Originally posted by angel7030:After the cheena buzzed off, now come the Ah neh neh above...shit
Ah Neh women won't harrass the other woman lah.
They chop the husband and make curry.
live in HDB cannot cook curry during office hours erh
Depend, jap curry, can, only those ah neh's mutu curry cannot.
Originally posted by mancha:Ah Neh women won't harrass the other woman lah.
They chop the husband and make curry.
Oh, why not make tua pao
ah neh make one cah neh neh bao?
ah neh put one moon on forehead become Justic Bao Moon cake, taiwanese favorite
If you have the moral ground, and your opponent refuse to resolve it peacefully, the only way out is to retaliate.
Originally posted by Nobodythk:thing still not solve, that PRC super crazy. everytime checking me by calling my office phone looking for his husband. (most of the time i m the one answer calls) if my colleague picked up the calls then she will asked my colleagues whether me in the office or not…........who can help me!!! really cant stand her anymore….
ever called the police to report for harassment?
Originally posted by Nobodythk:thing still not solve, that PRC super crazy. everytime she knew her husband either outside or uncontactable etc….and will checking me by calling my office phone looking for his husband. (most of the times i m the one answer the calls) if my colleague picked up the calls then she will asked my colleagues whether me in the office or not…........who can help me!!! really cant stand her anymore….really wanna to cry….
I think u need to get one of your parents to talk to her.
The more u run, the more suspicious u look.
Face her and tell her, with your parent, you are not the man's mistress. ( assuming u are indeed innocent) . Politely request she stop her harassing.
Chinese people have this idea that if u run, then u are guilty.
A person who is honest is not fearful of the dark. If u hav nothing to hide, you wouldn't need to hide.
police can issue a warning to the person.
oh well... mayb the next time she calls, give her a good scolding.
Just ask her (when she called next time)...
"去�去"
Problem considered solved.....
call her meet up and giv her a good bashing!
Originally posted by Nobodythk:thks for all….....meet her up is not a good choice, who able to shout and fight like a crazy china woman. i believe your all watch those video b4, how rude and dirty words for those china people fight in the public. at the end, i will lose. she simply shout and cry making the scene in the public saying i m the one stealing his husband…..who will believe me….
any body ever go for migistrate's complaint?. i need some advice, i hv report to police twice and those evidence taken from my iphone (sms&phone calls) her harassmt. 1] can i sue her. 2] can i able to claim all the lawyer fee & etc....ask for compensation from Jan12 till now, mentally disturbance as well as times.thanks in adv if anyone can provide me the information....
If you want to sue, go and seek legal counsel. They will advise you about lawyer fees.
If she wants to shout and cry, she can do that in court.
I think it's about time you stop playing the victim here.
If you want to resolve this, you need to stand up for yourself.
If it was a mistake you made socially with that man, it's time to clarify your stand. A life lesson learned.
Hiding and running only prolong your problem, because she is not gonna go away.
You are young, there are worst scenarios out there for you to encounter in the future. Are you gonna just cry and fret about it?
Tsk, tsk.... you totally deserved it girl.
You want to be so condescending, yet u Are such a coward.
U are very lucky she never come directly to the office and smack your slutty face in front of everyone.
After reading the text u pasted, even myself want to give u one tight slap.
You are already trampling on that woman`s turf, yet u still want to piss on it after she confronted u.
Another stupid bimbo.
Originally posted by Nobodythk:Jojobeach, ohh…dont know why u replied like that…..... (u read u angry too,said i m deserve for its…......how i feel if i m innocent….getting all these insulted msgs which i actually nothing to do btw their marital problem…...this is now i m going thru and getting all this untrue statements from her)
Pls putting urself in my shoes, if I were that china woman ...I keep sending all these msgs as well as calls ( mid nite/ early in morning like 4am) and accuse u, what will u feel....if u totally hv no affair with it.This is what exactly the situation is i m facing now,how to let people to believe all this, based on those msgs she send to me.As an outsider like u alrdy believe base on that massages she send and thinking I m the bitch....... What can I say...I hv been closer a year, with "yes mum" & "good son" in the joking manner. I avoid no contact, no emails, no sms and always trouble my colleagues to help me in work related, Does it consider an affair?.....then she can keep saying n sending msg like "真佩æœ�ä½ çš„è„¸çš®ä¹‹åŽšå¤©ä¸‹æ— å�Œï¼Œåƒ�ä½ è¿™ç§�贪婪,自ç§�ï¼Œå¿ƒè‚ æ¹æ¯’的女人,幸好没有å«�人ï¼�如果å«�人那æ‰�是å«�祸于人ï¼�éš¾æ€ªä½ å�ªå–œæ¬¢æŠ¢åˆ«äººçš„è€�å…¬......etc...."to me?.I feel sorry and pity to her(PRC), but the fact is NOT ME...how to tell her , she finds a wrong person....!!! The message said she wanted to divorce and ask me don't play trick to her and we still can be friend...I m unable to help, cos i m not the person ,from the beginning until now I m innocent ....I never play trick but she keeps insisting ... What to do u tell me...
u really need to lay off condescension, you reeks of it.
I have no sympathy for an office slut. There's plenty where I work.
U think harping on her nationality will help people side u more ? How foolish. Didn't matter where she come from, any woman who felt threatened will behave the same.
Being a Singaporean doesn't make u better than a China woman.
U are lucky she is a foreigner, if she is a local woman, she would have her group of friends / relative Go to your house and rip out your hair.
We had angry wives and girlfriends slashed office sluts car tires, threw dog shit at their doorstep, yelled at in public during busy lunch hour.
Of cors these office sluts insists they are innocent. They didn't crossed any lines so they think.
That woman is already relatively civilized towards your condescending attitude.
All you have to do is apologize, Say sorry for causing any misunderstanding, and for behaving like an unrepentant bitch.
U could have avoided a whole year of calls if u would just get down from your high horse and give a heartfelt apology.
People around u wouldA be more supportive of you had u been more humbled.
In case u are wondering. Here is a definition of office slut , from the Urban Dictionary.
office slut
A typically young and flirty co-worker that flirts, or sleeps her way through her life, friends, and jobs. often times she is unable to actually do her work, and is only hired/promoted because of her looks. she is able to keep her job because the older married boss likes having something to look at, flirt with, do something with, or have sex with her. When she does inevitably screw-up she isn't yelled at, unlike her homelee, modest, mature co-workers, but she is gently "talked to" and almost tutored like a child in order to help her "get" her job because she is the dumbest P-O-S screw-up to ever walk the face of the Earth.
We know u are not having an affair with her husband. Because he is smarter than that.
Only an idiot have affairs with office sluts. It's Like Trading a private car for a public bus.
Originally posted by jojobeach:u really need to lay off condescension, you reeks of it.
I have no sympathy for an office slut. There's plenty where I work.
U think harping on her nationality will help people side u more ? How foolish. Didn't matter where she come from, any woman who felt threatened will behave the same.
Being a Singaporean doesn't make u better than a China woman.
U are lucky she is a foreigner, if she is a local woman, she would have her group of friends / relative Go to your house and rip out your hair.
We had angry wives and girlfriends slashed office sluts car tires, threw dog shit at their doorstep, yelled at in public during busy lunch hour.
Of cors these office sluts insists they are innocent. They didn't crossed any lines so they think.
That woman is already relatively civilized towards your condescending attitude.
All you have to do is apologize, Say sorry for causing any misunderstanding, and for behaving like an unrepentant bitch.
U could have avoided a whole year of calls if u would just get down from your high horse and give a heartfelt apology.
People around u wouldA be more supportive of you had u been more humbled.
wow u are one nasty piece of work