How to be more manlier

• Leaden Lion

  8 May 13, 23:10

  Hello,

   

  I just wanted to ask how you guys actually man up?

   

  I hate always being seemingly 'weak' and inferior to people...

  I don't really know how to deal with problems like people's unhappiness and when they critisize me, i just brush it aside because i just don't care or is to tired to respond; people then take that as a sign of weakness..
  
  When people confront me, i normally don't react much or just let them do what they want because i can get really critical and confrontational really fast and then things will turn ugly, thus it is also taken as being weak.

   

  SO how do you man up and 'defend' yourself when people disturb you or confront you.

   

   

   

• FireIce

  8 May 13, 23:12

  dont bother dont care is the rite attitude.

  tts man.

• Tcsaaa

  8 May 13, 23:30

  run at orchard road with only underwear?

• FireIce

  8 May 13, 23:42

  tts stomp

• Just_do_it_lah

  9 May 13, 00:02

  U can start by stop wearing female clothing.... 

• lce

  9 May 13, 08:43

  why  ppl confronted u? unless u r a bastard n a pain in the ass.

  always others at fault ar?

• Tcsaaa

  9 May 13, 09:02

  what kind of man u want to be? the type that can only bully woman?

• jojobeach

  9 May 13, 13:27

  Originally posted by Leaden Lion:

  Hello,

   

  I just wanted to ask how you guys actually man up?

   

  I hate always being seemingly 'weak' and inferior to people...

  I don't really know how to deal with problems like people's unhappiness and when they critisize me, i just brush it aside because i just don't care or is to tired to respond; people then take that as a sign of weakness..
  
  When people confront me, i normally don't react much or just let them do what they want because i can get really critical and confrontational really fast and then things will turn ugly, thus it is also taken as being weak.

   

  SO how do you man up and 'defend' yourself when people disturb you or confront you.

   

   

   

  Acting non-chalant and "boh chap" is your defense mechanism against criticism or "attacks". Your weakness is nothing but fear.

  If you need to man up.. simple... do everything right, sensibly and honestly.

  That way.. no one will need to criticise your laziness, sloppiness and messiness. No one can fault a faultless  person.

  If there is conflict.. seek to resolve the root of the problem. Brushing off is being irresponsible , or perhaps you fear facing the problems because you have no solution.

  Acting non-chalant is your means of AVOIDING resolution.

  Being helpful and proactive and the ability to focus on resolving problems/obstacles,  is strength in character. 

• newgal

  9 May 13, 15:36

  Dont always kpkb and say wanna die.

• NeverSayGoodBye

  9 May 13, 21:10

  .....can watch this recently shown movie "Jack Reacher" starring Tom Cruise. You can pick up lots of tips on man's man characteristics, except the violence. 

  

• ISTARI

  10 May 13, 09:10

  National Service? Testosterone injection?

  or give them a firm look and say" Leave me alone", then leave

   

• BotaHead

  10 May 13, 10:52

  hanor hanor

  i also want to become manlier but dont know how

• DaVe LiN pArK

  13 May 13, 16:05

  Just smile smile and say '' thank you for your critizise =) '' he/she will stunt a bit and lost for a moment. Make your words short and sweet. Just act like a very firm and postitve person. No one will again say about you. If you ignore, he/she will attempt to find fault with you again and again.