A v.gd friend held back by her persistent ex-bf
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SumOne,Originally posted by SumOne:Erm.... Not everything is related directly to the TS's incident alone. Some of the things I have said were about you directly. I hope you can see the difference and not intentionally miss it.
Whatever the outcome of TS's approach, whether he gets accepted or rejected, does not change what I or in fact, a few others were trying to tell you specifically.
My posts and suggestions about the TS's situation is a different thing altogether. Those I directed to TS directly, and not to you. I want to make that distinction there at least, in case you change the meaning again.
Frankly, why are you being so naggy ?
Did I not already mentioned I don't give a damn what you think about me ??
And why must you keep trying to tell me things I don't care to know from you ???
This tread belongs to TS not me. So quit nagging at me "hoping" I will change.
Because I am what I am, and I didn't come here for your advise.
I am perfectly happy living my life as it is. OK ???
Your persistency is very nauseating you know !
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That's it... this is bordering on rude the way you reply, and which I think warrants an equally rude reply.Originally posted by jojobeach:SumOne,
Frankly, why are you being so naggy ?
Did I not already mentioned I don't give a damn what you think about me ??
And why must you keep trying to tell me things I don't care to know from you ???
This tread belongs to TS not me. So quit nagging at me "hoping" I will change.
Because I am what I am, and I didn't come here for your advise.
I am perfectly happy living my life as it is. OK ???
Your persistency is very nauseating you know !
jojobeach, why don't you just SHUT up and stop looking at this thread?
Live your life as what you like, if you really don't care, then don't post. I don't care how you live, I just CARE how bad an influence you are to OTHERS. The world is already sad enough without more extremists ard. -
This posts posted here is getting further away from the original intention of this thread.
Anyway, whats the outcome?
If you ask me, I think most likely the girl will go back to the 'b@stard'. Why? She even went to KFC with him after breaking up + her hatred for that 'b@stard' has subside, chances is the girl had fallen to his sweet-talk.
I say TS you can try expressing your love but don't expect a positive reply from her, since she previously mentioned that 'she is not good for you' or something like that.
Oh yea, make it snappy if you are expressing because I sense that the girl is being slowly pulled back to that 'b@stard'. -
I'm not being naggy, I just don't want you to keep changing the meanings and direction of things being said. People tell you one thing, you have a tendency to bring it a different direction altogether. So a few times, I have to keep clarifying or rectifying.Originally posted by jojobeach:SumOne,
Frankly, why are you being so naggy ?
Well, what prompted me was you being unnecessarily mean to him. Anyway, I did try to be concise, but you kept trying to bring the point elsewhere.Did I not already mentioned I don't give a damn what you think about me ??
And why must you keep trying to tell me things I don't care to know from you ???
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You can say you don't care, but it doesn't change the validity of the things that have been said. Besides, I can understand your responses. At least you've been quite consistent with what we know of you.This tread belongs to TS not me.
Yes, you are what you are. Proven.So quit nagging at me "hoping" I will change.
Because I am what I am, and I didn't come here for your advise.
I am perfectly happy living my life as it is. OK ???
But, I'm not commenting about how happy you are, that was never the issue. It was about sparing a thought for others with the kind of replies you make. Just because it makes you happy doesn't mean it gives you the right to be mean, that sounds so much like an MCP. The world doesn't revolve around you, you should know that. I believe you've been a much less selfish person after becoming a mother.[quote]Your persistency is very nauseating you know !Nauseating persistance would be when you persistantly change the meaning of what people tend to say, put words in other people's mouths and blindly label or make sick conclusions about people.
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Hey soul, don't get angry with her. You have a point, but don't get too worked up and get carried away yah?Originally posted by soul_rage:That's it... this is bordering on rude the way you reply, and which I think warrants an equally rude reply.
jojobeach, why don't you just SHUT up and stop looking at this thread?
Live your life as what you like, if you really don't care, then don't post. I don't care how you live, I just CARE how bad an influence you are to OTHERS. The world is already sad enough without more extremists ard. -
Why are you posting to this ???Originally posted by soul_rage:That's it... this is bordering on rude the way you reply, and which I think warrants an equally rude reply.
jojobeach, why don't you just SHUT up and stop looking at this thread?
