One-night stand. Does it equals to rape in Singapore?
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I recently had the first one-night stand of my life with a friend whom I know for a few months ago and we started out being colleagues at work.
She's 9 years older than me and a divorcee with two young kids.
I'm a single man with a steady girlfriend.
It started out that night as a gathering between both of us and after a few hours of hanging out, we checked into a budget hotel room. Boh of us were present at the lobby counter during the checkin and she even provided her IC for the staff for verification.
Both of us are 100% sober as we only had coffee and we had a chat for more than an hour in the room about possibly having sex, and if she's ok to the concept of us having a relationship even though I have a steady girlfriend.
To all that she was ok for us having sex and she even requested for me to use condom for protection which I did.
Before penetration, when we were making out, I stopped and even asked her if she's still ok to continue and I made known to her that I can't promise her any committments or have a relationship with her. To that, she's still ok and we finally proceeded with the deed.
After the deed I felt guilty and she's unhappy because due to my guilt I have now made the experience bad for her.
I'm worried because there have been numerous cases in Singapore of women regretting one-night stands and then crying rape, and the guy having to be imprisoned, caned, and losing their careers, reputation and their life.I'm not well-versed in Singapore law despite being a citizen all my life. Can somebody help provide constructive advice for me? How can I handle the aftermath of this one-night stand? How can I protect myself from her crying rape?
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singapore law?
lol it's rape if she reported you and you're convicted.
if not you're just having an affair behind your girlfriend's back. which isn't a good thing either.
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Threads never get so interesting here at AA.
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Originally posted by naturegirls:
I recently had the first one-night stand of my life with a friend whom I know for a few months ago and we started out being colleagues at work.
She's 9 years older than me and a divorcee with two young kids.
I'm a single man with a steady girlfriend.
It started out that night as a gathering between both of us and after a few hours of hanging out, we checked into a budget hotel room. Boh of us were present at the lobby counter during the checkin and she even provided her IC for the staff for verification.
Both of us are 100% sober as we only had coffee and we had a chat for more than an hour in the room about possibly having sex, and if she's ok to the concept of us having a relationship even though I have a steady girlfriend.
To all that she was ok for us having sex and she even requested for me to use condom for protection which I did.
Before penetration, when we were making out, I stopped and even asked her if she's still ok to continue and I made known to her that I can't promise her any committments or have a relationship with her. To that, she's still ok and we finally proceeded with the deed.
After the deed I felt guilty and she's unhappy because due to my guilt I have now made the experience bad for her.
I'm worried because there have been numerous cases in Singapore of women regretting one-night stands and then crying rape, and the guy having to be imprisoned, caned, and losing their careers, reputation and their life.I'm not well-versed in Singapore law despite being a citizen all my life. Can somebody help provide constructive advice for me? How can I handle the aftermath of this one-night stand? How can I protect myself from her crying rape?
?????u were raped?remeber!!u consented to her!and why are u crying here over the deed?how can a person be called a male possibly make a noise here like an emotional person?are u some kinda butch in here?u dont have a dick or what?
actually she and the law is the last person u shoud worry about.the real problem lies with you and your traumatised state of mind.have u tried dancing on stage gangnam style?it certainly will help folks like u.try it!
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she got say she wanna sue u meh?
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Nowadays 90% of Singaporean have this bitch mentality, due to being overprotected by the law. So if the sleep around and regret it later, they will call it rape.
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"single man with a steady girlfriend"
lol.. so its kinda like a bachelor with a wife ?
Anyways, No... its not rape.UNLESSS...........
But other bad stuffs may befall you. Like your gf finding out, living in guilt, STD's..... etc. Yes.. rape charge is the least of your concern.
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Originally posted by naturegirls:
I recently had the first one-night stand of my life with a friend whom I know for a few months ago and we started out being colleagues at work.
She's 9 years older than me and a divorcee with two young kids.
I'm a single man with a steady girlfriend.
It started out that night as a gathering between both of us and after a few hours of hanging out, we checked into a budget hotel room. Boh of us were present at the lobby counter during the checkin and she even provided her IC for the staff for verification.
