engaged lady showing interest in me

• Rodon

  11 May 13, 17:57

  hi all,

  there's this female colleague who is chasing after me. the problem is that her fiance is in the same company. at first i try to brush it off but her advances are getting stronger and it's starting to freak me out.

  even the hr manager asked me about it recently as she got suspicious, and i told her to adopt a wait-see approach.

  all along, i always maintain a professional attitude towards her, but somehow, this happens (when i talk to her, it's purely work, and i only talk to her when work requires it).

  can anyone advise what i shld do now? shld i just sit it out and wait for her advances to die / fade off slowly? it hasn't come to the point where i can just go up and tell her that i hv no feelings for her, because if she got offended, can't take it etc....she might just blow the whole thing up and i'm the one to die regardless whether i'm innocent or not.

  i know her fiance as well, and always respected him a lot due to his good personality and working style, and we're on very good terms with each other.

  pls help! can't sleep the whole night as i'm afraid to lose my job.

  tks (if things spiral out of control, i might consider quiting even though it's really non of my fault; the girl keeps making the moves and i didn't even flirt with her)

  rodon.

• jojobeach

  12 May 13, 01:10

  Originally posted by Rodon:

  hi all,

  there's this female colleague who is chasing after me. the problem is that her fiance is in the same company. at first i try to brush it off but her advances are getting stronger and it's starting to freak me out.

  even the hr manager asked me about it recently as she got suspicious, and i told her to adopt a wait-see approach.

  all along, i always maintain a professional attitude towards her, but somehow, this happens (when i talk to her, it's purely work, and i only talk to her when work requires it).

  can anyone advise what i shld do now? shld i just sit it out and wait for her advances to die / fade off slowly? it hasn't come to the point where i can just go up and tell her that i hv no feelings for her, because if she got offended, can't take it etc....she might just blow the whole thing up and i'm the one to die regardless whether i'm innocent or not.

  i know her fiance as well, and always respected him a lot due to his good personality and working style, and we're on very good terms with each other.

  pls help! can't sleep the whole night as i'm afraid to lose my job.

  tks (if things spiral out of control, i might consider quiting even though it's really non of my fault; the girl keeps making the moves and i didn't even flirt with her)

  rodon.

  Put a fake photo of a girl on your desktop. And claim you are attached.

  Make sure the girl is very chio and sexy.. so that co-worker can have a good reason to back off.

  In front of that co-worker.. pretend to call your girlfriend act very loving and kiss kiss the phone lah.

  You don't have to tell your co worker off.. just give her a graceful exit off the stage.

• charlize

  12 May 13, 08:54

  Hold hands with her fiance. 

• Illo.yonex

  12 May 13, 10:17

  tks guys. will adopt a wait-see approach for now and see what happens next.

• FireIce

  12 May 13, 12:38

  wat wait and see

  straight away directly tell her u not interested lah

   

  oh, are u? 

• jojobeach

  12 May 13, 14:25

  Just enjoy her attention lah...until her fiance come and punch you in your face lor.

   

• SJS6638

  12 May 13, 14:29

  Originally posted by Illo.yonex:

  tks guys. will adopt a wait-see approach for now and see what happens next.

  are you rodon?  or are you his clone?

• Deacon Blue

  12 May 13, 16:51

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Put a fake photo of a girl on your desktop. And claim you are attached.

  Make sure the girl is very chio and sexy.. so that co-worker can have a good reason to back off.

  In front of that co-worker.. pretend to call your girlfriend act very loving and kiss kiss the phone lah.

  You don't have to tell your co worker off.. just give her a graceful exit off the stage.

  
  good idea. but please tell him dont anyhow take from internet. some are popular easily accessible photos of celebrities. i got some of my personal collection never went up online one. can print one hardcopy for TS to use. very chio 1.

• charlize

  12 May 13, 16:58

  Damn clones. 

• charlize

  13 May 13, 09:16

  The standard of clones in sgforums has been dropping.

• ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~

  13 May 13, 09:36

  Originally posted by Illo.yonex:

  tks guys. will adopt a wait-see approach for now and see what happens next.

  
  replied with wrong account???

• charlize

  13 May 13, 09:39

  Hanor hanor.

• BotaHead

  13 May 13, 10:43

  this thread is notch so simple

  

• Deacon Blue

  13 May 13, 13:32

  Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:

  
  replied with wrong account???

  
  some laern resurrection spells, some learn mirage cloning spells.

  all kinds of wizards around.

• newgal

  13 May 13, 13:54

  maybe you mistook her friendliness as interest

• DaVe LiN pArK

  13 May 13, 14:58

  work means work, realationship means realationship, don't let it ruin your career. Otherwise, you just think too much haha

• Just_do_it_lah

  13 May 13, 18:26

  Originally posted by Illo.yonex:

  tks guys. will adopt a wait-see approach for now and see what happens next.

  

  How many clone accounts you have besides RODON ?? 

• SJS6638

  16 May 13, 22:29

  Originally posted by charlize:

  The standard of clones in sgforums has been dropping.

  ya lor, this TS refuses to go upgrade, what to do    

• mlmersrlosers

  5 Jun 13, 10:17

  U very handsome/rich isit??

  or u think too much liao??

  Just indirectly hint her u are attached and u love your gf alot.

  or most effective is tell her u find her fiance's butt not bad.

• allkosong

  21 Jun 13, 19:47

  Just continue to treat her as a colleague, if you don't have/show any romantic interest in her , she will lose patience and go hit on someone else:)