Feeling really jealous and envious of my pretty friend?
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I have this friend at uni who's a year older than me and she's really hot. She's tall, slim, has nice curves, and has nice eyes and features. Whenever I go out with her she always makes people's heads turn when she walks by them. Both guys and girls always check her out.
She's really popular with the guys partially because she's pretty, and also because she shares quite a bit of similar interests such as soccer and video games and she doesn't seem to get offended by their crude perverted jokes and excessive vulgarities. Not only that she even talks to the guys about pretty girls as well!
Apart from the guys, she's really popular with all the other girls too and quite often she will hug around with some of the girls. Strangely, there are some b*tches that none of us girls can stand, but somehow she seems to get along with them and they seem to really like her too.
But that's not all. Shortly after we first met, she actually confessed to me that she's transsexual!!! I really thought she was joking around, but then she pulled out her IC and it showed a young sec school boy with short hair with a guy name. The gender stated was male too! She then showed me her driving license which had her picture on it, but the IC number was the same as the one she showed me! I was completely stunned because there was nothing about her that looked male to me at all! She looks like a girl, she sounds like one, she's not big sized, she has curves, her hands are small, she has no adams apple!!!
And she makes me feel really ashamed of myself! I'm born a girl while she's born a guy yet she seems to be so much more successful at being a girl than me.
I admit at times I do have some particularly nasty thoughts to spread the word that she's really a transsexual and not really a girl and see if the guys will still find her attractive any more, but I know it's wrong to do so.
I just don't really understand why life is so unfair that a guy can be so much more successful at being a girl than an actual girl... -
You dun have to feel so jealous. Part of Her/His success is due to the physical traits, for a lack of words. For instance, a man has a smaller pelvic bone, giving rise to a tight buttock and signaling fertility. That's why she/him is popular with the guys. In fact, this is recognised unconsciously by the guys and the girls. Of course, i am not implying that you go and make your buttocks as tight as possible. Just accept the way you are. In fact, when a guy wears a skirt or dress, they are viewed as being more sexy. I know cos i saw a guy wore a skirt to play the role of a fairy. Lastly, she trusts you very much, she treats you like her confidant. Do not break this trust. If you break it, it will tell others what kind of person you are. You have to feel confident that you are a girl and you can learn from her on being more successful at being a girl. Milo is made under Nestle :lol:
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You have to introduce me to your friend, I love transsexuals!
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if u wanna compare like tt, then ok loh, u lose.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
if u wanna compare like tt, then ok loh, u lose.
she just wants to compare....compare for the sake of comparing...
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beware - yo know it when a gender is powerful enough to have a plug over he/she own socket.
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Originally posted by cozycloud:
I have this friend at uni who's a year older than me and she's really hot. She's tall, slim, has nice curves, and has nice eyes and features. Whenever I go out with her she always makes people's heads turn when she walks by them. Both guys and girls always check her out.
She's really popular with the guys partially because she's pretty, and also because she shares quite a bit of similar interests such as soccer and video games and she doesn't seem to get offended by their crude perverted jokes and excessive vulgarities. Not only that she even talks to the guys about pretty girls as well!
Apart from the guys, she's really popular with all the other girls too and quite often she will hug around with some of the girls. Strangely, there are some b*tches that none of us girls can stand, but somehow she seems to get along with them and they seem to really like her too.
But that's not all. Shortly after we first met, she actually confessed to me that she's transsexual!!! I really thought she was joking around, but then she pulled out her IC and it showed a young sec school boy with short hair with a guy name. The gender stated was male too! She then showed me her driving license which had her picture on it, but the IC number was the same as the one she showed me! I was completely stunned because there was nothing about her that looked male to me at all! She looks like a girl, she sounds like one, she's not big sized, she has curves, her hands are small, she has no adams apple!!!
And she makes me feel really ashamed of myself! I'm born a girl while she's born a guy yet she seems to be so much more successful at being a girl than me.
I admit at times I do have some particularly nasty thoughts to spread the word that she's really a transsexual and not really a girl and see if the guys will still find her attractive any more, but I know it's wrong to do so.
I just don't really understand why life is so unfair that a guy can be so much more successful at being a girl than an actual girl...There's no such thing as ugly girls.... only LAZY ones.
Put in some effort to make yourself look better.
When you look better, you;d feel better about yourself.
Pull yourself up, instead of pulling others down.
Then perhaps after building some self-esteem, you won't have the need to be despicable towards your transgender friend anymore.
When a person wants to destroy another.. that's because they needed to make themselves feel better... but in reality... a person is still shitty even after taking down another "better" person.....
When you had to act in a despicable manner and you know it... you'll feel even more lousier about yourself... and your self-esteem will spiral downwards.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
There's no such thing as ugly girls.... only LAZY ones.
