i've been thinking......
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Originally posted by redname:
I did thought of this but i'm sure there are lots of pple who thought of this carefully before going into marriage, knowing that they are very sure but in the end still end up divorced.
of cus there r those who have a happy marriage, so what's that different factor?
You are quite right...I also don't know why some people's marriage ended in divorce even if they had planned and seriously considered before....
Must be fate....or is there such thing as fate?
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Whatever you do...just don't be too impulsive to get married...maybe you are being pressured becos you are not a "popular choice" .... and this lady comes along and fit into your daily life...just be fair to yourself....don't do it until you are absolutely sure...
i'm not looking so far, not just wanna see whether can continue our relationship or not :(
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
You are quite right...I also don't know why some people's marriage ended in divorce even if they had planned and seriously considered before....
Must be fate....or is there such thing as fate?
beats me.........
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there are too many distraction.
you need to be focused. like last time our parents' time. where got divroce 1?
divorce rate very low.
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Many marry for the wrong reasons. Once their sinister purpose fulfilled, there will be no more reason to stay within marital binds.
Many also marry for the right purpose.. but along the way.. situations change, financial status changes, needs change, people change..so many lost sight of the purpose in their union.. become self-ish and forget that a marriage is about 2 unique person trying to live a united life in an ever changing world.
Never test/push the limits on your partner's love.. for even a strong relationship is very fragile. Trust is the glue that tightly binds.. but also the easiest to break.
Divorce does not happen overnight. Desecration begins from little bits of care-less-ness, then all adds together. When enough is enough... the end is inevitable.
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Musing over this may unravel the denials many fail and are unwilling to reconcile to. This seems to be the predicament of many. Always changin, always evolving - that is what an alive relationship is. It is river-like: flowing, ever-fresh. It has climates, many moods. It is uncertain and always full of suprises. A dead relationship, like a pond remains stagnant and smells, is stale. It is repetitive, it is the same, but then it is no more a relationship. Then it is no longer two persons, but two things together. Of course, two things never quarrel. The quarrel arises when two alive persons enter. Beware the ''walking'' graves behind the façade of fulfilled marriages! N o less a Jeremiad but being aware does make a difference.
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Well, you may know a person more than 10 years and still that type of marriage may still fail....the thing is, you will never know....who is suitable by just thinking...many times you must trust your instincts....and put a little faith in the relationship....I know some people with grown kids and 65yrs old....still going for divorce....
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why you all so worried, i going sex my boyfriend oredi
