I feel like a grass widower

• Authenticity86

  8 Jun 13, 05:44

  i had a 2 years plus gf and we just broke up recently. we were that close to getting married and my last attempt to make her stay was to propose to her but i failed. this break up feels like a divorce. we still love each other but we have to get over our r/s. im still in a state of denial that she left and i dont wanna get over her. i need help

• FireIce

  8 Jun 13, 11:39

  if u no want to help urself no one can help u

• BadzMaro

  8 Jun 13, 12:12

  The woman chooseth to be with you.. and she also chooseth to leave you. There is nothing much you can do about it. You feel better in a few months time, provided you don't go on a negative spiral downwards. 

• Sebastianseet01

  8 Jun 13, 14:52

   

  Anyone who is experiencing break-up feels lost and alone. Turn to others for guidance on what you are feeling and how deeply you should be feeling it, helps. You need to come to terms with it (may not be easy). Yes, break-up is never easy and when it happens, those who are going through it are often reduced to the basic functions of emotional survival. The pain, vulnerability and confusion engendered by relationship break-up can often be psychologically crippling, if only in the short term.

  Remember, everything is difficult before it becomes easy. It is difficult to accept now but in the end of the dark tunnel you will be able to: rebuilding and beginning again and having faith in the future take a great deal of courage. 

   

• Yunhaier

  17 Jun 13, 00:01

  Originally posted by Authenticity86:

  i had a 2 years plus gf and we just broke up recently. we were that close to getting married and my last attempt to make her stay was to propose to her but i failed. this break up feels like a divorce. we still love each other but we have to get over our r/s. im still in a state of denial that she left and i dont wanna get over her. i need help

   Getting married isn't the problem - the relationship is. The relationship does seem pretty fragile if you have to attempt a proposal of that nature, so as to keep the relationship going - almost like an empty shell decorated with shiny gemstones.

  A broken relationship does not mean a broken man - even if the relationship has to go, make sure you figure out the meaning behind your lost as an alternative to being in state of denial. 

  Cheers 

• M the name

  17 Jun 13, 01:50

  The End : http://www.jhallcomics.com/Bloop/7274

• BotaHead

  18 Jun 13, 13:19

  u go tell her loh

  u still cant get over it

  ask her dont be so heartless lah

  give u a bit of time to adjust

  later u will leave her alone already

  see will she help u loh

• Authenticity86

  1 Jul 13, 02:35

  hi thanks for your kind advices. its nice to know that there are still kind people out there :)

• M the name

  3 Jul 13, 19:07

  The secret to unlock her heart : http://funjak.com/post/549