Originally posted by FireIce:we all haben hear the other side of the story yo.
skarlee the prob is not with her.
oh yes, that is when one is bearing unreasonable grudge such response is perceivable.
tnp
Originally posted by shirt_less:such bad colleagues exist everywhere because of bad bosses who are either really blind to see the truth or chose to be blind (ignore)...
if no one can do anything to her, just gotta wait for heaven to teach her a lesson (she will get her just retribution in a way or another one day)....but sometimes seems that these people don;t get their just desserts also…don;t know why….maybe in their next life or next generation…
actually these people are very pathetic because deep down, these people are very insecure, that is why they chose to put up a brave front (in terms of acting like a bully) so that they create a shield for themselves to protect themselves….
sorry i don’t have concrete solutions to suggest, hope SJS won’t ask me to buck off from the discussion here.
those who approve her of joining now regret. This bitchy one knows people are talking bad about her behind her back. She is good to claim whatever others are doing as her credit when she copies from us. There are times she will tell me her stories but now other than work I don't want to be a personal friend to her anymore.
My other colleagues also not interested to go out with her on personal basis.
Originally posted by Deacon Blue:i ever enoucnter some pretend cook own meal during lunch and brag about it (another of my ex company the pantry area is near thiose sales R&D big shot bosses office area but when she meet with sub-con company give budget for snacks and meals treats to them so she eat along also.
cook baydae healthy meal at lunch once in a while then during weekly once twice meeting with subcon eat pizza rochor choc wha! go live sia!
so pathetic she resort to pretend.
Originally posted by jojobeach:If that's really the case.. she's in for a rude shock.
You don't have to conceed to her demands. You just need to be more assertive and stop allowing others to take advantage of your weakness.
My colleague has long stopped asking her whether she wants lunch, now I follow suit. I will only be available for her on work and not anything personal.
Originally posted by Smarttech.888:TS, very simple, next time ask her infront of other colleagues, if she is still a human , she either pay u or never will ask u buy again.
She will take revenge after that.
Buy for her. Then secretly dig your nose and put e pisai in the rice.
Watch her say the lunch is tasty.
Originally posted by SJS6638:My colleague has long stopped asking her whether she wants lunch, now I follow suit. I will only be available for her on work and not anything personal.
that's your fault. why you so free itchy mouth ask her want lunch or not? its like you know she like that yet you keep invited her to be like that.
Originally posted by Deacon Blue:
that's your fault. why you so free itchy mouth ask her want lunch or not? its like you know she like that yet you keep invited her to be like that.
I have stopped asking her about buying lunch. But if there is free lunch I will ask if she wants. I don't ask that every time we have free lunch. In fact, I have stopped asking.
you co so gut got free lunch?
Originally posted by SJS6638:I have stopped asking her about buying lunch. But if there is free lunch I will ask if she wants. I don't ask that every time we have free lunch. In fact, I have stopped asking.
This type of person u still care after ahe take advantage of u? U tao nao bo ho seh?
gain experience mah