new gf might be posted overseas

• Craptalkone

  30 Oct 13, 22:34

  mai thu liao! 30yo you both not kids anymor! marry her. then ask me be your pre wed wed photogrpaher. after your baby full month shower i also be photgrpaher, themn she preganant i also phtoogtrpahre , then rom i also phtoogrpaher.

   

  then after that she can go voerseas all she want.

• sgdiehard

  2 Nov 13, 11:54

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  up to her to choose career or u.

   

  if give up career, u yang de qi her ?

  why don't you quit your job and follow her?

• charlize

  2 Nov 13, 12:55

  Nobody can live on love and fresh air alone. 

• Demon Bane

  6 Nov 13, 09:53

  This is a sticky situation....long distance relationship won't work unless both of you guys are equally committed .... I think u must get her to understand your concerns....talk to her...

• speakoutfor

  23 Nov 13, 11:15

  Originally posted by redname:

  Hi,

  I just got together with my GF for 3 months, althou there were rough patches, we worked things out and things are getting better.

  today she tld me that her company is sending her overseas for 2 yrs to start something there.

  I'm afraid this can be a big hit and affect our relationship.

  we just started not long ago and things are stable yet and moreover, we are in our 30s, not young already, these 2 years might really be very important

  Maybe she is testing you. You suggest to her la, tell her to postpone this overseas thingy for another 2 years to give this relationship a try. You must fight for what you believe or suffer consequences of LDR.

  But she is mid 30s, right? So her market value is pretty much diluted. You don't have to worry about losing her overseas unless she looks like nicole kidman.

  If she still insist on going overseas, you should seek other girls. No point sticking to her. Most overseas posting are not great anyways. I've been posted to UK and Cambodia, I still feel lonely there. Yeah at first it is exciting to see the way of life there but after some time, you get bored and lonely. But if she is posted to Australia, you should be worried, there is a lot of available migrant single guys. I lost my ex gf when she got posted to Australia to another migrant guy.

   

   

• Craptalkone

  23 Nov 13, 14:39

  Originally posted by speakoutfor:

  Maybe she is testing you. You suggest to her la, tell her to postpone this overseas thingy for another 2 years to give this relationship a try. You must fight for what you believe or suffer consequences of LDR.

  But she is mid 30s, right? So her market value is pretty much diluted. You don't have to worry about losing her overseas unless she looks like nicole kidman.

  If she still insist on going overseas, you should seek other girls. No point sticking to her. Most overseas posting are not great anyways. I've been posted to UK and Cambodia, I still feel lonely there. Yeah at first it is exciting to see the way of life there but after some time, you get bored and lonely. But if she is posted to Australia, you should be worried, there is a lot of available migrant single guys. I lost my ex gf when she got posted to Australia to another migrant guy.

  You are wrong, me see got hole can already.

• M the name

  6 Dec 13, 01:11

  Differences between being single and being in a relationship : http://memecollection.net/differences-between-being-single-and-being-in-a-relationship

• EmilyMinty

  9 Jan 14, 15:01

  There are many ways which you guys can see each other. Like Webcam all these.