Why sometime spouse being annoying?

• Gemz2one

  13 Mar 13, 04:02

  Hi people,

  Im posting this to let out my feeling inside me.... 

  We just got married few months back. She gettting to be very annoying lately. I just dun really understand why sometimes. At first she blames me Im always late fetching her from whereever she is while actually I told her Im not late. Just tat she did not inform me what time exactly she ends her stuffs. And lately she blaming me for not picking up her calls when she call me. Is not tat I did not want to pick up. She got me at a wrong timing when Im tight on other important stuffs such as work matter. Its not I did not call her back. I did called her immediately shortly after Im free within minutes but she already got mad.

  I may understand she may feel insecure. I always told her that I be loving her thru thick n thin in life since now she is already my wife. But she just dun sees it.. Sooo irritating n frustrating at times.

  Thank u for reading this post.

• JerryJanice

  13 Mar 13, 04:22

  u only married for few months can complain liao I go thru' that for past 25 yrs also no choice just need to be tolerant learn how to get along with his bad temper my bro-in-law say I nvr open my eye b4 married
• mario tan

  13 Mar 13, 08:00

  ts eye is closed and with plaster on it be4 married|

• jojobeach

  13 Mar 13, 09:10

  Originally posted by Gemz2one:

  Hi people,

  Im posting this to let out my feeling inside me.... 

  We just got married few months back. She gettting to be very annoying lately. I just dun really understand why sometimes. At first she blames me Im always late fetching her from whereever she is while actually I told her Im not late. Just tat she did not inform me what time exactly she ends her stuffs. And lately she blaming me for not picking up her calls when she call me. Is not tat I did not want to pick up. She got me at a wrong timing when Im tight on other important stuffs such as work matter. Its not I did not call her back. I did called her immediately shortly after Im free within minutes but she already got mad.

  I may understand she may feel insecure. I always told her that I be loving her thru thick n thin in life since now she is already my wife. But she just dun sees it.. Sooo irritating n frustrating at times.

  Thank u for reading this post.

  talk is cheap.  you need to walk the talk.

  never judge  a man by his words, judge a man by his actions.

  are you getting complacent after you marry her ?

  is this break down of communication getting worst after marrying each other ?

  this is not about her insecurities... its about finding out what a lousy guy you are after she married you !

  now that you are living a shared life...learn to work together ! communicate with each other . dont expect the other to read your mind.

  this punctuality issue can be resolved by keeping each other updated. . with our current communication technology. .why is it even a problem? could it be because someone is too lazy ?

• carbikebus

  13 Mar 13, 10:15

  Have sex with her often la.Thats my trick the more she annoy me the more I screw her

• "newbie"

  13 Mar 13, 12:20

  curious, are you all together less then 2 yrs and got married?

   

   

• FireIce

  13 Mar 13, 12:33

  b4 jie fen no these probs ma?

• FireIce

  13 Mar 13, 12:34

  Originally posted by "newbie":

  curious, are you all together less then 2 yrs and got married?

  stereotyping? 

• lce

  13 Mar 13, 12:44

  some women need a few knocks on the head to wake them up n some need some tender care to be receptive.

  in any relationship, its always a 2-way trafiic n must be truthful to 1another.

  have a gud talk n ask her wat is she looking for in this marriage n in her life. perhaps u could start from there.

• FireIce

  13 Mar 13, 12:47

  we dont know the other side of the story 

• lce

  13 Mar 13, 12:50

  there r always 2 sides of a coin but still both sides still belong to a coin.

  even u split the coin , there r still 2 sides , only 1 side is blank (empty)

• FireIce

  13 Mar 13, 12:58

  很勉强 leh

   

  no link.

• "newbie"

  13 Mar 13, 12:59

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  stereotyping? 

  
  not really a scientific proven.. when in love for the fist 18months.. our body produces (not sure the name) hormones that make newly couple lovey dovey... after the initial 18months thgs starts to get real... that why i ask...

  Anyway to share a true fren story.. when they dating.. the gf was nice, dont really bother where my fren go or go out with as long as inform her will do... the gf was also very nice to my fren parents...

  after marrying less then 6 months, she start condaming his frens.. forbidding him to go out... typically super demanding... worst, she even starts to get annoyed with his parents, to the extend she can shouts from downstairs to the parents scolding them.....

  welcome to marriage life... that why i always advocate that at least date for 2 yrs before actually deciding to get marry.

   

• FireIce

  13 Mar 13, 13:06

  so 按部就� one worrrrrrrr

   

  then when gib birth the best?

  so the child is smart can go IP or IB next time

• lce

  13 Mar 13, 14:11

  shallow

• FireIce

  13 Mar 13, 14:36

  y u like tt say "newbie"

• M the name

  13 Mar 13, 14:49

  At least Joanne Peh is smarter the way your can see how she made her marriage decision.

• FireIce

  13 Mar 13, 14:54

  break up with BT loh.

   

• lce

  13 Mar 13, 15:02

  dun noe she got all the fun or BT got all the free fuck

  bitches do have strange affection

• jojobeach

  15 Mar 13, 03:07

  yah lah yah lah.. always the women fault lah. 

  men don't use the mirror much .

• lce

  15 Mar 13, 09:16

  its just woman nature to be at fault

• FireIce

  15 Mar 13, 11:09

  tts wat all men think. 

• [imdestinyz]

  15 Mar 13, 12:10

  the response... so darn LOL :)

• lce

  15 Mar 13, 12:19

  women think with their womb n men think with their 2 heads

  so can think better

• FireIce

  15 Mar 13, 12:21

  no updates leh 

  isit prep-ing to un-marry liao?