Falling for a Singaporean Married Woman
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Hi everyone. Mine is a very long story to tell, I am anonymously posting it here to get the opinion of real Singaporeans.
I am a foreigner, working here in Singapore, and I would simply want to start with a question:
Is it normal for Singaporean (Chinese) married women to go out with a single man in a regular basis, just the two of them, and just plainly be friends? Dinner, drinks, no intimacy involved. But frequent messages to each other most of the time
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it could be complicated... but it could also at the same time be just pure platonic friendship... that friend of yours.. married with kids?
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time u surf the internet for porn..
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Do you have to be so clearcut? There is nothing wrong with you going out with married friends.
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both of you are breasts friends ma
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Originally posted by caspian_seagate:
Hi everyone. Mine is a very long story to tell, and in some sort of desperation to find answers, I am anonymously posting it here, to get the opinion of real Singaporeans.
I am a foreigner, working here in Singapore, and I would simply want to start with a question:
By nature, or by default, is it normal for Singaporean (Chinese) married women to go out with a single man in a regular basis, just the two of them, and just plainly be friends? Dinner, drinks, no intimacy involved. But frequent messages to each other everyday and everynight. With or without the husband's knowledge is unknown as of the moment. I say 50/50 on that.
pssst,,,,some husbandsoften chase the second hubby like u witha parang knife or a heavy sharp axe.how do u like the see your skull cleaved clear into 2 with a heavy axe?how about a missing arm or fingers when husband swings chopper with all his force?dont u find it scary thinking of married women?
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By foreigner, you are not an ethnic Chinese? She clearly is interested in you. Intimacy is just a step not made yet.
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do u sexting and DIY?
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TS is syaing that his country nationality donlt have a women he can like so hav to go for sgrena. - worse married ones. i wonder how TS family culture is all about, teaching him to go for married women. ahaha
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Originally posted by caspian_seagate:
Hi everyone. Mine is a very long story to tell, and in some sort of desperation to find answers, I am anonymously posting it here, to get the opinion of real Singaporeans.
I am a foreigner, working here in Singapore, and I would simply want to start with a question:
By nature, or by default, is it normal for Singaporean (Chinese) married women to go out with a single man in a regular basis, just the two of them, and just plainly be friends? Dinner, drinks, no intimacy involved. But frequent messages to each other everyday and everynight. With or without the husband's knowledge is unknown as of the moment. I say 50/50 on that.
The answer is no.
We go out with a group of friends, never alone with single guys so frequently. Unless you are just a visiting tourist.
We also make sure to introduce u to our husbands so there be no misunderstanding.
She obviously is using you to fill the void when her husband is busy with other things.
She is merely hiding behind the "friendship" label, to justify going out with you.
Dont you have a social circle ? It is shameful for you to be seducing a married woman. Your local friends will gossip behind your back.
I suggest u spend more time hanging out with other friends, than being an undercover gigolo for this lady.
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i am actually Russian staying here as an expat. The married friend has 1 child, currently she is separated from the husband.
Thanx for your opinion but I think this is no longer a big deal, we remain as good friends and must not put any more meaning to it I guess
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Originally posted by caspian_seagate:
i am actually Russian staying here as an expat. The married friend has 1 child, currently she is separated from the husband.
Thanx for your opinion but I think this is no longer a big deal, we remain as good friends and must not put any more meaning to it I guess
I think it is important u let her know you have no other intention other than friendship, (if u wish to continue with the wine and dining. )
A woman going through divorce is confused and emotionally vulnerable.
Her self esteem and confidence will be greatly compromised.
She may have already mistaken your kindness/friendship as more, romantic interest.
Hopefully, you are not her reason for leaving her husband.
If she is separated, she is not yet free from her husband, legally she may be accused of adultery. Adultery may affect her child custodial rights during divorce proceeding. Maybe, she is worried about losing her child, that's why she haven't sleep with you yet .
If you wish to continue a romantic relationship with her, I strongly advise you wait till her divorce is complete.
She has other female friends and relatives as social support, you are not the only one able to help her.
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oi, don't get it wrong, the child innoccent one lor
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Or course is abnormal.
Asian women are super conservative. Asian women are even more conservative than a virgin catholic nun in her 60s. They act like some kind of phobia virgin piece of shit nun that has never seen a dick in their life. But secretly they are sex-maniacs. Outwardly, they despise sex and porn - hypocrites. The asian women treat the men like bacteria. They think they damn holy or something.
