Cheating, unfaithful partners, spouses etc thread.
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I think they cheat because they are sick of seeing the same person in bed everyday .
Must find something new every once in a while wat .
That`s where geylang come in .
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The word 'Cheating' is complicated. You are sad because of the action done or because of the trust? If it is the action, won't those action before u knew wach other counted? If it is the trust, won't those small lies counted? So, no matter what it is, the real reason behind a break isn't just that simple.
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Originally posted by Karma88:
I think they cheat because they are sick of seeing the same person in bed everyday .
Must find something new every once in a while wat .
That`s where geylang come in .
Oh so true lor.
That is why there is the gigolo and xiao bai lian .. yes ?
Life is fair.. life is fair....
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Oh so true lor.
That is why there is the gigolo and xiao bai lian .. yes ?
Life is fair.. life is fair....
Oh yes, and some are so sick and tired of themselves as a boy, they can even change to ladyboy to have fun with their own gender. -
Sleep in different bed and rooms, then don't need to see each other everyday
In our fast paced world, where we are jaded, and only thinking about ourselves, our wants, our enjoyment, out thrill, and our own whatever, we have not stopped to think for a moment. Just reflect that what we have is actually alot to be thankful for. That we should not take all these for granted cause its not easy to build all that up but its really easy to destroy it all. Just a little more appreciation, a little more thankfulness, a little contentment everyday and people will see that such things/acts are meaningless and hurtful. Both parties just stand to lose.
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is it considered to be cheating/unfaithful to my spouse if i sleep with another woman?
no sex just falling asleep on the same bed.
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Originally posted by ChiBet:
is it considered to be cheating/unfaithful to my spouse if i sleep with another woman?
no sex just falling asleep on the same bed.
emotionally =>> YES!!
physically =>> NO!!
does it answers ur question?
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Originally posted by the_fallen:
emotionally =>> YES!!
physically =>> NO!!
does it answers ur question?
no emotion involve alsojust that both of us very tired and there is only one bed
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Originally posted by ChiBet:
is it considered to be cheating/unfaithful to my spouse if i sleep with another woman?
no sex just falling asleep on the same bed.
Provided the other woman is your mother or grandmother, then nevermind lor.
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I think let's define 'Cheat' first leh...
Cos some gf/bfs think that their spouse beating to internet porn is a form of cheating too....
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Originally posted by Inexperience01:
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Originally posted by nehpyh:
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Originally posted by Stucktoes:
Thanks for all your contributions so far. I have also learnt that singaporean youths aren't as stupid or as immature as some adult like to say, all of us definitely know how to be serious when it comes to serious stuffs.
Anyway, the reason why I posted this thread is because of pain. I have got a friend who is a guy, he loves his girlfriend alot and refuses to ask for sex from her, they have been together for almost 3 years, his gf is very good looking and to prove he truly love her, he refuses to have sex with her and practise self-control to prove not to others, but to the girl herself that he likes her not for her physical looks.
Eventually, the girl convinced him that she truly believes in him and that he should stop depriving himself of his needs (a guy will always have his needs no matter what, the biological clock is designed to constantly reproduce to avoid dying out of our race) and they finally did it. All was well.
Then eventually, he found out that she was screwing other guys behind his back, and he confronted her. All she did was justify and make it sound like it was no big deal, and that if he couldnt take it, it wasnt her problem.
I could honestly feel the pain when he told me this story. Thankfully, he is a man, he moved on. If it happens to me, I dont think I would be as strong as him.
IMO, its true that we as human beings love variety, we have our own fetishes and such but the whole point of being loyal and faithful is to control ourselves from these. If we do such a thing, and justify by giving reasons as stated by some of you above, then thats not being faithful already, and when you are not faithful, no point justifying anymore.
What you guys think?
I think.....
I think......
I think it's none of my business lor....
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i think some white lies are necessary for both party, but what's important is the intention, are they cheating for good of the relationship, or are they cheating for misconduct behavior, to work out a relationship, u should have a good emotion skill, don't get over heated, over heated relationship cannot sustain long, anyway it's not the matter whether u are good looking and good money, all about mind game, and communication,
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Originally posted by rokkie:
i think some white lies are necessary for both party, but what's important is the intention, are they cheating for good of the relationship, or are they cheating for misconduct behavior, to work out a relationship, u should have a good emotion skill, don't get over heated, over heated relationship cannot sustain long, anyway it's not the matter whether u are good looking and good money, all about mind game, and communication,
hmm. i like your posting..very construction and enlightening. May i know how old are you? and are you handsome and good looking..and also eh..you got money or not? -
i am 28, thx for ur compliment, above average looking, no money,
what do u propose,lady,haha
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Provided the other woman is your mother or grandmother, then nevermind lor.
whats the fun in sleeping with mother/grandmother? -
Be it affairs, one night stand, Geylang, etc. It's still betrayal of the promise you had made to your spouse or love one.
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Originally posted by ChiBet:
whats the fun in sleeping with mother/grandmother?
if u sleep with yr mother/granny, your gf or wifey will not said you cheat, otherwise, if you sleep with a gal, even without sex (God knows), it is cheating in the view of yr gf or wife. -
Originally posted by BabyRex:
Be it affairs, one night stand, Geylang, etc. It's still betrayal of the promise you had made to your spouse or love one.
when u are havin a one stand at geyland, did you think of your wife/gf or childrens at home waiting for you, caring for you, worrying for you?? -
before marriage if go geylang or fark other girls before.. considered betrayal?
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Originally posted by playboy_1985: