Originally posted by jojobeach:Then marry a wife who is financially capable lah.
SG men wants to marry those socially and economically disadvantaged foreign brides who are not capable of supporting themselves.
Then they kao peh about women's charter protecting the dependent wife.
I mean seriously.. you can't have your cake and eat it too you know !!!
In the first place, why those foreign women want to marry someone who is 20-30 yrs old than them in the first place? Don't tell me its love at first sight or true love.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Then marry a wife who is financially capable lah.
SG men wants to marry those socially and economically disadvantaged foreign brides who are not capable of supporting themselves.
Then they kao peh about women's charter protecting the dependent wife.
I mean seriously.. you can't have your cake and eat it too you know !!!
but i'm okay to support her until she finds a job to fend for herself. i'll give 6 months maximum... the rest; find the other guy. if that guy relieved himself of all responsibilities; then good luck to her...
i'm not heartless but i'm not a fool. i will still give you that last 6 months of financial help due to old ties but after that, don't look for me. i do not know you.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Then go ahead and put up the poll lor.
Then u will owe us an explanation or apology if I won the poll. How?
Originally posted by zenden9:In the first place, why those foreign women want to marry someone who is 20-30 yrs old than them in the first place? Don't tell me its love at first sight or true love.
then to look in deeper; those women really deserved to be abandoned.
i bring you in from a foreign land to a land of better living... i give you shelter and i give you food. i give you love and i give you status... Mrs. so and so... i give you half of whatever i own when i marry you and everything in the event of my death. my HDB, my insurance claims and my CPF...
then behind my back... you go find another lover... you bite the hand that feeds you... do you deserve all of what i've done for you? no... never... go and f*uk yourself.
Originally posted by novelltie:but i'm okay to support her until she finds a job to fend for herself. i'll give 6 months maximum... the rest; find the other guy. if that guy relieved himself of all responsibilities; then good luck to her...
i'm not heartless but i'm not a fool. i will still give you that last 6 months of financial help due to old ties but after that, don't look for me. i do not know you.
What is the amount for an average alimony support ?
Originally posted by jojobeach:What is the amount for an average alimony support ?
based entirely on the man's earning capability... how many percent, this only the judge can decide.
Originally posted by novelltie:then to look in deeper; those women really deserved to be abandoned.
i bring you in from a foreign land to a land of better living... i give you shelter and i give you food. i give you love and i give you status... Mrs. so and so... i give you half of whatever i own when i marry you and everything in the event of my death. my HDB, my insurance claims and my CPF...
then behind my back... you go find another lover... you bite the hand that feeds you... do you deserve all of what i've done for you? no... never... go and f*uk yourself.
Yah.. but is that not the man's fault.
The foreign bride did not marry the man for love.
So just because a man provides material and shelter , she is to love the man ?
I don't think that's how love works.
This kind of marriage is merely a transaction. The man provides the goods and the woman provides her body.
A loveless marriage is doomed for failure from the beginning.
Originally posted by novelltie:
based entirely on the man's earning capability... how many percent, this only the judge can decide.
So that means only rich men needs to kao peh about alimony lah.
Poor men pay peanuts. LOL !!!
Originally posted by jojobeach:So that means only rich men needs to kao peh about alimony lah.
Poor men pay peanuts. LOL !!!
Peanuts is alot to a good poor man.
Every single cents count.
Ok, I rest my case. Too late and tired. I go and sleep.
Originally posted by jojobeach:So that means only rich men needs to kao peh about alimony lah.
Poor men pay peanuts. LOL !!!
true... you can't expect me to pay $1,500 when i only take home $2,500 right? the court will actually ask you to break down your expenses.
so if i take home $2,500 and i spend;
$600 - car instalment
$400 - petrol
$500 - groceries
$250 - phone bills and cable TV
$100 - insurance
$250 - road tax + season parking
i left $400 to give you... too bad
Originally posted by jojobeach:LOL !!!
So you want the law to favor the men ah . Then no woman will want to marry SG men lor !!
Why do you think foreign women don marry their own country men ? You think SG men got bigger cock issit ? No hor.
Foreign women marry their own country men = NO protection.
Foreign women marry SG men = Woman's Charter protection.
You ish think women are stupid issit ?