When I dine with friends at a round table, I notice the wife always sit next to the husband but makes sure the person next to her is a woman. Stupid culture.
Also when watch movie at a cinema or at a lecture hall, the stupid women always leave big gaps because they are afraid to sit next to the men.
Its not like in the USA, where you can sit at a bench next to a female, and she don't give a damn about you. Or when you are tired at a UK shopping complex, so you sit at one of the benches next to a few girls, they just leave you alone.
In Asia if you try to sit next to them, they just run away. Crazy folks.
So yes, if a married woman call you so many times, its damn abnormal especially when she is a conservative idiot asian woman.
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how are u going to clear things up with her?
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Or course is abnormal.
Asian women are super conservative. Asian women are even more conservative than a virgin catholic nun in her 60s. They act like some kind of phobia virgin piece of shit nun that has never seen a dick in their life. But secretly they are sex-maniacs. Outwardly, they despise sex and porn - hypocrites. The asian women treat the men like bacteria. They think they damn holy or something.
When I dine with friends at a round table, I notice the wife always sit next to the husband but makes sure the person next to her is a woman. Stupid culture.
Also when watch movie at a cinema or at a lecture hall, the stupid women always leave big gaps because they are afraid to sit next to the men.
Its not like in the USA, where you can sit at a bench next to a female, and she don't give a damn about you. Or when you are tired at a UK shopping complex, so you sit at one of the benches next to a few girls, they just leave you alone.
In Asia if you try to sit next to them, they just run away. Crazy folks.
So yes, if a married woman call you so many times, its damn abnormal especially when she is a conservative idiot asian woman.
Dude, I think the problem u face is not due to idiotic Asian women.
You may want to consider using products made of Potassium Alum, or commonly known as TAwas in Asia. Please follow the instructions properly.
I think u have body odor that makes women not want to sit next to you. Women do hav better sense of smell compared to men.
In S.e Asia the weather is hot and humid, your body odor is much worst.
Given Asian men lack of proper oral hygiene, your mouth probably stinks too.
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make it clear to her to keep things totally platonic
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After a sex session, all things will be clearer.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
After a sex session, all things will be clearer.
is sex all there is in your mind? dirty girl? -
Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Or course is abnormal.
Asian women are super conservative. Asian women are even more conservative than a virgin catholic nun in her 60s. They act like some kind of phobia virgin piece of shit nun that has never seen a dick in their life. But secretly they are sex-maniacs. Outwardly, they despise sex and porn - hypocrites. The asian women treat the men like bacteria. They think they damn holy or something.
When I dine with friends at a round table, I notice the wife always sit next to the husband but makes sure the person next to her is a woman. Stupid culture.
Also when watch movie at a cinema or at a lecture hall, the stupid women always leave big gaps because they are afraid to sit next to the men.
Its not like in the USA, where you can sit at a bench next to a female, and she don't give a damn about you. Or when you are tired at a UK shopping complex, so you sit at one of the benches next to a few girls, they just leave you alone.
In Asia if you try to sit next to them, they just run away. Crazy folks.
So yes, if a married woman call you so many times, its damn abnormal especially when she is a conservative idiot asian woman.
by asian are you refering to women in myanmar?
because I'm apparently always seated next to a female. and with the ratio of females so much higher there's hardly any chance you'll be seated next to a guy.
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Or course is abnormal.
Asian women are super conservative. Asian women are even more conservative than a virgin catholic nun in her 60s. They act like some kind of phobia virgin piece of shit nun that has never seen a dick in their life. But secretly they are sex-maniacs. Outwardly, they despise sex and porn - hypocrites. The asian women treat the men like bacteria. They think they damn holy or something.
When I dine with friends at a round table, I notice the wife always sit next to the husband but makes sure the person next to her is a woman. Stupid culture.
Also when watch movie at a cinema or at a lecture hall, the stupid women always leave big gaps because they are afraid to sit next to the men.
Its not like in the USA, where you can sit at a bench next to a female, and she don't give a damn about you. Or when you are tired at a UK shopping complex, so you sit at one of the benches next to a few girls, they just leave you alone.
In Asia if you try to sit next to them, they just run away. Crazy folks.
So yes, if a married woman call you so many times, its damn abnormal especially when she is a conservative idiot asian woman.
aiyah, must be you look very scary.
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男人�醉，女人没机会... Strike when the iron is hot enough.
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