Live your life as what you like, if you really don't care, then don't post. I don't care how you live, I just CARE how bad an influence you are to OTHERS. The world is already sad enough without more extremists ard.
It's none of your business is it ???
The world is already sad enough with boh liao people like you around.
There are REAL extremist out there that is costing people LIFE.
What are you doing about it ???
BS people like you come here and tell me I'm an extremist ??? What a joke. -
Chill people!
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What, you a AA forum police ??Originally posted by SumOne:Nauseating persistance would be when you persistantly change the meaning of what people tend to say, put words in other people's mouths and blindly label or make sick conclusions about people.
Now that, is nauseating.
Please, spare me.. I'm laughing to your nonsense.
May I ask why do you single me out ??
There are more immoral postings than mine.
I don't see you go reprimanding those people.
Quit acting so noble and stop telling people what to do.
The readers are not stupid. If I am spouting nonsense here, they don't have to take what I post.
And here you are trying to regulated what gets posted here. Shame on you!
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No. Never said or tried to be one.Originally posted by jojobeach:What, you a AA forum police ??
I can't help if you mistake yourself as being victimised.Please, spare me.. I'm laughing to your nonsense.[/quote]
You can laugh, but like I said, there's truth behind it.May I ask why do you single me out ??
I never said anything about you being immoral.There are more immoral postings than mine.Like I said, I'm not some AA forum police.I don't see you go reprimanding those people.
Listen to your own advice.Quit acting so noble and stop telling people what to do.I think you know yourself which posts are nonsense which are not.The readers are not stupid. If I am spouting nonsense here, they don't have to take what I post.
Who said I'm trying to regulate here?And here you are trying to regulated what gets posted here. Shame on you![quote]What, you from the censorship bureau ??? Geesh.This statement is really off, I don't think I need to explain why.
I've already made the point that I need to actually. I think you already understand, although you choose to disregard. Anyway, I believe you already get it, you're not stupid. But I will clarify if you try to change the meaning again of what I or others have said.
Right now I'm just answering you post by post, not really trying to make a statement or anything. -
Wow, I applaud your persistence.Originally posted by SumOne:This statement is really off, I don't think I need to explain why.
I've already made the point that I need to actually. I think you already understand, although you choose to disregard. Anyway, I believe you already get it, you're not stupid. But I will clarify if you try to change the meaning again of what I or others have said.
Right now I'm just answering you post by post, not really trying to make a statement or anything.
You know what a broken record sounds like ???
They repeat over and over and over and over and over and over again and again and again and again and again....... neverending........ -
So you do seem to understand there's a point, otherwise you wouldn't find it repetetive. Well, good for you. I knew you weren't dumb.Originally posted by jojobeach:Wow, I applaud your persistence.
You know what a broken record sounds like ???
They repeat over and over and over and over and over and over again and again and again and again and again....... neverending........
Btw, each post of yours pretty much confirms certain things about you yet again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again...... -
U R nagging again...Originally posted by SumOne:So you do seem to understand there's a point, otherwise you wouldn't find it repetetive. Well, good for you. I knew you weren't dumb.
Btw, each post of yours pretty much confirms certain things about you yet again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again...... -
Originally posted by jojobeach:U R nagging again...
Actually, I'm just answering you post by post now. -
Nagging.Originally posted by SumOne:
Actually, I'm just answering you post by post now. -
And you're nagging that I'm nagging.Originally posted by jojobeach:Nagging. -
NaggingOriginally posted by SumOne:And you're nagging that I'm nagging. -
Naggy.Originally posted by jojobeach:Nagging -
*shrugs* I just don't like her attitude. Here we have DaExodus having a problem, there she is pouring cold water, being mean. Reminds me of a type of people - Losers.Originally posted by SumOne:Hey soul, don't get angry with her. You have a point, but don't get too worked up and get carried away yah?
Losers go on and on rattling away at how screwed up life is but then stating explicitly that life is not screwed up. They usually go thru some experience in life that then they determine is the basis of all they know.
