Originally posted by mr music:
Consider yourself lucky if he doesn't want to give up on you after you turn him down on sex. Don't you let go of him yet.
Very shortly after I refused to enter his sex zone, I invited him to my friend zone.
Shouldn't he be in your ignore zone?
Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
i already dropped you a PM... u din reply wor!
My apologies, didn't notice that also was at work! :)
Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:Shouldn't he be in your ignore zone?
Nah, told u I'm chill enough to take it easy and well, let's look on the bright side :)
u can still be friends with him after he played with you?
lol
Originally posted by Domdom_wassup:u can still be friends with him after he played with you?
lol
I'm not going to elaborate the whole shebang but there is always a reason.
I don't tend to hold prejudice/grudge anyway :)
Originally posted by happyappliepie:I'm not going to elaborate the whole shebang but there is always a reason.
I don't tend to hold prejudice/grudge anyway :)
TS probably has a big heart larh... plus she could see through his tricks once, it means she probably knows how to protect herself unless that guy can so called up his value that much to ever catch TS attention again.
Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
TS probably has a big heart larh... plus she could see through his tricks once, it means she probably knows how to protect herself unless that guy can so called up his value that much to ever catch TS attention again.
Heya! That sounds flattering but no, I'm just as small as the next person :)
Originally posted by happyappliepie:Heya! That sounds flattering but no, I'm just as small as the next person :)
thats ur physical size perhaps? heart size and physical size different wor!
Girls also capable of doing the same.. or worse...
My friend kena cheated by his girl.
She order bto with him, later change her mind and married another guy. His $8000 gone down the drain plus heart broken.
Just wonder, why do some guys have no respects for girls, play with their emotions and think it's easy to get into their pants by using mind games and some shitty tricks?
The guys you were referring to, have only sex or at the very least some making out time, as their goal. As such they will resort to any tactics to achieve the goal. Mind games, playing the part of a caring, sensitive male, and other 'tricks' are just some ways to hook the girl.
Sex as the goal is likely to stem from the fact that guys have generally a higher sex drive than ladies, i.e. they get horny fast and with more frequency.
On your personal experience, you did the right thing for yourself by walking away. You do not want a no-strings attached type of relationship with your crush, and he was looking for nothing more than a fling. Both your aims do not tally, but you are probably at the losing end if the situation goes on further. If you still like him, you may try talking to him about his behaviour (his leering and sexually-fuelled messages) and how it makes you uncomfortable.
Cheers
Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
thats ur physical size perhaps? heart size and physical size different wor!
As if I could tangibly measure my heart size!
Originally posted by Cbblp:Girls also capable of doing the same.. or worse...
My friend kena cheated by his girl.
She order bto with him, later change her mind and married another guy. His $8000 gone down the drain plus heart broken.
This brings up another infamous story, the unfaithfulness.
Originally posted by Ailouros:The guys you were referring to, have only sex or at the very least some making out time, as their goal. As such they will resort to any tactics to achieve the goal. Mind games, playing the part of a caring, sensitive male, and other 'tricks' are just some ways to hook the girl.
Sex as the goal is likely to stem from the fact that guys have generally a higher sex drive than ladies, i.e. they get horny fast and with more frequency.
I already pinpointed the self-control thingy. Having high libido shouldn't be used as an excuse to abnegate one's responsibility for their inappropriate/unhealthy/immoral attitude and behavior.
Originally posted by Ailouros:On your personal experience, you did the right thing for yourself by walking away. You do not want a no-strings attached type of relationship with your crush, and he was looking for nothing more than a fling. Both your aims do not tally, but you are probably at the losing end if the situation goes on further. If you still like him, you may try talking to him about his behaviour (his leering and sexually-fuelled messages) and how it makes you uncomfortable.
Cheers
Thanks for the suggestion but I'm gonna be the best thing he never had! Just kidding :) but I am very certain of my own mind in this particular picture.
Originally posted by happyappliepie:Thanks for the suggestion but I'm gonna be the best thing he never had! Just kidding :) but I am very certain of my own mind in this particular picture.
You go girl! :D
Originally posted by happyappliepie:I already pinpointed the self-control thingy. Having high libido shouldn't be used as an excuse to abnegate one's responsibility for their inappropriate/unhealthy/immoral attitude and behavior.
