Really need help!! girl i like since sec schl like my friend
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ok long story...few years back..i posted a post about the girl who i like but she only treat me as friend..then got another girl like me but is way younger..we ended together for about 1year but we finish the relation peacefully.
Girl A: girl i like since sec 2 (8years ago) (22yrs old)
Girl B: girl i am with for 1 year (18 yrs old)
Boy A: my friend since sec 2 (22yrs old)
Ever since sec 2 i like girl A and confess once dueing that year but she told me it too sudden and did not say anything else.
We remain friend and at Poly year 3 i confess again and again she did not say anything. I lied that i was drunk that why i send her that kind of sms. Then she said nvm at least i am truthful to myself. Somemore she tell me before to finish NS and study uni first.
Girl B then tell me she like me around that time. So before i enlisted i accepted her and was very happy with her. Every book out go pei her and go out and etc.
But after 1 year we suddenly realize we got no time to talk and go out due to her studies and my NS. So we said give other a break for a while.
Then Girl A suddenly sms me once know i broke up and tell me to cheer out. Ask me out and etc. I regain my hope for her and started to chase her again.
Then about 5mths ago friends tell me Girl A like Boy A. I was shocked and thought they joking. End up i begin to observe and rwalize that they are really very close compare to last time.
Yesterday visited Girl A house and realize the famoly and relative know Boy A. I felt as though like a knife pock into my heart.
I really dont know what to do. If you got read till here please give me direction.
Girl A dont look pretty or sexy but somehow i just like her a lot even now.
Girl B is cute looking and young and innocent. We still got hope to tgt.
I dont know what to do now. Every month my sec schl clique meet up. If Girl A and Boy A tgt then how i am to face them.
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girl B la
can have sex often.
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if i were TS i would choose girl b. ±»°®ÊÇÐÒ¸£°®ÈËÊÇÍ´¿à, got ppl like u, and somemore from the way u describe girl b she should be a decent girl, why go and waste ur time crying over someone who just sees u as a friend? don't be like me, wait until she leave u then u start to regret, by then, it will be TOO LATE.... just my 2 cents worth.
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you have been friendzoned by two girls.lol
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it wont be as difficut as signing the certification of marriage.
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Originally posted by BleezeB:
ok long story...few years back..i posted a post about the girl who i like but she only treat me as friend..then got another girl like me but is way younger..we ended together for about 1year but we finish the relation peacefully.
Girl A: girl i like since sec 2 (8years ago) (22yrs old)
Girl B: girl i am with for 1 year (18 yrs old)
Boy A: my friend since sec 2 (22yrs old)
Ever since sec 2 i like girl A and confess once dueing that year but she told me it too sudden and did not say anything else.
We remain friend and at Poly year 3 i confess again and again she did not say anything. I lied that i was drunk that why i send her that kind of sms. Then she said nvm at least i am truthful to myself. Somemore she tell me before to finish NS and study uni first.
Girl B then tell me she like me around that time. So before i enlisted i accepted her and was very happy with her. Every book out go pei her and go out and etc.
But after 1 year we suddenly realize we got no time to talk and go out due to her studies and my NS. So we said give other a break for a while.
Then Girl A suddenly sms me once know i broke up and tell me to cheer out. Ask me out and etc. I regain my hope for her and started to chase her again.
Then about 5mths ago friends tell me Girl A like Boy A. I was shocked and thought they joking. End up i begin to observe and rwalize that they are really very close compare to last time.
Yesterday visited Girl A house and realize the famoly and relative know Boy A. I felt as though like a knife pock into my heart.
I really dont know what to do. If you got read till here please give me direction.
Girl A dont look pretty or sexy but somehow i just like her a lot even now.
Girl B is cute looking and young and innocent. We still got hope to tgt.
I dont know what to do now. Every month my sec schl clique meet up. If Girl A and Boy A tgt then how i am to face them.
There is often a someone 'we couldn't have' and this entity gradually transform into a question mark in our emotional mind. We could toy with possible imaginations, but I am not sure where it would land you. What's pretty certain is that if she hasn't put you onto the consideration list, then it is unlikely that your position would drastically change unless her perception of you alters. Largely because of that fact that the essence of our looks, personality and behaviour towards people is usually quite consistent - which are precisely the reasons why we are on or off the chart.
Surely it must be a challenge facing the lady you fancy in the same clique of friends; however, this is just one aspect of your challenge. The real challenge lies in facing a very real possibility of waking up to a reality that this is someone that you might never actually have. The fantasy stage of affection can be rather addictive because everything appears surreal and perfect - you might actually imagine her contacting you because she wants to 'give you a chance', but it is more likely to be one-sided on your end.
And in this fantasy world - we tends to minimize hard facts which are suggestive of points that are contrary to your form of idealism.
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Putting two women on the equation from your post only seem to suggest to me that you perceived that A is a possible choice. What I mean is that it is possible to like someone/something, while having the awareness that possession is a different concept. For example, I could love Ferrari, but purchasing one is way out of my financial ability. Harboring the thought about having someone impossible is fantasy; the frustration and pain we experience is likely due to the fact that we desperately want something we cannot get, while maintaining the idea that it is within reach. Love often gets buried itself under layers of other feelings; more often than not, insecurity being the thickest lot. Using similar analogy, if my friend bought a Ferrari and I get upset over it - perhaps the wisdom lies not in avoiding my friend, but what can I do with myself so that I can also afford one in the future. Perhaps not the same model, but one that I can truly learn to appreciate and love in reality - not just a piece of fantasy dream.
Cheers
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If girl A does not have feelings for you then it is advisable you accept the fact.
Everyone has a free will to go into relationship or love anyone. There is no default formula that when you like someone that someone must like you or reciprocate your feelings.
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very headache read some many ABC
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may be TS uses ABC hoping it will be as easy as ABC to woo and be successful to get that girl to be his girlfriend.
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do you really love any of them?
what about mature a little bit more and then maybe you might meet girl C..
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Not difficult to love someone,but difficult to find someone who truly loves you
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last time i sec 2 i also like another girl in sec 3. other girls i dont like.
now thinking back its weird, lots of those other girls i did not have feeling sthen now i regretted not giving them the steady intention in my mind back then. but at least i not that emotional in the past, last time kids more sturdy in the heart.
now a bit fail only cry lapehlaobu wannna die already end of the world.