Simply put, you are being nice to her, and she starts insulting you, then I don't see why I should be nice.
Then again, let's ignore her, and see how the TS is doing. After all, arguing with her is useless. She pretty much thinks the world revolves ard her, so why waste time?
How many times in this thread have we seen her repeatedly doing things that she tells others not to do? Ask others to self-reflect, and then behaves like a spolit brat.
I am doing the same expression to her -
Originally posted by jojobeach:Why are you posting to this ???
It's none of your business is it ???
The world is already sad enough with boh liao people like you around.
There are REAL extremist out there that is costing people LIFE.
What are you doing about it ???
BS people like you come here and tell me I'm an extremist ??? What a joke.
The extremist is talking again -
Originally posted by soul_rage:*shrugs* I just don't like her attitude. Here we have DaExodus having a problem, there she is pouring cold water, being mean. Reminds me of a type of people - Losers.
Losers go on and on rattling away at how screwed up life is but then stating explicitly that life is not screwed up. They usually go thru some experience in life that then they determine is the basis of all they know.
Simply put, you are being nice to her, and she starts insulting you, then I don't see why I should be nice.
Then again, let's ignore her, and see how the TS is doing. After all, arguing with her is useless. She pretty much thinks the world revolves ard her, so why waste time?
How many times in this thread have we seen her repeatedly doing things that she tells others not to do? Ask others to self-reflect, and then behaves like a spolit brat.
I am doing the same expression to her
For someone who had to steal his wife, you're a real winner. -
Originally posted by jojobeach:
For someone who had to steal his wife, you're a real winner. Hmm... since when did I steal my wife? Maybe I stole my gf to become my wife (which probably isn't even true coz all's fair in love game (hey! isn't that what you said, spoilt brat, contradicting yourself again )). Strange, your words border again on stupidity and again you are contradicting yourself.
Anyway, now its not only rude, but you are becoming really mean.
I respected you as a person, but now you behave worse than an animal. So just begone and go and live your self-centred world. No one really cares about you and what you feel. So just go ahead.
By the way, I pity your boyfriend (if you ever have one), coz he does not know what he has gotten into. And if you don't have one, thank god. Please stay that way, that will benefit society
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Hey man, chill. She always has a tendency to get personal even when there's absolutely no need to. She doesn't have a bf, she's married with kid, although her behaviour may not seem like it. Anyway, there are some people who may be worth getting angry over, but she isn't one of them.Originally posted by soul_rage: Hmm... since when did I steal my wife? Maybe I stole my gf to become my wife (which probably isn't even true coz all's fair in love game (hey! isn't that what you said, spoilt brat, contradicting yourself again )). Strange, your words border again on stupidity and again you are contradicting yourself.
Anyway, now its not only rude, but you are becoming really mean.
I respected you as a person, but now you behave worse than an animal. So just begone and go and live your self-centred world. No one really cares about you and what you feel. So just go ahead.
By the way, I pity your boyfriend (if you ever have one), coz he does not know what he has gotten into. And if you don't have one, thank god. Please stay that way, that will benefit society
Oh yes, she likes to jump to wrong conclusions. -
Originally posted by jojobeach:
For someone who had to steal his wife, you're a real winner.
If you cannot look at things from different angles, you are not a very effective thinker.
The world is not flat, neither should your thoughts be. -
I am not angry. I just find it inexplicable that she can behave like that. How is she going to teach her kid if her behavior is worse than a spoilt brat?Originally posted by SumOne:Hey man, chill. She always has a tendency to get personal even when there's absolutely no need to. She doesn't have a bf, she's married with kid, although her behaviour may not seem like it. Anyway, there are some people who may be worth getting angry over, but she isn't one of them.
Oh yes, she likes to jump to wrong conclusions.
I don't demean other people. I don't question people's integrity. What she did was uncalled for, and totally uncouth. For people like this, I am tempted to go into extreme overdrive and deliberately be arrogant and insult her down to her morals.
But I am refraining from that, coz there is no point. Why do I want to teach someone else's kid? Let her rot if she wants.
Anyway, I pity her husband