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Rat race is tiring isn't it? everyone is trying so hard to beat others...
it's my life................ it's now or never................
never say never
Originally posted by FireIce:it's my life................ it's now or never................
i aint gonna live forever~~~~♫
why compete when our lifespan is predestined
are you able to know at what age u can live till? are u able to know exactly how many decades god will allow you to live?
are you able to know when you going to die or when your friends going to die?
journey of life have different starting point and different ending point, why the need to compare and compete?
why do u have to care about others' achievement?
Do you believe wealth can really buy health and prolong your lifespan?
Steve Job was a remarkable achievor but still succumbed to cancer and died young
Well, there is a yahoo news saying someone got a mail from a friend who passed away 2 years ago. He felt very strange and scary when he read his dead friend mail, wondering if someone is play prank on him.
Question is that, after 2 years then he received his dead friend mail which read as "How are doing Mikey?" by George dated as present. He knows it is it because only it call him mikey, no one else.
Why?
Well, most probably Steve Job had set up another apple Inc up there,
Hey bro, 2 cents worth here.
To begin, I like your attitude - because the winners think differently which explains why 0.15% of global population owns 39% of global wealth. If you choose to live above the line, a cut above the rest, no one can say anything about you - because it is your life, our one life - we do what we want.
It's great to have big dreams for a couple of reasons. 1st when obstacles come between you and your dreams, if your dream is bigger than your obstacle, you'll overcome and achieve or like majority of the population, are we going to turn around just because an obstacle surfaced. 2nd, having big dreams is an attitude, that shows you're not just living on this planet for yourself. (The lui gong we tong when sch children approach us, doesn't really count anymore since its more like on-the-way thing.) Feel the sense of fulfillment when we contribute to the people around us.
All right, long story short, however, whatever you do bro. Enjoy it, be present, be at that moment. Love what you do and embrace every single experience. If you're studying - concentrate and study - not think about weekends or girls, or lunch. You need to seperate very clearly, having goals is different from whether or not you're living in the present. For eg. To achieve big goals, there must be small steps, and thus micro-steps. Give your full attention to these micro-steps, same as give your soulmate, your partners full attention when they speak. =)
(Sry if it's a little long, hope I helped and contribute to everyone.)
Originally posted by KenN.RAWR:Hey bro, 2 cents worth here.
To begin, I like your attitude - because the winners think differently which explains why 0.15% of global population owns 39% of global wealth. If you choose to live above the line, a cut above the rest, no one can say anything about you - because it is your life, our one life - we do what we want.
It's great to have big dreams for a couple of reasons. 1st when obstacles come between you and your dreams, if your dream is bigger than your obstacle, you'll overcome and achieve or like majority of the population, are we going to turn around just because an obstacle surfaced. 2nd, having big dreams is an attitude, that shows you're not just living on this planet for yourself. (The lui gong we tong when sch children approach us, doesn't really count anymore since its more like on-the-way thing.) Feel the sense of fulfillment when we contribute to the people around us.
All right, long story short, however, whatever you do bro. Enjoy it, be present, be at that moment. Love what you do and embrace every single experience. If you're studying - concentrate and study - not think about weekends or girls, or lunch. You need to seperate very clearly, having goals is different from whether or not you're living in the present. For eg. To achieve big goals, there must be small steps, and thus micro-steps. Give your full attention to these micro-steps, same as give your soulmate, your partners full attention when they speak. =)
(Sry if it's a little long, hope I helped and contribute to everyone.)
talking is easy , can u do wat u said?
to err is to human , u learn from yr mistakes
plan out good lor.
later u halfway dk what to do.
Originally posted by lce:talking is easy , can u do wat u said?
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to err is to human , u learn from yr mistakes
I've not completed what I'm doing. But I'm doing what I said haha... maybe be a little more specific? Because I didn't point out anything regarding mistakes over here, so... maybe enlighten me a bit? On where are my mistakes? Thanks bro.
Accomplish?
These days you are lucky if you have two hands and two legs. I have friends who are paraplegic who would do anythng to have your life your body and your wealth.
Just look at the poor people below and count your blessings. You are damn fortunate where you are.
Originally posted by dracas:I have a problem which I hope I can get some suggestions here. I recently grad from college and managed to score a 2nd upper hons. But the moment of happiness lasted only a day or so. After that, I started comparing myself with others and set a milestones of goals in the next 10-20 years. I know its good to plan for the future but it seems that I have always lived in the future. I am just not living in the moment.
Whenever Im with my friends, I think of what else I can accomplish few years down the road. Whatever I do now, I think of how it impacts me in the long-term. Every minute is creeping away if I don’t take advantage of it. Sometimes it seems like Im hurrying to go accomplish the most I can and after that die asap. It seems Im forever not contented with what I have at all. There’s always more to pursue. I don’t know when I will be contented.
I finally found someone who is similar to me. I am living in the future, looking forward to the future but at months ahead only. I do have long term future plan, but they are not in the focus of my mind yet. The current stuffs in my mind are future events that will be happening in days, weeks or months time.
If you asked me what have I done yesterday or the day before yesterday, chances are if it's not in my journal I would have already treat it as 'expired' or past events. I do not remember the past well, and I have the tendency to forget (or unable to recall) events that happen many weeks ago. I believe it's due to how my brain works by storing the only essential information.
I do have friends who are living in the past and unable to move on (forward) in life.
First thing you ask yourself when you wake up every morning....WHAT CAN I DO TO SATISFY MY LIFE TODAY? Go on....make somebody Happy...this will really satisfy you.
Is good that you plan ahead into the future. I do that all the time too. Once you achieved your goals, happiness will come.
Originally posted by LFNY:First thing you ask yourself when you wake up every morning....WHAT CAN I DO TO SATISFY MY LIFE TODAY? Go on....make somebody Happy...this will really satisfy you.
Provided he can wake up in the morning
Originally posted by granslime:Is good that you plan ahead into the future. I do that all the time too. Once you achieved your goals, happiness will come.
after happiness arrived, you plan again, and again, and finally someone will plan for your ....
Let life the way of to be or not to be. You will be more happy if you let tomorrow worry but itself.
no matter how good you will be better than anyone else - you will die one day. so if you wanna be the frist and smartest - go and die. you die fatsetr than your friends and peers - you the winner
"But the moment of happiness lasted for one day or so."
You choose to savour happiness for a moment only, but make yourself savour sadness endlessly.
You studied hard and got an upper 2nd, but where is your intelligence.
To rise up, needs effort, to lay down is easy.
To build needs time and effort, destroying can be done in an instant.
Life is a journey, not a destination. You will always be moving, but never getting there, only things will come, and go.
i decided to immigrate...jobs,,,$$$$$...will come into place after that depending on your choice.
u cant get rich werking for someone.
Sure, working for someone is call cheated by someone, what you suppose to earn, nearly 3/4 taken by someones above you doing nothing except kpkb all day long.
To be a boss, you need to learn to cheat other without remorse nor mercy.
Originally posted by angel7030:Sure, working for someone is call cheated by someone, what you suppose to earn, nearly 3/4 taken by someones above you doing nothing except kpkb all day long.
To be a boss, you need to learn to cheat other without remorse nor mercy.
u didnt descibe a boss here...more like the golden army and the lil wooden puppets from hellboy 2 movie.:)
HellBoy!!, are you indirectly asking me to go to hell?
if you want, can start a Muppet show business
Originally posted by KenN.RAWR:I've not completed what I'm doing. But I'm doing what I said haha... maybe be a little more specific? Because I didn't point out anything regarding mistakes over here, so... maybe enlighten me a bit? On where are my mistakes? Thanks bro.
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