Both of us are 100% sober as we only had coffee and we had a chat for more than an hour in the room about possibly having sex, and if she's ok to the concept of us having a relationship even though I have a steady girlfriend.
To all that she was ok for us having sex and she even requested for me to use condom for protection which I did.
Before penetration, when we were making out, I stopped and even asked her if she's still ok to continue and I made known to her that I can't promise her any committments or have a relationship with her. To that, she's still ok and we finally proceeded with the deed.
After the deed I felt guilty and she's unhappy because due to my guilt I have now made the experience bad for her.
I'm worried because there have been numerous cases in Singapore of women regretting one-night stands and then crying rape, and the guy having to be imprisoned, caned, and losing their careers, reputation and their life.I'm not well-versed in Singapore law despite being a citizen all my life. Can somebody help provide constructive advice for me? How can I handle the aftermath of this one-night stand? How can I protect myself from her crying rape?
What a loser....She won't sue you don't worry. Woman don't like to mention guys who turn them off sexually or perform badly before sex. not worth remembering.
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Well it was a matter of folly and yes it's no excuse, but I'm no player. It was the first and last in my life, and it was never in my intentions to hurt anyone that's why I'm feeling so much guilt now.
Perhaps I just need to see a professional counseller...
Anyone can recommend one?
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To be frank.
Since you are so dumb, you can't tell the difference between one-night stand and date rape, really doubt you qualify to have a girlfriend and you qualify to have older women wanna have sex with you because your story is a total bull.
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Originally posted by naturegirls:
Well it was a matter of folly and yes it's no excuse, but I'm no player. It was the first and last in my life, and it was never in my intentions to hurt anyone that's why I'm feeling so much guilt now.
Perhaps I just need to see a professional counseller...
Anyone can recommend one?
u dont need a counsellor.doint tell me u turned insane after having sex with an ugly girl?she wad?the yeti is it? -
i take it the "yeti" must have tied u to a lamp post and sexually assaulted u until u cried like a little girl.and now u dont know iif u have syphillis,gonnorhea or AIDS.and now u dont know whether to report her or to love her or to kill yerself.
thats the only conclusion!
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i suggest u be a man with a real dick!if u dont have then grow one !lol
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there are many people who dont do one night stands or goto geylang or dont smoke or womanise and these fellas have a much stronger dick than u will ever have.
have u tried wearing a skirt for a change?
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lol...im uncle agony!!!here to give u a agonising time!!keep em coming.,....!!lol
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ONS is either you can stand or cannot stand, that is all. No use crying over all those spilled milk ya
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Originally posted by naturegirls:
I recently had the first one-night stand of my life with a friend whom I know for a few months ago and we started out being colleagues at work.
She's 9 years older than me and a divorcee with two young kids.
I'm a single man with a steady girlfriend.
It started out that night as a gathering between both of us and after a few hours of hanging out, we checked into a budget hotel room. Boh of us were present at the lobby counter during the checkin and she even provided her IC for the staff for verification.
Both of us are 100% sober as we only had coffee and we had a chat for more than an hour in the room about possibly having sex, and if she's ok to the concept of us having a relationship even though I have a steady girlfriend.
To all that she was ok for us having sex and she even requested for me to use condom for protection which I did.
Before penetration, when we were making out, I stopped and even asked her if she's still ok to continue and I made known to her that I can't promise her any committments or have a relationship with her. To that, she's still ok and we finally proceeded with the deed.
After the deed I felt guilty and she's unhappy because due to my guilt I have now made the experience bad for her.
I'm worried because there have been numerous cases in Singapore of women regretting one-night stands and then crying rape, and the guy having to be imprisoned, caned, and losing their careers, reputation and their life.I'm not well-versed in Singapore law despite being a citizen all my life. Can somebody help provide constructive advice for me? How can I handle the aftermath of this one-night stand? How can I protect myself from her crying rape?
You want to protect yourself against her crying rape ?
CAN !
Cry rape first !
Logically, U can't possibly rape her if she's the one raping you .
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Originally posted by angel7030:
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