Second this.
Guys having extremely high sex drive with low or no self-control are often impulsive. They tend to cheat more than others due to the urge to seek variety in their sex life.
Looks like your crush found you sexually attractive that isn't a bad thing actually. But what he might have done wrong was to push you on what you weren't comfortable yet I guess. Guys have sex to feel loved while girls need to be comfortable and feel loved to agree to sex.
Originally posted by happyappliepie:Don't get it wrong, a 'good' girl can become naughty in the bedroom and enjoy 'wild' fun but definitely only with someone she is in love with, who loves her, respects her and deserves her best of both worlds.
That sounds nice, "a lady in the street but a freak in the sheets", are you one? ;)
Before you go, use your sexual power to dangle him for a couple of free meals loh...
I've seen alot of girls 'dangle the carrot" infront of stupid guys (a.k.a losers) to get free stuff or preferral treatment.
Very funny when you're the spectator and you can see the full picture before others :DDD
Is this guy a JERK?? NO!Not to me anyway.
Because he is upfront about his intentions. I would rather someone be direct about their intention then to meet those pretenoius Mr CREEPY "nice" guy type but secretly ploting to get inside your pants.
Give him a chance la....he is a tacless horny bastard but not one of those pretenious people.
Originally posted by JelloPoop:Before you go, use your sexual power to dangle him for a couple of free meals loh...
I've seen alot of girls 'dangle the carrot" infront of stupid guys (a.k.a losers) to get free stuff or preferral treatment.
Very funny when you're the spectator and you can see the full picture before others :DDD
I don't find happiness in other pple's pockets, why need a sugar daddy? So a big No No, thanks!
And mind you, when your feelings for someone are sincere, you wouldn't care a bit about the 'accessories' he has but himself alone and his feelings for you that matter.
Originally posted by JelloPoop:Is this guy a JERK?? NO!Not to me anyway.
Because he is upfront about his intentions. I would rather someone be direct about their intention then to meet those pretenoius Mr CREEPY "nice" guy type but secretly ploting to get inside your pants.
Give him a chance la....he is a tacless horny bastard but not one of those pretenious people.
Thanks for your words but it's not merely his sexual intentions that I had to let it go.
Anyway, allow me to refrain from mentioning further about him :)
yep like what poop wrote. me so horny i show it in the face. so horny giv me a chance
Originally posted by happyappliepie:Hi guys,
Just wonder, why do some guys have no respects for girls, play with their emotions and think it's easy to get into their pants by using mind games and some shitty tricks? I am not talking about some loose girls (no offense) but the opposite, the so-called 'good' girls? Don't get it wrong, a 'good' girl can become naughty in the bedroom and enjoy 'wild' fun but definitely only with someone she is in love with, who loves her, respects her and deserves her best of both worlds.
I myself happened to have a huge crush on this guy. Though I could tell there was something wrong the very first time we hung out by his blatant looks at my sensitive body parts, his suggestive questions then texts etc but I initially gave him the benefit of the doubt that guys are basically horny creatures (pretty much almost) so I tried not to take it personally. However, I always kept myself on guard then finally walked away before it's too late when I compeletely realized his true crappy intention. Even if he ever had a little feeling for me, his inappropriate sexual urge and lack of respect say a lot about him. So I left it cool and didn't even reveal to him what I actually detected. Save myself the drama.
I just have no respect for guys fooling around with such a shameful 'no sex no talk' rule. It's actually disgusting and heart breaking that a guy would leave the girl once he gets what he wants and has enough of it then starts to look elsewhere for new adventures. And I feel sad for girls who are fooled by those jerks.
Hope that when a girl follows her heart, she doesn't fail to bring her brain along and don't be gullible.
Hope we don't have too many bastards in Singapore.
If you don't want sex, you can try foreplay.
actually what is wrong with wanting sex? You enjoy he enjoy, it is a win win preposition.
I not so demanding, I go for foreplay i satisfy already.
Originally posted by happyappliepie:Thanks for the suggestion but I'm gonna be the best thing he never had! Just kidding :) but I am very certain of my own mind in this particular picture.
Sex is a form of sincerity. Sex is an expression of care, love and affection.
If no sex, necking, kissing and heavy petting will do just fine substitute for now.