What i am trying to say is,our law should be fair to both sex,both men n women.
Lets say,if a man n a woman divorce,they should each take back their own money n property.Not all give to women.And then the children,it should let them decide who they want to follow,not women grab everything.
If our law only take side on one party,it will only show our PAP is unjust n shallow ministers.No one will respect them.
Originally posted by Cool-gal:
wad u mean?LKY n LHL forces wife to death?
how? never read this new b4 leh..
Even if there is truth in it... the media would not report it as well...
Anyway, we should be hearing from LKY lawyers on this matter to the person who seemingly deframe them in public soon...
Originally posted by Howlheje:What i am trying to say is,our law should be fair to both sex,both men n women.
Lets say,if a man n a woman divorce,they should each take back their own money n property.Not all give to women.And then the children,it should let them decide who they want to follow,not women grab everything.
If our law only take side on one party,it will only show our PAP is unjust n shallow ministers.No one will respect them.
the day the law is fair between men and women is when men starts getting pregnant.
put it this way. before you got married your net worth is $500,000. you got married and later on in life, after kids and promotions your net worth is $5,000,000. your wife can claim that it is due to her existence and assistance that now you are worth so much... she is liable to claim half of your net worth...
children? below 21, they have no say... end of story. if they are 21, they can even choose to follow Brad Pitt home, no one bothers.
Originally posted by novelltie:the day the law is fair between men and women is when men starts getting pregnant.
put it this way. before you got married your net worth is $500,000. you got married and later on in life, after kids and promotions your net worth is $5,000,000. your wife can claim that it is due to her existence and assistance that now you are worth so much... she is liable to claim half of your net worth...
children? below 21, they have no say... end of story. if they are 21, they can even choose to follow Brad Pitt home, no one bothers.
Then don get married lah. Then no legal/asset problem when divorce lor.
Two adults get together, don't sign on the marriage contract lah.
Children will still pop out without the marriage cert mah.
When adults not happy together then split lor. But both parent must still pay for the expenses of the children lah. Cannot just dump to one parent and run away mah.
Like that children also spared the bitter divorce games parents play lah.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Then don get married lah. Then no legal/asset problem when divorce lor.
Two adults get together, don't sign on the marriage contract lah.
Children will still pop out without the marriage cert mah.
When adults not happy together then split lor. But both parent must still pay for the expenses of the children lah. Cannot just dump to one parent and run away mah.
Like that children also spared the bitter divorce games parents play lah.
that may be a good idea but women will definitely want more "protection" that comes with a marriage certificate...
frankly, i think guys are okay without that marriage cert... it's the women that desires it.
Originally posted by novelltie:that may be a good idea but women will definitely want more "protection" that comes with a marriage certificate...
frankly, i think guys are okay without that marriage cert... it's the women that desires it.
no lah, we can live together, why need a certificate, that is just the laws, dun alway think we desire it, in states alone, there are milions of divorce per year without certificate and usually is the gal who find another man.
And in singapore alone, 12,000 abortion was performed last year...
You can divorce to get married but don't get married to divorce.
you can paid to get married, but dun fall in love and get married
Originally posted by angel7030:you can paid to get married, but dun fall in love and get married
Where got meaning? Sounds like some angry washed out whore typical philosophy like that.
like that I hide my 8 million and you can keep my 2 million.
A fool and his money is easily parted.
someone blowing trumpet again! wahahahha!
frankly, let's ask the gals here...
is it okay for you gals to stay together without a marriage certificate? means if happy stay together, if not happy break... clean cut break... you go left, i go right... no need certificate, no need to go court for alimony or compensation.
Originally posted by novelltie:frankly, let's ask the gals here...
is it okay for you gals to stay together without a marriage certificate? means if happy stay together, if not happy break... clean cut break... you go left, i go right... no need certificate, no need to go court for alimony or compensation.
Then got children how ?
Marriage cert is really for having children wat.
Get married no have kids is meaningless marriage lah. Because two can always cohab mah.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Then got children how ?
Marriage cert is really for having children wat.
Get married no have kids is meaningless marriage lah. Because two can always cohab mah.
then if no plan for children then don't get married lah. it's okay what nowadays... we are liberal and we are not bothered if you don't wish to get married.