Before meeting up with VP, did you discuss with your fiance that you wish to be one of the (main) planners to come up with suggestions and directions as to how this should go on your big day?
Is this just a small argument between you and fiancee or is this some incident that make you consider whether he is right for you or not?
If this is the former, why are you asking us for advice? Very angry - next time make appointment with him and then purposely come late like 45 minutes late. He call you, you purposely leave your hp at home.
If it is the latter, dump him. Then you may pm me. I don't mind going out with you.
so how?
no more wedding?
u consoling to yrself. love is so lovely rite! kind men never take advantage of female but it seems that without taking advantage, female never love deep deep hope that after you married, it never parliamentary session between a pap & opp. gd luck!
Not a small matter. If I am him I will call off the wedding.
U are not mature enough to be a wife.
Not only did u not apologies for your own mistake, u took out your anger at him.
I suggest u grow up first before he marry u, else this will be another divorce waiting to happen.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Not a small matter. If I am him I will call off the wedding.
U are not mature enough to be a wife.
Not only did u not apologies for your own mistake, u took out your anger at him.
I suggest u grow up first before he marry u, else this will be another divorce waiting to happen.
Words of wisdom from jojobeach. If I were him i would have done something grave as well for your stupidity.Well with this level of IQ I wouldn't even think of anything serious.
Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:Words of wisdom from jojobeach. If I were him i would have done something grave as well for your stupidity.Well with this level of IQ I wouldn't even think of anything serious.
Maybe earthcosmic2 got body like Asami Yuma, that is why the husband high IQ is restricted by his little brother's capacity for lust.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Not a small matter. If I am him I will call off the wedding.
U are not mature enough to be a wife.
Not only did u not apologies for your own mistake, u took out your anger at him.
I suggest u grow up first before he marry u, else this will be another divorce waiting to happen.
Originally posted by GhostStalker:
Strongly agree... Why this woman so like that? <---- TS
Becuase she is a taiwanese. She happens to be related to Angel7030. Very petty one you know.
You can choose to quarrel or choose not to quarrel over it.
Some how I am glad you both choose not to quarrel over it.
People have egos. And when their ego is bruised, they must get their revenge.
Originally posted by mancha:You can choose to quarrel or choose not to quarrel over it.
Some how I am glad you both choose not to quarrel over it.
People have egos. And when their ego is bruised, they must get their revenge.
Relax~ Small matter...
A little time alone to talk everything will be fine ^^
If you are going to get angry about this issues, you have a lot more coming after your marriage.
So, what are you going to do next ?
Learn to accept that there are misses and delay in your life and no need to get angry over these stuff.
There are better or more important issues that you need to focus on.
Like your wedding ???
Originally posted by Earthcosmic2:Hi, yesterday I and my fiance agreed to meet up with the wedding videographer for discussion at 3pm. We agreed to meet at 2.45 pm outside Guardian’s in Parkway Parade.
So I got ready and started waiting at the Guardian’s outside at abt 2.44 pm.
I realised I have forgotten to take my hp with me but since the shopping mall was not big, I thought I could easily catch sight of my fiancee and furthermore we have agreed on the venue for meeting.
As it was a Sunday, alot of people walking around and such. I kept my eyes at the door and at the people to ‘catch’ my fiancee. I waited until 3.15 pm plus still no sign of him. Feeling frustrated, I was at a lost whether to continue waiting like an idiot standing there with some sales person looking at me or to go home and take my hp or find a public phone.
I decided to walk off still worrying what if my fiancee came late and can’t find me.
I walked past a public phone and quickly made calls to him but he did not answer. I rushed home and took my phone and called him.
Then he said he already at Starbucks with the videographer. I rushed down to parkway again, perspiring and my face black. When I reached, they have finished discussing.
I was not feeling happy. My fiancee said don’t give him the black look. I argued withhim why he didn’d bother to look for me when I was waiting outside Guardian’s for a good 30 min plus. I told him I called him by the public phone twice and he didn’t answer and asked him to check got 2 ‘missed call’ or not.
He argued saying the phone number he did not recognise.
I stomped off feeling so angry. In the end I turned back thinking nevermind, perhaps itis just a small matter.
Is it?
Isnt your fiancee the lease worried that he couldnt find you? Since the supposed meeting time between you and him had passed. In fact, he left you out of the discussion without your consent. If I were you, i'd call off the wedding with him. From your story, it looks like he doesnt give shit about you and doesnt respect you.
Chill Chill!
Last time something similar happened to me before!
Was meeting someone at Marina Bay, but my phone died on me.
Actually I thought we both have enough chemistry, but it isn't the case on that day.
She waited at Marina Bay the seats there, while I waiting at the MRT control station
End up, I use pay phone to linked up with one of our common friend, and called her. LOL! That incident is very epic~
Teaches me to really finalized the meeting venue and time before meeting. Great lesson to learn.
End up when meeting, both face black black~ but after a while, everything okay le lah!
Originally posted by gLc:Isnt your fiancee the lease worried that he couldnt find you? Since the supposed meeting time between you and him had passed. In fact, he left you out of the discussion without your consent. If I were you, i'd call off the wedding with him. From your story, it looks like he doesnt give shit about you and doesnt respect you.
She is in her early thirties, please give age appropriate advise.
Wait till you get the wedding Ring, then you start to get your Suffer ring.
Why? carry hp cannot pick up non relevant nos meh??? then carry for F, might as well throw it into ECP. Hate all these male chauvanist guy, not yet even marry, already show colors.
Great suffering ahead
Originally posted by Medicated Oil:If you are going to get angry about this issues, you have a lot more coming after your marriage.
So, what are you going to do next ?
Learn to accept that there are misses and delay in your life and no need to get angry over these stuff.
There are better or more important issues that you need to focus on.
Like your wedding ???
I believe it is the gentlemanship that fail, wedding is not a one man show, you need 2 hands to clap, so obviously, you need both to in the picture.
But those medicated male ego guys will alway tell you, I handle it, you shut up. And when thing get cork up, they start to blame their gf or wife. It is therefore uptmost important that before you decide to get marry, take control of your man, otherwise, no matter how much medicated oil you use, also no use.
Of cause it is a big matter la!!!!!!!!!!So unreliable..Where got fiancee just leave his other half waiting like an idiot for so long and didn't even bother to look for her..
He told you to wait outside guardian but never show up!!!!
Somemore he never though of your safety much less you otherwise he would have picked up when you called. Alot of guys would be worried if their GF didnt show up as planned.
He might have lots of other affair, that is why so sensitive about phones nos on display, if he got nothing, why do not dare to answer a call? He is keeping something very big from you, to me, this look like a marriage of convenenice for him.
End up, marrying for the sake of being married, buy house, and you become the children production dept for him, after 2 to 3 kids, he might not even answer any phone call from you.
One of the sign of unfaithful partner is when partner are wary about phone calls.
TS, this man is not the right man for you, in fact for any women. if i am the man and my lady is not contactable unreachable, i would be very worried. i willnot hesitate to pick up any phone calls even if the number is null or some siao messy number i don;t recognize.
check him out, maybe he is gay or homo or something liek that. homo i have 2 in my department now, and lots in teh MRT