appears you fall in love with her already... at this juncture, earlier u said you hadn't profess to her.. so maybe this is a good timing, crap on here is useless, go to her and let her know how you feel for her, thing may turn around. and, how do you know she is demotivated, she revealed her feeling to you only? or you learned it from her friend. if it is her that told u she was upset and wanted to quit sch, can i say she was hinting you to show love to her? and purposely gave u a chance confess? 有�
Originally posted by Avatarniu:appears you fall in love with her already... at this juncture, earlier u said you hadn't profess to her.. so maybe this is a good timing, crap on here is useless, go to her and let her know how you feel for her, thing may turn around. and, how do you know she is demotivated, she revealed her feeling to you only? or you learned it from her friend. if it is her that told u she was upset and wanted to quit sch, can i say she was hinting you to show love to her? and purposely gave u a chance confess? 有�
Originally posted by chia93:
Ok I see well will tell her my feelings soon...but before that just a last question if both of us comes frm a broken or messed up family, will it be advisable to be tgt I mean since if I wan it to last marriage will come into my mind right?
If you regard her a girl worth to be your partner for the whole life, her background or your background is irrelevant, isn't it? If she decline u solely due to your background, she is not worth your love...and what the hell? R u really a young fella??? I thought only old man would be troubled by this kind of idle factor, young man should be more dashing and daring in pursuing love, right?
old dear, a blinf\d man leading another blind man
Originally posted by Craptalkone:old dear, a blinf\d man leading another blind man
Oh? U want to take the gig?
blind leading the blind
Dear chia93
With respect to all other comments here,
I have always felt that being honest is the best. Stop torturing yourself by wondering so much and trying to be someone you're not. Worrying and thinking will not get you anywhere because there is no wonderful strategy that will guarantee success.
Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel. The right time will be when YOU feel it's right. What to say? Well, tell her how your feel about her, what are your thoughts on your parents and hers and what you think the future may hold if she accepts you.
If she says no and decides to stop talking to you, then learn from the experience, move on and find someone who appreciates you the way you are. Your happiness is in your own control, make the best out of it and stay happy.
Alexis
Beading Love - "Inspired designs to inspire you."
Originally posted by Alexis.BeadingLove:Dear chia93
With respect to all other comments here,
I have always felt that being honest is the best. Stop torturing yourself by wondering so much and trying to be someone you're not. Worrying and thinking will not get you anywhere because there is no wonderful strategy that will guarantee success.
Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel. The right time will be when YOU feel it's right. What to say? Well, tell her how your feel about her, what are your thoughts on your parents and hers and what you think the future may hold if she accepts you.
If she says no and decides to stop talking to you, then learn from the experience, move on and find someone who appreciates you the way you are. Your happiness is in your own control, make the best out of it and stay happy.
Alexis
Beading Love - "Inspired designs to inspire you."
Yeah...that's good advice! However, I think you should focus on your studies. You are still young, there'll be plenty of opportunities to meet more suitable people in your life.
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Gambatte, OI , CROSSDRESS BO JIO .
u just have to become his friend, slowly caring for her, show her that she will have someone behind to back her up if she needs help, try to do some things you 2 like to do in common, she'll fall in love with you in no time.
Relationship is very sensetive as live glass. Once it broken then very hard to make. However, there are many sites they share tips in this situation. You can check at this site: http://www.attractthemnow.org