So i know this girl when we were in Sec 3. We used to like each other, but i treated her really badly back then because of my bad attitude and temper. We quarrelled and we stopped talking since then.
Then, my arch enemy quickly came into the picture and starts to get close to her, while we distanced.
There was endless drama between me and that guy in Secondary 4.
Just before O levels, they got together.
So, just a few days ago, we started talking again, after 2 years of silence. I still love her and i can only wet my pillow at night, regretting what i've done 2 years back. We weren't awkward at all, and we can still talk like how it was in the past. But i made a mistake.
I couldn't control my emotions and i expressed my affections for her.
She said as long as she's together with that guy, i don't stand a chance.
Oh and that guy doesn't know we started talking again, because we just hate each other so much, if he knows about it they are going to fight like no tomorrow, previously they fought over me just because the girl followed me on twitter, and he logs into her account and block me again and again. So we only text when she's alone and my name in her contacts is a girl's name just to hide it from that guy.
Up till now, she initiates the conversation everytime.
I don't know but do you think i still stand a chance, and what should i do? I really like her..
Thanks for reading!
find another girl.
grow up
She's playing you like a second fiddle. Do you want this kind of girlfriend, if she leaves him for you? She has the tendency of cheating on her boyfriends. She will definitely cheat on you, she is immature.
Aside from that, if you still interested in her, on useful pointer, not all teenage relationships lasts into college, uni and working life or till marriage. They may break-up eventually, and that is when you can make your move. However, your timing must be right, if they break-off, you're not around when she needs you, you most likely be passover for another guy. Back in school, i also used to argue with this girl. She was at the time with another guy. Then I lost contact with her until one day i accidentaly met her at a superstore, it was then she told me, after 5 years she broke up with the guy. I then, pursue her like no tommorow. I succeeded. But after 2 years of argument again and again, I found that I could not stand her emotional baggage anymore and decided to break it off. Be careful of what you want, you may get your wish. Since you always fight with her, this will dictate your relationship with her.
Question is, are you willing to wait this long? There are so many other fishes in the sea.
You should not be bad tempered and you must be kind instead. I can do it, so can you.
Nah, she won't leave him for me. She already said that as long one day she's with him, i stand no chance.
I'm guess i'm willing to wait? I really miss her.
ok lor wait lor. wait till she get married and have 2 kids.
god peekture auf de tin gurl all knot?
Today, I learned an important lesson about "opportunity". I can't write down what exactly happened, but the take home story is... "Opportunities come and go; If you missed an opportunity, it's okay, when the next one comes, grab it."
If you missed it the first time, then dun look back. Only heart break and pain is waiting for you there.
好马��回头�. gone = gone, you screwed up mean you screwed up. Learn your lesson and dun reject girls next time.
Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Today, I learned an important lesson about "opportunity". I can't write down what exactly happened, but the take home story is... "Opportunities come and go; If you missed an opportunity, it's okay, when the next one comes, grab it."
So meaning, i should wait for another opportunity and grab it? :O
Settle it.
Originally posted by TroubledTeen:So meaning, i should wait for another opportunity and grab it? :O
Something like that.
For me, the feeling is "Urgh! This feels bad (losing an opportunity), I don't want to feel this way again. In future, whenever the situation presents an opportunity, I will just go ahead follow my hear. Even if there is a certain chance failure, I won't regret because I have muster up the courage and took the plunge"
Gee.. My case is regarding about job prospect while yours is about relationship. The situation is similar; revolves around the word "opportunity".
Trust me, 95% of teenage relationships don't lasts to marriage. ;-)
I know because I am a working person and most of my friends in their teenage relationship, already change two or three relationships by now.
But it be a long long wait.
Suggest you go out there and fish in the sea. If a good one comes along, take it.
wah recently i got lots of pm arh
Teenages changing relationship is as normal as adult changing cars, those who just get married with just one relationship are simply nerds or goons
*Muacks*
"Slaps"
Reminds me of the girl I liked in my school, I tried to ask her out, but she said she was attached. Then after that I asked to gimme an estimate of how long the relationship will last, then she said what bullshit "forever". Nabei! Then I say "wtv, are you willing to go out with me though?" That is when the bf sms me and say "oi why do you want to meet her". Then I reply with 1 blank message, that guy also never say anything rdy, so humji.
Originally posted by angel7030:"Slaps"
*piak*
Originally posted by Uraniumfish:Reminds me of the girl I liked in my school, I tried to ask her out, but she said she was attached. Then after that I asked to gimme an estimate of how long the relationship will last, then she said what bullshit "forever". Nabei! Then I say "wtv, are you willing to go out with me though?" That is when the bf sms me and say "oi why do you want to meet her". Then I reply with 1 blank message, that guy also never say anything rdy, so humji.
Blank message, why u so humji? Reply that u want to sleep with his gf lah...
in the text message should have wrote "piak piak piak piak'
Originally posted by jojobeach:Blank message, why u so humji? Reply that u want to sleep with his gf lah...
Right, the next time i get into trouble with other girls bf, i'll do that. Then you can visit me in the hospital.