Maybe as you said, she is lazy.
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Originally posted by SG.AdultsCircle.com:
Maybe as you said, she is lazy.
The lady in the picture has a medical condition you moron.
I think you need to check your brain for deformities too.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
The lady in the picture has a medical condition you moron.
I think you need to check your brain for deformities too.
Well, if you read what you wrote, you said, word for word, "There's no such thing as ugly girls.... only LAZY ones.".Now, if you read about this girl, then you know she's a girl and you know she's an ugly girl. So according to your logic, she must be lazy.
All I did was to point out your logic, that's it, and you just proved yourself that your own logic was flawed. You can (insert any excuses) for why your logic was not flawed, like for example medical condition, you might as well put because she fell down and knock her head, therefore not counted.
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Originally posted by SG.AdultsCircle.com:
Well, if you read what you wrote, you said, word for word, "There's no such thing as ugly girls.... only LAZY ones.".Now, if you read about this girl, then you know she's a girl and you know she's an ugly girl. So according to your logic, she must be lazy.
All I did was to point out your logic, that's it, and you just proved yourself that your own logic was flawed. You can (insert any excuses) for why your logic was not flawed, like for example medical condition, you might as well put because she fell down and knock her head, therefore not counted.
How old are you really. You think and argue like a 5 year old kid. WHERE in TS post she mentioned she has a deformed face?
Please remove the word Adult from your moniker.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
How old are you really. You think and argue like a 5 year old kid. WHERE in TS post she mentioned she has a deformed face?
Please remove the word Adult from your moniker.
Ok, so now you're suggesting that the ugly lazy girl photo that I found for you, has a deformed face. No, she don't have a deformed face, she's just ugly or as your logic suggests, she's just lazy. To be that ugly, she has to be damn extremely lazy. -
Originally posted by SG.AdultsCircle.com:
Ok, so now you're suggesting that the ugly lazy girl photo that I found for you, has a deformed face. No, she don't have a deformed face, she's just ugly or as your logic suggests, she's just lazy. To be that ugly, she has to be damn extremely lazy.This is just a common saying to encourage people to put in effort to look good. jojo not the one started to make this statement.
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"she has no adams apple!!!"
You mean "he has no adams apple!!!"
You sure?
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Originally posted by SJS6638:
This is just a common saying to encourage people to put in effort to look good. jojo not the one started to make this statement.
Then it's possibly started by those cosmetics companies to change the mindset of women in order to sell more cosmetics. Companies like De Beers have managed to change human mindsets towards buying diamonds by doing the same thing, and they have been quite successful because diamonds are actually very common, if you give diamonds to Americans, there is enough to give 1 cup full of diamonds to EACH American. -
my guy friend told me because the trans was originally a guy, so being a trans can make a guy comfortable in ways a girl may never know.
but dont feel sad, there are still guys out there who still purely prefers girls. :)
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A very common misconception among men is this..
Men assume whenever a woman dressed up...that woman sole purpose is to seduce men.
In reality ....Women dress up to make themselves feel good- to build self-esteem , then validation from men is a side bonus.
That's why you see a lot of women after a breakup, after they hit rock bottom and wants to lift themselves up.. they go and get new hair cut, go shop for new clothes, put on nicer make-up.
Doing so will in-turn attract men.
In a long relationship, when she feels too secure, too comfy in her comfort zone, she don't focus on her looks anymore. She start to focus more on other stuff less superficial, like her family, her career etc........ Men then starts to find her boring, and less attractive as before, because most men are superficial.
In the absence of men, women will still want to look nice, for themselves.. only difference is their fashion sense will no longer be skewed towards men's preference.
Perhaps in a women only world, her dressing will be more colorful, more nature inspired, more elaborate....
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
A very common misconception among men is this..
Men assume whenever a woman dressed up...that woman sole purpose is to seduce men.
In reality ....Women dress up to make themselves feel good- to build self-esteem , then validation from men is a side bonus.
That's why you see a lot of women after a breakup, after they hit rock bottom and wants to lift themselves up.. they go and get new hair cut, go shop for new clothes, put on nicer make-up.
Doing so will in-turn attract men.
In a long relationship, when she feels too secure, too comfy in her comfort zone, she don't focus on her looks anymore. She start to focus more on other stuff less superficial, like her family, her career etc........ Men then starts to find her boring, and less attractive as before, because most men are superficial.
In the absence of men, women will still want to look nice, for themselves.. only difference is their fashion sense will no longer be skewed towards men's preference.
Perhaps in a women only world, her dressing will be more colorful, more nature inspired, more elaborate....
hmmm, quite true, i think i agree with your thoughts. -
so whats the situation now? we need visuals no updates?
Where's the rally point?
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update?