i find that it is always easier for me to forgive someone else's action or behaviour...
but when it comes to forgiving one self......
it is just so tough...
how to go about forgiving one self for the mistakes that one has made?
angel always on top of me demanding me do this and that - i forgive her
Only way to forgive yourself, is to face up with your mistake. Put up a brave face.
Its a choice but you don't always have to make it all the time. Another way is to forget about it. Put it behind you and move on.
Originally posted by babyreyes:i find that it is always easier for me to forgive someone else's action or behaviour...
but when it comes to forgiving one self......
it is just so tough...
how to go about forgiving one self for the mistakes that one has made?
You can't forgive yourself . Forgiveness is for your direct or indirect victims to grant u.
Learn from your mistakes n not do it again.
Letting go does not means u take no responsibility of your actions.
Letting go means u are resolved to be a better person n be so.
Once u are no longer that "bad/lousy " person, u will shed the old soul n move on as a new n better person.
Metamorphing into a new life.
The FF never apply to anyone, To forgive and forget is only a sentiment words of encouragement, but the reality is that, our brain will still store the memories as much as we wanted to forget about it.
Mistakes is normal, we are all born to make mistake, and many are actually born here by mistakes, and then, when you talk about God, they also make mistakes, like creating humans is one of the biggest mistake.
The only cure is time and changes, when you want to forget something which you wanted badly to forget, change the enviroment and yourself, like change a job, a house, a citizenship, a new place to live, a new thing to look forward to and a new begining.
And as time goes on, when you are old and sitting forlonly on the rocking chair viewing the sentosa sea from the cove on a white platform. You will find what you are doing now, is so childish and funny.
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