too cheap to make her feel special of course she not going to come back to you or stick around.
do not bring your new girl to the same hawker center you brought your ex girlfriend. Remember, she want to know she is special in your heart, not just another girl you stinged on.
what see so easy can see truel colors already.
love is 2-way. i want a girl and if possible in future my wife to care for me and also undertand me. i bring every girl go restaurant so which one is mroe special? the one more porsche 1?
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Originally posted by jlowbog:
i think u should stick 2 her...its hard to find some1 tat is able to communicate in a similar grammatical styles.
Lol i couldnt agree more.
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Thanks for all the comment but...
I already accept the fact and face it,i have received her text massage, and to state 10 reasons from her "why should i go back to you" I have stated 10 reason which are all wrong on yesterday. i think i have to restate again.
i know she still love me but i really dont want to give up on her. she can be a good wife and that is what i am looking for. Her text on phone.
GF text :
you better ask yourself if you still can commit to me, one gal. of cause you know i mind a lot about talking to a gals this time round, you also lack of self-control and talk to the gal too. if you cant do it, dont force yourself. its good to be separate for a while to sort things out.
But the part is "mind alot talking to gals" i have to think what im going to do, so i am asking myself. "talk to guys only from now onwards? what if those school and work which need to communicate? " i have text her this in reply before i text her a long 10 reasons
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Originally posted by DaV<3333:
Thanks for all the comment but...
I already accept the fact and face it,i have received her text massage, and to state 10 reasons from her "why should i go back to you" I have stated 10 reason which are all wrong on yesterday. i think i have to restate again.
i know she still love me but i really dont want to give up on her. she can be a good wife and that is what i am looking for. Her text on phone.
GF text :
you better ask yourself if you still can commit to me, one gal. of cause you know i mind a lot about talking to a gals this time round, you also lack of self-control and talk to the gal too. if you cant do it, dont force yourself. its good to be separate for a while to sort things out.
But the part is "mind alot talking to gals" i have to think what im going to do, so i am asking myself. "talk to guys only from now onwards? what if those school and work which need to communicate? " i have text her this in reply before i text her a long 10 reasons
Aiyo, when you have to communicate with other females, keep it strictly business, nothing personal.
You got in trouble because the chat was too personal and you add fuel to fire when you try to hide and lie to your gf.
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insecurity and trust issues is the most tricky in a rship
one destroyed it will never be built again
if u cant accede her requests, then it's time to reconsider if u want to be with someone who is always suspicious of u and u always have to tell white lies
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In the end, you gotta decide whether if she is worth it for you to forsake ur social life with other girls, even if it is normal friends...
If she's not worth it, then u better look for someone else...
it is not right to love someone and expect her to change into someone (or some criteria) you hope for... In the end, you are not loving who she is, you are only loving someone who "best suit your criteria"...
Edited: So you really got �� anot???
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She treated me very nice, im his first bf that last for so long and she is my second gf. My last ex-gf gave up on me because i'm selfish, low qualification and no goal in career yet. still being kiddish kind.
Now i have her and everything within 1 year but now on 2nd year. Appearance and outfit to a new change.she encouage, be myside all the while when i feel terrible at work or school, buy nice stuff even those are expensive but of cause i treat her nice food and expensive stuff too.
I told i love the way she is, maybe i feel that i am quite stable in relationship and wanted to improve on others. Overall she is worth it for me. Maybe i just think too highly of myself for having such a good gf and forget about how she feels.
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so how?
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I decided to win back her trust and it takes time, she requested to date instead and her text looks so gloomy.
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I don't think you make a good husband. you are too self absorbed.
She deserves a better guy or just remain single. If she stays with you she will be miserable for the rest of her life.
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only to win her trust. its for show. ask yourself from deep down your heart is it true?
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either your girlfriend is too possessive to demand that you cannot talk to other girls, or you gave her that sense of insecurity with your actions. from here, we cannot tell if you did anything that let her felt insecure, for example, did you ever stray before? in a relationship, both parties must be frank. there is nothing wrong with going out with members of the opposite sex. just tell the other party who you are going out with and the relationship with that person. be open about it. the more you try to hide, the more suspicions it raise. so, if you treasure the relatioship with her, give her the sense of security that you belong to her only. but also get her understanding that socialising with people of the opposite sex is normal. you can bring her on some of these ocassions when you come out to work, don;t tell me you are not allowed to talk to your female colleagues. what if your boss is a female?
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if the gf needs to be punished, i can help